u/Classic_Context7750

so i probably have general anxiety but im not diagnosed with anything so idk just saying this for clarification.
so i think about disrespect and being fucked with at school etc etc etc a LOT like the whole day since mid-late 2024. like i dont get bullied its just i think about the times i got disrespected so often its like its a daily occurrence.
also it feels like i have a really small world i cant think of anything else except the past and the future (by future i think of disrespect, again, although i imagine myself being respected by that time)

for clarification im in highschool

so for the past 1-2 years my life has genuinely been revolving around me thinking/being anxious/shameful/angry of how i’ve been disrespected in school ykwim
like all i do all day about is resonate about all the times i got insulted embarrassed fucked with and so on. i js cant think of normal problems. and for some reason it also feels like my world is really really small, when i think of the future i also think of disrespect

may sound absolutely ridiculous but i cant think of a better explanation and im lowk tired atm

i made this post yesterday but i accidentally deleted it my apologies mods, also this version has some more info/better written than my old cluttered up post

Okay so i see her in the hallways only and she’s always with some friends. What i know about her is: Shes the same nationality as i am, she is shy/socially anxious, gets no male attention (sounds brutal to say it that way), and i know her tiktok account, and we share a lot of interests and are very very alike personality wise

BUT
she doesnt know me at all like we haven’t spoken one word, so idk how to talk to her if shes always with friends and would most likely not talk to me again out of shyness so i gotta make the first moves always, BUT: a good friend of mine who could help me goes in her class, i just dont know HOW he could help me

At the moment i have 2 plans:

1. Ask her out directly, possibly with help from my friend (Problem: she’d probably panic and just say no)
2. Try to get to know her, slow way (Problem: she’d just talk to me once she aint the type to talk to people first and i cant always be talking first i could make her uncomfortable or sum)
3. You guys give me ideas