u/ClippyWouldntDoThat

Hey all. I'm Elizabeth (in the 2nd photo) this is Sara.

We're not especially comfortable having a GFM as there's so many people in need, but I think it's time we admit that we need a hand up.

I can say for certainty that this GFM would completely repair our lives, and set us up for the rest of our lives.

GFM has a FAQ section & financial breakdown, and I'm available for any questions in the comments.

https://gofund.me/615d87e06

Sara & I have been homeless in the back of a sedan converted to be disability-friendly since March after back to back layoffs in her sector, first due to massive corporate bankruptcy, the second due to restructuring.

While my (Elizabeth's) condition is genetic and responding to treatment, Sara was made severely disabled at only 37yo by code-violating housing that was illegal to rent to us. I've been her full time caretaker day & night since that happened many years ago. Even then, the situation is becoming beyond what I can handle. There's no good time for me to sleep without putting Sara at very real risk. The legalities surrounding that illegal rental had us couch surfing, and in & out of extended stays while trying to make a recovery.

This was fine until the back to back layoffs, which have left us completely exposed. It's now becoming life-threatening to Sara to stay in this area, but it's where the money is.

I finally got a windfall with a job out-of-state, in a region where we had always dreamed of moving to together, but need help closing the financial gap;

as of right now, we can't afford our medications even with assistance, govt services are taking too long, and multiple ER trips due to the heat have caused delays for bills. Sara was improving with a breakthrough treatment that may help her become fully abled again, but is being massively set back and at-risk.

This is my dream job, I hope to be in it for a long time; it's in the region we've wanted to settle in for almost a decade now, and it might very well be the place we grow old together.

The GFM itself has more information.

Thank you for reading. Y'all stay safe yourselves!

Hey all. I'm Elizabeth (pictured left) and this is Sara.

We're not especially comfortable having a GFM, as there's so many people in need, but I think it's time we admit that it's our turn needing a hand up. I can't watch her go through this anymore.

I can say for certainty that this GFM would completely repair our lives, and set us up for the rest of our lives. There's a plan in place that needs gap-closing in finances.

If we happened to meet our goal, our expenditures almost completely flatline, turning almost all earnings into savings.

The GFM has a FAQ section & financial breakdown, and I'm available for any questions in the comments.

https://gofund.me/615d87e06

Sara & I have been homeless in the back of a sedan converted to be disability-friendly since March after back to back layoffs in her sector, first due to massive corporate bankruptcy, the second due to restructuring.

While my (Elizabeth's) condition is genetic and responding to treatment, Sara was made severely disabled at only 37yo by code-violating housing that was illegal to rent to us.

Sara was too young, too abled, too healthy, too athletic & active, eats too well, was too lean, and had no genetic factors to receive congestive heart failure, afib, and extreme sleep apnea diagnosis. This directly coincided with her exposure to the code violating environment which is illegal because these violations cause these emergent conditions and kill people.

Her healthcare team is extremely worried about her prognosis and considers her at emergent risk of death, now in +100F conditions and routinely blacking out.

I've been her full time caretaker day & night since that happened many years ago. Even then, the situation is becoming beyond what I can handle. There's no good time for me to sleep without putting Sara at very real risk. The legalities surrounding that illegal rental had us couch surfing, and in & out of extended stays while trying to make a recovery.

This was fine enough until the back to back layoffs, which have left us completely exposed. It's now becoming life-threatening to Sara to stay in this area, but it's where the money is.

I finally got a windfall with a job out-of-state, in a region where we had always dreamed of moving to together, but need help closing the financial gap;

as of right now, we can't afford our medications even with assistance, govt services are taking too long, and multiple ER trips due to the heat have caused delays for bills. Sara was improving with a breakthrough treatment that may help her become fully abled again, but is being massively set back and at-risk.

This is my dream job, I hope to be in it for a long time; it's in the region we've wanted to settle in for almost a decade now, and it might very well be the place we grow old together.

The GFM itself has more information.

Thank you for reading. Y'all stay safe yourselves!

Found in the parking lot at about 5:30-6pm! They weren't yet too hot, so it had only been a few minutes. Please come get your keys!!

Found in the parking lot at about 5:30-6pm! They weren't yet too hot, so it had only been a few minutes. Please come get your keys!!

I wasn't able to get a photo so I drew him from memory. He looked ratty and unevenly wet, and extremely uncomfortable. I couldn't figure out how to get to him

Okay, I really hope this doesn't get removed because I'm hoping for Reddit to do its thing. I work delivery gigs late at night all over Dallas, Tx. I visited an Indian place in Irving that I'll leave anonymous for his privacy; but, I held the door for him and commented on his Three Days Grace shirt, because I grew up with the band since their first self-titled album. I was listening to it yesterday even.

He stopped to try and chat with me, but it was just too busy for me personally to concentrate on the conversation.

I didn't get a chance to ask what band he's from before the crowd bubbled us apart without feeling like I was prying into his life.

Now it's eating me because it sounds like their work overlaps genres I've loved all my life and I REALLY want to listen to the discography!!! 😭 All I had to do was ask but I didn't want to be rude and it slipped my mind in the bustle! fuuuuuucccccckk!

Maybe y'all will have a closer idea what bands they're known to collab and chart with than I do.

- Wore a crisp Three Days Grace Explosions 2022 t-shirt, the orange version

- Spoke well of 3DG, Godsmack, & one other

- The band charts around 3DG

- He reminded me of Elrond from LotR, with a stronger jaw and more experience in his face. Hawklike and focused brow, light eyes, might have been green or hazel. He might have been a baritone or a tenor in his speaking register. Medium brown hair to his shoulders. He might have been around 6ft. I'm 5'6", and he was a little over a head taller than me.

I'd love to have a new band. I'm going to start by seeing who opened for the 3DG Explosions tours and cross reference with hit charts, see if I recognize him anywhere.

Update: So far, he looks the most like Luke Narey. 10 Years played with 3DG in Europe that year. I checked their tour dates, and they aren't scheduled to be in the US right now or any time soon... not that it means he can't have flown in!

Update2: Someone pointed to me Phil X and I think they're on to something!!! He plays in Triumph which MIGHT have been the right age bracket, and this post on the 20th pins him IN IRVING. This post from 19hrs ago indicates the same and it damnly looks like him; bro could have taken a shower after the show, brushed his texture out, and gone to pick up some Indian. Holy shit. Sounds like him too.

I'm not calling this solved but that's so damn close!

Okay, I really hope this doesn't get removed because I'm hoping for Reddit to do its thing. I work delivery gigs late at night all over Dallas proper. I visited an Indian place in Irving that I'll leave anonymous for his privacy; but, I held the door for him and commented on his Three Days Grace shirt, because I grew up with the band.

He stopped to try and chat with me, but it was just too busy for me personally to concentrate.

I didn't get a chance to ask what band he's from before the crowd bubbled us apart without feeling like I was prying into his life.

Now it's eating me because it sounds like their work overlaps genres I've loved all my life and I REALLY want to listen to the discography!!! 😭 All I had to do was ask but I didn't want to be rude and it slipped my mind in the bustle! fuuuuuucccccckk!

Maybe other DFW metalheads and rockers can help me out, please?

- Wore a crisp Three Days Grace Explosions 2022 t-shirt, the orange version

- Spoke well of 3DG, Godsmack, & one other

- The band charts around 3DG

- He reminded me of Elrond from LotR, with a stronger jaw and more experience in his face. Hawklike and focused brow, light eyes, might have been green or hazel. He might have been a baritone or a tenor in his speaking register. Medium brown hair to his shoulders. He might have been around 6ft. I'm 5'6", and he was a little over a head taller than me.

I'd love to have a new band. I'm going to start by seeing who opened for the 3DG Explosions tours and cross reference with hit charts, see if I recognize him anywhere.

Update: So far, he looks the most like Luke Narey. 10 Years played with 3DG in Europe that year. I checked their tour dates, and they aren't scheduled to be in the US right now or any time soon... not that it means he can't have flown in!

Update2: Someone pointed to me Phil X and I think they're on to something!!! He plays in Triumph which MIGHT have been the right age bracket, and this post on the 20th pins him IN IRVING. This post from 19hrs ago indicates the same and it damnly looks like him; bro could have taken a shower after the show, brushed his texture out, and gone to pick up some Indian. Holy shit. Sounds like him too.

I'm not calling this solved but that's so damn close!