Just unsubbed from AsexualDating, because, even putting aside the quality of the personals on there, it was so disturbing to constantly be subjected to the "Advice" posts which basically were either "How can I sexually coerce my partner," "My partner is sexually coercing me," or "How can I cheat on my partner"
Just so absolutely disgusting.
I'm Eric, 43, 5'11", around 220 lbs, and I live in downtown Minneapolis, though I'm originally from Massachusetts. I work in IT / Product Support (currently moreso Product Support) and have a Master's degree. I'm divorced, have no children, and am firmly childfree, with a vasectomy scheduled for September. I'm monogamous, asexual, possibly demi, and sex-averse, and I'm looking for a serious long-term relationship.
I'm quiet, affectionate, and admittedly clingy once I care about someone. I like frequent messages, good morning and good night texts, cuddling, long conversations, and sharing the ordinary parts of the day. I love The Simpsons more than I probably should, play turn-based JRPGs, and enjoy peaceful routines, walks, Italian food, and living somewhere walkable. I'm disabled and use a cane, but I live alone, have a good-paying job, and have managed my life independently for years. I'm Covid-conscious and wear an N95 whenever I'm out. I never drink, smoke, or use drugs.
I'm hoping to meet a kind, communicative, childfree woman who wants affection, loyalty, and a relationship that eventually becomes a shared life. Long distance is fine if we are both serious about meeting and closing the gap, and I'm open to relocating for the right person, including outside the US. Attraction matters, so I'm happy to exchange recent pictures early. Tell me where you are, what a happy everyday relationship looks like to you, and something you could happily talk about for hours.
43 [M4F] Minneapolis, MN. Can host. I want to cuddle.
I've literally never spent the night holding someone in my arms. I just want to hold and be held so badly. All I want is to cuddle.
Is there a sub like "Mom for a minute" but "Partner/Girlfriend/Wife for a minute"?
Not in any sort of creepy sense, but kind of in the same way that r/MomForAMinute functions.