Husband during IVF
I’m just so frustrated with everything. My husband’s a great guy but his sometimes lack of empathy bothers me. IVF has not been crazy in terms of my mood swings but I am on the edge more often. I feel isolated and alone, I know there’s not much he can do but whenever I say I’m feeling lonely momentarily he listens but there’s no proactive support. He keeps saying I should verbalize what I want which is annoying as well. Why can’t be understand what I need or let me throw tantrums without trying to dissect and tell me how to resolve “my feelings”. I sometimes feel I have to spell everything out when it comes to my needs or feelings and he says that’s part of communication. But I would like some initiative from his end. Maybe offer to go to the clinic with me, help me with meds etc, although I wouldn’t have him help. I would just like him to still ask and show concern….does this make sense or im being unreasonable/bad communicator? Idek anymore. I just wish he wouldn’t take everything tantrum so personally and understand I could be just hormonal.. I hate asking for help so that’s not helpful either I suppose