u/Chubby_Licious

I (31f) used to have a full bush, dark, curly, and thick. I loved it I always liked the look of it on me and kept it trimmed. Ever since I hit 27 or so it changes. It's straight and sparse. Like my vagina is balding. I hate it, but I hate shaving more because of the bumps.

Weirdly enough it has made me self-conscious about it. I'm sure most people don't care about how it looks, but I miss it. It's like those old ladies in horror movies that have like 3 strands of hair. I miss my glorious hair.

I (31f) went on a date the other night with a guy (28m) who had some similar likes. We met on Tinder and I had listed horror movies, anime, ect., and we had some of those things in common. At one point during dinner, though, he asked me what my favorite horror movie was, and I was about to answer he cut me off.

He told me I couldn't say Scream, Child's Play, Final Destination, or The Shining. Because they are basic horror movies, that arent even good. I was thrown off cause I'm pretty sure he wanted to start a debate or something about it. Cause I had a Scream wallpaper on my phone, and I know he saw it when I showed him something on it. Granted I like these movies so it threw me off on how they shouldn't be listed.

I answered with Thir13n Ghosts (I know I have shit taste. I've liked this movie since I was a kid). He told me he'd never seen it, and I know it's not popular, so it's not surprising. He then told me his favorite is Halloween and went on a rant about how he was superior to any other horror movies. Something about comparing Jason and Michael Myers. idk man, I'm not into either Halloween or Friday the 13th.

I was so confused cause I feel like Halloween is probably a basic answer. Idk why he thought that it wasn't. I tried bringing up that I liked the Scream series, but only like the first 3 movies. He told me I had basic taste in movies. That I must not actually watch horror movies. That I must only watch whats popular. He then kept talking about Halloween like it's his baby. I literally could not talk about anything cause he just wanted to brag about Halloween and how strong and cool Michael Myers is.

The date soured pretty quickly because who the fuck insults someone on a first date? I was annoyed even after we changed the topic so after we ate I went home.

I'm not saying I have great taste in media in general. Hell, I don't really watch anything anymore and just listen to youtube videos talking about random topics.

If I watch something though, it's horror. I have a large collection of horror movies, even if they're awful like The Gingerdead Man or The Evil Bong. It's well known to my family and friends that I love Horror. wtf was he on about?

I bought an Elegoo Mars 2 from a neighbor for $10. She told me it was a hobby she couldn't get into. I thought maybe it would be something I could get into. I'm doing a little research and found that I would need a USB. It didn't come in the box, and she said if it wasn't there, it was lost. Is there a specific type, or do I have to order one from the website? Are there any tips for using this? I might be too over my head for this, but I thought it would be fun to make fun little figures.

Yesterday we found out that the freezer/cooler stuff was going to 70%. We weren't going to tell anyone till the day of because our boss was letting us pick stuff we wanted first, plus some customers would be annoying about it if they knew beforehand. Last night a penny shopper/regular was telling us about when it was happening. None of us would have told her this, hell only 3 of us only knew for a majority of the day. How would she know about the remodeling clearance at the same time or before us?

I figured the remodeling clearance would be difficult to find out because its not a company wide sale.

I was wondering what it all entails. I know that there's going to be 70% off sale, is it on everything or just certain things? When they do the remodel, do we work those days or do we just have it off? It's estimated to last 4-5 days, depending on what kind of extra work they have to do to the building. Is there any way to prep for it so that we are ahead of it?

Sorry, I just feel like a lot of the work that's going to happen for this is likely going to fall on my shoulders (which it shouldn't cause I'm just an SA). I just want to be prepared, so I'm not stressed over some bs that could have been avoided.

I was under the impression that we weren't allowed to take IDs from other countries unless it's a passport. We type in the birthdays instead of scanning because, the majority of the time, when we scan on the main register, it will freeze it up.

I noticed one of our keys taking a Mexican ID today. I mentioned to her that we weren't supposed to do that. She told me that we were allowed to take it because it's an official form of ID. Another coworker told me that the videos never stated ID had to be from the states.

I was under the impression it had to be from the states/territories or a passport. Was I wrong about this I just want to double-check. I feel bad if I'm wrong because I've rejected out-of-country IDs before. I worked at a gas station before this, so maybe I mixxed or assumed the policies were similar.

My Cousin (1.5 years old) was murdered by their mom's (my cousin's) boyfriend when I was 10. He'd beaten them to death. He went to jail for a short time, and his mom didn't get punished for it. The justice system really did fail my baby cousin in this case.

Growing up, I was told that she was too young to see what was happening. That she didn't know any better. In the last few years, I've grown to resent her more. I believed it at first, but every year I got closer to her age I knew that's not the truth. Especially when a month before she showed us a fist-sized bruise on their stomach, claiming it was from a fall laughing about it. That he was clumsy and her bf didn't watch him well because he seems to get more bruised when he's babysitting.

In the last few years CPS had taken him away right after she showed my mom the bruises. I suspect that Mom was the one who called. I didn't even know that he was taken away at the time, and just thought my cousins were too busy to go over and hang out. They gave him back a few days before the murder. Telling her she was the only one to be with him until the investigation was done. She needed to go to work and decided her bf was the right choice. That's how my little cousin died from internal bleeding because a POS decided to beat a baby.

I believe she knew he was beating him. She tried blaming a different family member for it to CPS. She didn't support or defend him after my baby Cousin died. But she has put her oldest kid last in her mind. Men have always been her first priority. It's awful. She has also made sure that there is no evidence my baby cousin existed. She refuses to talk about them, refuses to have pictures of them, she refuses to even let her oldest talk about them. I can see in a way, it has to be unbearable, but to act like they never existed is so painful for her oldest. Also, see her intentionally not mention him in certain things. I'm sure when she dies, she wouldn't want him mentioned in her obituary.

I watch true crime YouTube videos, and once in a while, a thought of bringing the case to a YouTuber flashes in my mind. I kind of hope that someone would talk about it. That my baby cousin wouldn't be forgotten, that it would ruin that man's life even more. Which it wasn't. That man is out there thriving, running a restaurant, and with his family's support.

I'm not going to do it because it's painful, even though it happened 20 years ago. It's just a selfish thought that comes by. I won't do it because it would cause old wounds to be brought up with everyone in my family.

I'm ignoring it I can't let this happen anymore. I'm so tired of my coworkers constantly calling in. I'm a SA I should not be your first call. I'm not coming in. I'm tired. I don't get paid to do this shit. I'm tired of giving up my time to this fucking place.

For 2 days in a row, I was in the store hours by myself because our LSA called in (for legit reasons tbh) and basically was just let into the store with my register and the passcode to the safe by the closer, who went back home. I used to be a LSA so they trust me. I dont get paid for this shit. I really don't want to be a LSA again for this exact reason. I'm not responsible for this fucking store. Pay me more than minimum wage and maybe I'll be willing, but if not, fuck you guys.

Our store is also so disgusting. I can't fathom how we don't get more complaints about the smell and unclean floors. They are supposed to mop at night before closing, but don't. I went to the area where they keep the mop buckets. Apparently, they haven't dumped the mop buckets for a long time because it looks like it's starting its own ecosystem right now.

We also can't get anyone to come in to fix the fucking toilets. I guess DG can't do it, and the owners in charge of it. We've had literal shit in the toilet for over a week.

I'm going have to quit I have days where I've enjoyed this job and a lot that I don't. Idk if I can work with such irresponsible people it's really getting to me. I can't even clean or do anything because I'm on the register 24/7 and then they complain that they can't get the things I used to be tasked with done in time.