u/Chemical-End-8577

So me and my bf have been dating for about 2 years now. We had a very happy and a stable relationship all along. But the issue is, I am in my final year of college, so I have plenty of time during my day. He works and goes to office and comes back at around 10 in the night. He clearly doesnt have energy to stay awake or talk at night. In the morning I have to go to college. And even at night when we facetime for sometime, it is pretty dry and we dont have anything to talk about except the usual how was you day, what did you eat kinda stuff. We’ve had tons of arguments over him sleeping early at night. He is a morning person and I am a night owl. We do not get time to talk apart from weekends. Every night my mood gets off either because he doesnt have energy to talk maybe, or we are just out of things to talk about idk. Idk how to handle this. We love each other plenty, have a very healthy relationship otherwise. Two years were pretty smooth tbh. But now it feels kinda messed up. He doesnt really feel any issue in anything thats going on. I dont think this is working for me coz every night my mind gets fucked up because of us not being able to talk. Not asking about will this work or not, or shd we end. Just asking solutions on how do i not feel bad every night. Coz i know he is no where at fault here. But im just a gurl. I wait for him all day for him to stay silent on calls at night. How do I help myself in this ?

Tldr: been tgthr for 2 yrs. ldr bf works whereas i go to college. We dont find a common time to talk. And at night he is too tired to talk or just stays silent. Every night my mood goes off coz of this. Relationship has been extremely stable mature and non chaotic but feels like it has lost the spark. How to fix this.

So me and my bf have been dating for about 2 years now. We had a very happy and a stable relationship all along. But the issue is, I am in my final year of college, so I have plenty of time during my day. He works and goes to office and comes back at around 10 in the night. He clearly doesnt have energy to stay awake or talk at night. In the morning I have to go to college. And even at night when we facetime for sometime, it is pretty dry and we dont have anything to talk about except the usual how was you day, what did you eat kinda stuff. We’ve had tons of arguments over him sleeping early at night. He is a morning person and I am a night owl. We do not get time to talk apart from weekends. Every night my mood gets off either because he doesnt have energy to talk maybe, or we are just out of things to talk about idk. Idk how to handle this. We love each other plenty, have a very healthy relationship otherwise. Two years were pretty smooth tbh. But now it feels kinda messed up. He doesnt really feel any issue in anything thats going on. I dont think this is working for me coz every night my mind gets fucked up because of us not being able to talk. Not asking about will this work or not, or shd we end. Just asking solutions on how do i not feel bad every night. Coz i know he is no where at fault here. But im just a gurl. I wait for him all day for him to stay silent on calls at night. How do I help myself in this ?

So me and my bf have been dating for about 2 years now. We had a very happy and a stable relationship all along. But the issue is, I am in my final year of college, so I have plenty of time during my day. He works and goes to office and comes back at around 10 in the night. He clearly doesnt have energy to stay awake or talk at night. In the morning I have to go to college. And even at night when we facetime for sometime, it is pretty dry and we dont have anything to talk about except the usual how was you day, what did you eat kinda stuff. We’ve had tons of arguments over him sleeping early at night. He is a morning person and I am a night owl. We do not get time to talk apart from weekends. Every night my mood gets off either because he doesnt have energy to talk maybe, or we are just out of things to talk about idk. Idk how to handle this. We love each other plenty, have a very healthy relationship otherwise. Two years were pretty smooth tbh. But now it feels kinda messed up. He doesnt really feel any issue in anything thats going on. I dont think this is working for me coz every night my mind gets fucked up because of us not being able to talk. Not asking about will this work or not, or shd we end. Just asking solutions on how do i not feel bad every night. Coz i know he is no where at fault here. But im just a gurl. I wait for him all day for him to stay silent on calls at night. How do I help myself in this ?

Tldr: been tgthr for 2 yrs. ldr bf works whereas i go to college. We dont find a common time to talk. And at night he is too tired to talk or just stays silent. Every night my mood goes off coz of this. Relationship has been extremely stable mature and non chaotic but feels like it has lost the spark. How to fix this.