Just ran across this on another sub and it reminds of the type of stuff that Dave is always warning people about.
Mother-in-law buys a house for daugher and son, but keeps it in her name. Daughter and son make payments to MIL. MIL pass away, other famiy members want to take the house
RealEstateAdvice - Mother-In-Law purchased house.

I just filled out a form to get their price and they've been texting, calling, emailing over and over. And just now they somehow called me on my personal phone (I didn't answer). Don't know how they even got that. I use google voice for everything but friends and family.

I've been blocking the correspondence as it comes it.

Edit to add: Is this subreddit just for commercial companies to advertise to posters?

Currently 60 years old.
Was a vegan for 20 years (mostly whole foods, no sugar but way too much fruit)
Went Keto for a few months, then strict carnivorse starting in 2017. No back and forth, no "cheats". No coffee, no dairy. Just red meat and a little bit of chicken. Still water and plain sparkling water.

I was eating a LOT of fat. Ribeyes, back ribs.. And I would buy fat trimmings, air fry it and eat it like it was french fries. Felt great on high fat.

Then in 2025, I couldn't tolerate all the fat anymore. Had to switch from ribeyes to NY strips. Then had to start trimming the fat off NY strips. Now in 2026, I can hardly eat trimmed NY strips. (stomach cramps, tummy rumbles etc..). Been eating more chicken but I don't even really like it and dont feel optimal on it.

So just a couple of days ago, I switched to leg of lamb steak and now I'm adding an extremely tiny amount of fruit as I don't think I can eat just lean protein all the time.

I'm sensitive to eggs, fish, dairy. So haven't had those. Well i did try small amounts of dairy in the beginning, but didn't do well.

I dont know what changed. Maybe age (but I feel like at my age, I should be getting more fat). Maybe a tick bite. I found an attached tick around 2024 and a few months later, I got really sick (like norovirus symptoms). I have no idea of those 2 events are related.

I have not been to a doctor. I'm not on any meds. Dont take any supplements. Don't use spices.. No vaccines. Well none since 2006 when I left the military.

Ref: https://www.reddit.com/r/homeowners/comments/1oq7f6x/if_you_are_home_inside_your_house_in_your_yard/

House across the street from house was vacant. I told nextdoor neighbor that the realtor asked me to occasionally park in front of the hosue to make it look occupied.

10 minutes later, one of the segway solicitors is rolling through the neighborhood. Mouthy neighbor sees solicitor going towards the empty house and calls out "no one lives there!". Why or why would she tell a stranger that a house is empty?! And literally 10 minutes after I told her they wanted the house to look occupied.

ref: https://www.reddit.com/r/neighborsfromhell/comments/1ol9xm8/am_i_the_nbh/
TLDR. I had an electric mower, thought it was okay to mow at 7 AM. But since she complained, I started waiting until 8 AM or whenever I'd see that she was up and about.

Most recent development. 7 AM. I see a neighbor at the corner mowing (2 houses away). And the neighbor directly across the street from my problem neighbor is mowing. And the problem neighbor was in her driveway setting up for a yard sale (outside before me). So I start mowing (assuming it's safe to mow early).

She yells out "thanks for stirring up the mosquitoes again!" (in a shrill tone). I said "you're welcome" and continued mowing (didn't even slow down).

What did she mean by the "again" part you might wonder. I don't know. My guess is that the day before I think she was mad that I was watering my grass.

We are allowed to water 1 day a week and I like to water long and deep. I water for 15 to 20 minutes, wait and hour or, then water some more. To prevent runoff. So I had watered at 6 AM, then I was moving my sprinklers around at 8 AM and neighbor was outside. She said (in a shrill tone), I thought you already watered?!
None of the water was touching her yard, there was no wind to make an overspray.

I have this kit

As you can see the flat pads don't have the a thing to go into the screw driver. I usually put them on the brush and they stick there for general indoor stuff.

But I want to grind down some concrete patches outside. When I try to put the rough wheel on the brush, it slides right off. I need something to sand but also someting with a bit that go into my drill. I've been searching at walmart qand amazon but not finding what I want.
Everything is just a flat wheel with no bit. I don't want to buy a whole sander just for this very small job.

How do I conduct my search?

yesterday, finished grilling aorund noon. Closed the vent on the grill then went to work. Got home about 7:30 and the wood was still burning. Waited until 9/9:30 PM, wood still burning.

I'm sure I could wet it to make it go out, then I'd have a soggy mess plus I couldn't reuse the wood the next day.

How is this issue normally addressed?

Thanks

Is this a normal part of the seller contract?
I have asked 4 different realtors for a contract that I can read over before signing. Only two would send me a contract.

One realtor sent the contract and I asked him to remove that paragraph. He said it's state law and can't be changed.

I asked the other realtor the same. She said she'd get with her broker.

I tried to post a snip of the paragraph, but reddit would not let it go through.

Edit to add. The bot told me to answer these questions

Please make sure you have included the following information in your post.

• Location - south Texas
• Have you asked your broker, team lead/mentor, or an attorney? - Yes
• Buyers/Sellers/Clients : I haven't hired anyone yet, but I have spoken to several realtors

Well in my last post. I mentioned that one realtor sent me a blank contract. The other realtor I'm thinking about using sent a contract that I've been slowly going over. The first thing I noticed was that it's for a full year. I'm thinking about asking for 6 months instead.

Not finished reviewing but decided to run the contract through AI. Something I didn't notice was dual agency allowed (according to AI). I had asked the realtor about this (because the contract kind of seemed like it did allow it). He said he doesn't believe in it. But AI says the contact allows for it.

Here is the whole breakdown from AI. Please tell me if some of this stuff is standard or if I should be pushing back.

Sorry, this is going to look extra long. I tried to put the info into a google doc and share a link, but I got a warning. So pasting text below
Thank you

Here’s a plain‑English risk/concern review of your Texas listing agreement. I’ll focus on provisions that could cost you money, limit your flexibility, or create liability.

🔴 Biggest Concerns / Risks

1) You owe commission in more situations than just a sale

• Commission is earned if any of these happen:
  • You agree to sell (even if it never closes) [Walker | PDF]
  • Broker finds a “ready, willing, able” buyer—even if you don’t accept [Walker | PDF]
  • You breach the agreement [Walker | PDF]

👉 Why this matters:
You could owe ~6% commission without a completed sale.

2) Long commitment (12 months)

• Listing runs May 4, 2026 → May 4, 2027 [Walker | PDF]

👉 Concern:

• You’re locked into this broker for a full year.
• No easy exit clause is visible.

✅ Tip: Many listings are 3–6 months.

3) Protection period (tail) still triggers commission

• 60‑day protection window after the contract ends [Walker | PDF]

👉 Meaning:

• If someone the agent showed the home to buys later → you still owe commission.

4) You must pay even if BUYER defaults

• If a buyer backs out and you keep earnest money:
  • Broker gets up to 50% of what you recover [Walker | PDF]

👉 This is often overlooked and surprises sellers.

5) Exclusive listing = you can’t self-sell without paying

• This is exclusive right to sell [Walker | PDF]

👉 Even if:

• You find the buyer yourself
• A friend/family member buys

➡️ You still owe the full commission.

6) 6% total commission (3% + 3%)

• Total: 6.000%
• Split: 3% listing / 3% buyer side [Walker | PDF]

👉 Concern:

• Still standard, but fully negotiable (contract says so).
• You are locked into this rate once signed.

7) Broad indemnity (you take most legal risk)

You must:

• Defend and pay legal costs if issues arise [Walker | PDF]
• Cover damages caused by:
  • Incorrect info
  • Failure to disclose
  • Property condition issues

👉 This shifts a lot of liability onto you.

8) Broker not responsible for damage or security

• You assume risk for:
  • Theft
  • Damage
  • Injuries during showings [Walker | PDF]

👉 Even if strangers enter via lockbox.

9) You must route ALL buyers through broker

• You agree:
  • Not to negotiate directly with buyers [Walker | PDF]

👉 Practical impact:

• You lose control over negotiations and communications.

10) Irrevocable license for your photos/content

• Broker can:
  • Use and distribute your listing photos/content indefinitely
  • Even after the listing ends [Walker | PDF]

👉 Not a deal-breaker, but permanent.

11) Showing access risk (lockbox clause)

• You:
  • Accept risk for unauthorized entry
  • Indemnify broker unless they’re negligent [Walker | PDF]

👉 Important if you have valuables.

12) Default clause ≈ automatic commission

If you:

• Don’t cooperate
• Or breach any term

➡️ You can owe full commission anyway [Walker | PDF]

🟡 Moderate Concerns

MLS exposure (good, but binding)

• MLS listing likely enabled (checked) [Walker | PDF]
• All listing data becomes MLS property

👉 Standard, but not reversible later.

Intermediary (dual agency allowed)

• Broker can represent both buyer and seller [Walker | PDF]

👉 Risk:

• Less negotiation transparency
• Reduced advocacy

You must stay financially current

You represent:

• No lien issues
• No HOA arrears
• No title problems [Walker | PDF]

👉 If incorrect → legal exposure.

🟢 Neutral / Standard

• Mediation required before litigation
• Attorney’s fees to prevailing party
• Equal housing compliance
• Disclosure requirements

(All typical for Texas contracts)

✅ Key Questions You Should Consider (Actionable)

Before signing (or if still editable), consider:

1. Can I shorten the term to 6 months?
2. Can I add a termination clause?
   • Example: cancel after 30 days with notice
3. Can I reduce commission (e.g., 5% total)?
4. Can I exclude specific buyers?
   • (family/friends list)
5. Can I limit intermediary (dual agency)?
6. Do I want a shorter protection period (30 days instead of 60)?

⚠️ Bottom Line

This is a standard Texas REALTOR® listing contract, but:

👉 The biggest financial risks are:

• Owing commission without a sale closing
• Being locked in for 12 months
• Liability + indemnity heavily favoring the broker

If you want, I can mark this up with recommended edits you could ask your agent to change before signing.

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Copilot said:

Copilot

Here are specific edits / negotiation points you can give your agent (or request in writing)—worded so you can actually use them. I’ll flag each as HIGH priority (money/risk) vs optional improvement.

🔴 HIGH‑PRIORITY CHANGES (Strongly Recommend)

1) Shorten the listing term

Current: ~12 months [Walker | PDF]

✅ Request:

>

📌 Why:
Long lock-in reduces your leverage if the agent underperforms.

2) Add a unilateral termination clause

Not currently included

✅ Add under Special Provisions (Section 15):

>

📌 Why:
Without this, you’re stuck unless the broker agrees to release you.

3) Limit commission to CLOSED sale only

Current: Commission earned even without closing [Walker | PDF]

✅ Replace with:

>

📌 Why:
Avoid paying commission if:

• Buyer backs out
• You decline an offer
• A deal falls through

4) Reduce or cap commission

Current: 6% total (3% + 3%) [Walker | PDF]

✅ Options:

• Ask for 5% total
• Or:

>

📌 Why:
You shouldn’t pay full buyer-agent commission if there isn’t one.

5) Add “named parties exclusion”

Not present (critical)

✅ Add:

>

📌 Why:
Protects you if:

• Family
• Friends
• Private buyers purchase the property.

6) Shorten protection period

Current: 60 days [Walker | PDF]

✅ Change to:

>

📌 Why:
Limits how long you’re tied to paying commission after contract ends.

7) Limit buyer default payout

Current: Broker gets up to 50% of damages/earnest money [Walker | PDF]

✅ Replace with:

>

📌 Why:
That money should compensate YOU for lost time and risk.

🟠 IMPORTANT RISK REDUCTIONS

8) Reduce your indemnity exposure

Current: You broadly indemnify broker [Walker | PDF]

✅ Edit to:

>

📌 Why:
Right now, you’re covering almost everything.

9) Add showing/lockbox protections

Current: You assume risk for theft/damage [Walker | PDF]

✅ Add:

>

📌 Why:
Adds accountability for who enters your home.

10) Limit intermediary (dual agency)

Currently allowed [Walker | PDF]

✅ Option A (strict):

>

✅ Option B (middle ground):

>

📌 Why:
Avoids conflict of interest.

11) Allow direct communication

Current: You must route buyers through broker [Walker | PDF]

✅ Modify:

>

📌 Why:
Gives you visibility and control.

🟡 OPTIONAL IMPROVEMENTS

12) Limit marketing rights after contract ends

Current: Broker keeps rights to your listing content forever [Walker | PDF]

✅ Add:

>

13) Require performance expectations

✅ Add:

>

14) Require approval for pricing reductions

✅ Add:

>

(Usually implied, but good to make explicit.)

✅ CLEAN SUMMARY (What I’d push hardest)

If you only negotiate a few things, prioritize:

1. ✅ Termination clause
2. ✅ Commission only at closing
3. ✅ Shorter listing term (6 months)
4. ✅ Lower commission or adjusted structure
5. ✅ Named buyer exclusions
6. ✅ Reduce protection period

⚠️ Final Thought

This contract is standard Texas Realtor form, but:

• It is written heavily in the broker’s favor
• Almost everything you change must go into Section 15 (Special Provisions)

✅ If you want, I can:

• Rewrite a clean “ready-to-paste” Section 15 with all recommended protections combined
• Or help you prioritize what this specific agent is most likely to agree to based on market norms in San Antonio right now

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Update. Realtor #3 just messaged back (20 minutes after i texted her. wants to chat today. told her I'd be ready in about 30 minutes)

Update
At about 7:30 AM this morning, I sent a text to #3. About 1 minute later, #2 messaged me (responding to the message I sent him Sunday morning). He wants to set up a phone consult tomorrow (which we set up).
#3 has not responded to my text (but it's only been about 10 minutes)
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I had my list of realtors narrowed down to 3 people.

1. Neighbor recommend. Lots of 5 star reviews on zillow, etc.. Met her in person and seemed helpful and nice. I emailed her to tell her I was about ready to get started and haven't heard back in 2 weeks.
2. Recommended by 2 coworkers. I found two bad reviews. Rest were all 5s. I messaged him on Sunday morning. As of very early Monday morning, have not heard back.
3. I met at an open house in my subdivision. And she also lives in my subdivision (maybe 1 mile from my house). The house for sale had nothing special and nothing was updated yet it sold very quickly. She mentioned that she could help clients sell without them having to do much to the house. She seemed easy to talk to and was not pushy.

When I tried to research her online, all I can find is her profile. I can't find any ratings - good nor bad.

I like the fact that she lives in my subdivision but wondering how much weight that fact should be factored into my consideration? Since I haven't heard back from the other two, should this realtor move up to #1 or do I need to start creating another list?

Edit to add: I'm selling and don't plan on getting another property in my current state

Century 21 realtor. These awards are listed on his page. He has been a realtor for about 15 years.

Awards

2025 Masters Emerald

2024 Quality Service Producer

2023 Masters Ruby

2022 Masters Emerald

He was recommened by 2 coworkers who have used him.
I've spoken to several realtors and narrowed my list down to 3. Number one on my list has not returned my email so he is currently #1.

Thanks