u/Clear_Interaction_87

Kind of a rant. I’m just tired of being told that is too short too tight all my life about clothes, finding something cute and having to turn over so that my mom can check how my butt looks in it… and now that I am a woman being looked down upon because I’m apparently not dressing feminine enough . I wear skirts and dresses but I wanna dress comfortably sometimes. I’m tired. Modest clothing in europe is mostly masculine. I do not like modest dresses and I find them uncomfortable. I have shed more frustrated tears in european clothing stores than my brother probably has shed in his lifetime. It sucks to have lost the 50% chance at conception. Why must people care so much about what women dress like it’s just so stupid. Thanks for listening to my rant.

I used to inflict scars years ago on my upper thighs now they’re mostly paled apart from a few raised purple ones. But they’re really obvious, enough to get a reaction from my close friends when I was changing near them. I’m muslim so I never wore swimwear since I hit puberty… but for a family get away we’re going to have a small pool and I want to wear something comfortable finally in my adult life. Most of the women’s swim shorts are really just the same size as underwear. Where can I find longer shorts? Should I just buy men’s swim trunks? I personally don’t mind my scars,but I care for my mums feelings. I wouldn’t like seeing my daughter’s legs look such way. I hurt her enough as is. Any advice would be very much appreciated.

I am still in college, a virgin. I am often constipated and even when I’m not I feel as if I am. I have little pebbles of feces left that I subconsciously take out in the shower. I urinate often, Like more than 5 times a day. I used to strain a lot in the bathroom and stay for a long time too, I didn’t know that the pelvic floor was just muscle, it never occurred to me that it wasn’t solid I guess, until a few years ago. I try not to strain or stay long in the bathroom anymore but sometimes I can’t help it. Theres always mucosa when I poop and I can feel something bulging out. I used to think it was just my constipation but it is slimy and feels meat like so I’m afraid it’s my rectum. Ive been ignoring it because I was busy with uni but it hasn’t gone away so I will be talking to my GP about it. I didn’t even think it was possible until I looked it up after feeling something poking out of me. I’m terrified and I don’t know what to do or feel. Can it be something other than a rectocele? And if it is can it go back to normal?