Messages i receive at all day while im at work

I (45F) and my husband (46M) have been together for 12 years. Lately the verbal abuse has gotten worse and very dark. He is a disabled combat veteran. This week has been extremely difficult due to a storm that caused our 130 year old walnut tree to fall onto our barn. There was a lot of damage. Aside from trying to contact insurance, set up claim adjusters and job bids by myself, this is what I get all day while im at work. This comes out of nowhere. I want him to leave and I dont want to try and work through this. I cant take it anymore. The house is in my name but I dont think he will leave unless I get police involved. Even then, he will still have rights to live there. This isnt even the worst of his verbal abuse. He tells me he hopes I kill myself. He will wake me up all hours of the night so I lose sleep and have to call into work.

Side note: I am unable to have children so he says stuff like this all of the time.

u/CheeksMahoney1981 — 22 days ago

Santa Fe man found guilty of murder for convincing girlfriend to kill woman with sword https://www.krqe.com/news/new-mexico/santa-fe-man-found-guilty-of-murder-for-convincing-girlfriend-to-kill-woman-with-sword/

Has anyone else been following this case? I see a lot of similarities with Gypsy and Nick only in this case, Isaac Apodaca was sentenced to life for convincing his girlfriend Kiara to stab their female friend to death. Both cases involved weird LARP fantasy and role play.

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u/CheeksMahoney1981 — 1 month ago
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I blocked his family chat..

My husband (46M) and I (45F) have been together for 12 years. His family lives out of state so I was included on his family chat via text message. It consists of me, husband, his father and stepmother, 3 brothers and 2 of their wives. My brother in law's wife is extremely aggressive and posts pictures of herself daily with a new outift, new hobbies, etc. She is 35 years old. I was annoyed at first because I kept getting notifications all day long while I was at work. Then she started sending the group pictures of her 7 yr old daughter playing outside with no clothes on or sometimes just underwear. While some parents might think this is innocent sharing of "cute kid pics", I was very uncomfortable with it. A lot of the pics you could see her private area while or she was posing completely naked. I told my husband how weird that was and he just brushed it off and said, "she just likes to send photos of the kids" After about the third time of extremely uncomfortable pics, I blocked the family chat. I didnt say why, I just dipped. Now everyone thinks im just being a bitch because according to them, "im jealous of her". Am I overreacting or is this fkn weird?

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u/CheeksMahoney1981 — 2 months ago