r/EmbryologyIVFSupport

Seeking advice- thaw and fertilize all 14 eggs, or try two batches?

Hi everyone, my partner and I are navigating what to do. We have 14 frozen eggs (from two rounds of ER when I was 35/36). We are now 43 and 42. We are wondering whether to try to fertilize all at once or do two batches. His semen analysis was very good in terms of count, volume, and motility (a little low on morphology at 3%). We have not done any DNA fragmentation testing. From what I’ve read, intracytoplasmic sperm injection is standard for most clinics when using frozen eggs, so I’m not so worried about morphology. I’m scared of something going wrong with the thaw and culture process, thus wanting an insurance plan of having held back half. I read a difficult post about embryos being contaminated because of an undiagnosed prostrate infection. But on the other hand, I think I expect to get 2-3 viable embryos, so maybe it’s better to just go for it. Notably, I froze the eggs to preserve fertility and I now have very low AMH, but I don’t have a specific reason to suspect poor egg quality or unexplained infertility. So let’s call them normal 35 year old eggs, as far as we know. Do you think we should test for sperm DNA fragmentation first, since this is likely our only shot? We are also trying to decide whether to do one fresh transfer or freeze all to be able to test for aneuploidy. One of the doctors we spoke with recommended PGT while the other didn’t think it was a high priority for age 35 eggs and instead thought a fresh transfer would improve odds a bit over frozen. Any advice or experience would be appreciated!

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u/Relative_Bike_7819 — 1 day ago

Day 6/7?

We recently did a cycle with disappointing results. 6 retrieved, 1 cracked, 4 mature, 3 fertilized. today we did a fresh transfer of a 4AA. When I signed the paper she said you had 5- 3 fertilized well- 1 didnt (which I knew) and we are transferring this 1.

Then she said we will call day 7 about the others. she didn’t seem optimistic at all so I just assumed they had arrested. however, im just a little confused. I did one other at another clinic and they told me daily updates with a lot of information.

this is shady grove if that matters.

I realize I should have asked but I was so anxious and I truly didn’t think I had anything to transfer so I just signed and cried lol

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u/courtney4204 — 1 day ago

Would love some clarity on embryo grading

I have done 3 rounds of IVF.. without doing enough research. I left my first clinic after several people mentioned things didn’t seem right. there I did transfer a 4CC day 6- my clinic had told me it was just as good a chance as anything else (I’m learning maybe not)

anyway it failed, this new clinic I only got one from a cohort of 4. (low responder) it was a 4AA and the dr seemed very positive about it,

I want to feel excited because research seems like that’s good but also it looks like still a really low chance of actually leading to pregnancy.

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u/ChampionshipFancy604 — 2 days ago

EmbryoGlue does it work?

In my FET, my clinic used EmbryoGlue to enhance the process. Just wondering if anyone else has used it and felt it worked? Maybe they didn’t use in the first and used it in second? Any opinions?

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u/SoEnamoured — 2 days ago

Low AMH

Hi everyone 🌸

I’m 43 and hoping to hear from anyone who has had similar results and gone on to have successful IVF using their own eggs.

My latest results are:

• AMH: 0.24 ng/mL

• FSH: 6.5

• LH: 5.1

• Oestradiol: 220 pmol/L

I know my age and low AMH make things more difficult, but I’m not ready to give up on using my own eggs yet.

Has anyone had similar results at around my age and had success with IVF without using donor eggs? How many cycles did it take? I've already done 4 rounds of IVF with no success.

I’d really love to hear your experiences, good or bad. ❤️

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u/Sunshinebutterfly43 — 2 days ago

Success with Day 6 embroys?

We were lucky enough to get 1 Day 5 embroys (3BC) and 3 Day 6 embroys (4AB, 5BC, 4BC).

Looking online, it says our % chance of our 3BC is only 20ish% and similar readings with the Day 6 embroys - it says Day 6 is significantly worse than Day 5, so putting each embryo again at only around a 20/25% success rate.

This feels low/dishearting, as our clinic originally said 45-55% chance per embryo before we started the whole process.

Any good stories of Day 6 embryos? And any information as to why Day 6 gets such lower percentages compared to Day 5?

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u/Realistic-Age-3543 — 4 days ago

Frozen for 5 years and I had NO IDEA she existed

I did my FET today with what I thought was our very last embryo.
Originally, we were told we had 3 embryos. We transferred two in our first transfer and somehow hit the jackpot with the most darling B/G twins. 🩷💙
My husband and I (42F/53M… yes, apparently we are those old people 😂) spent the next three years going back and forth about what to do with the remaining embryo. We couldn’t donate because we’d need two embryos, and I just couldn’t bring myself to send our little girl to a research lab. So we finally decided to give her a chance.
Fast forward to today…
I’m getting ready for my FET, thinking this is the end of the embryo road, when the embryologist comes in to go over some clerical things.
And casually drops:
“Oh, by the way… you have another embryo. A GIRL. She’s a 6AA.”
EXCUSE ME. 😂😂😂
Apparently this little lady has been frozen for FIVE YEARS, and somehow nobody thought to mention her?!
So I’m sitting there like… Would have been nice to know before I emotionally processed that this was our last embryo?! 😂
Today’s transfer was our 5BB, so now I’m officially in the two-week wait. 🤞🏼
And if this transfer doesn’t work, apparently I have another little 6AA girl waiting in the freezer who has been patiently minding her own business for the last five years. 😂🩷
But seriously… HOW did I not know we had another embryo?! Has anyone else ever had something like this happen?

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u/Thriller_Canada — 4 days ago

Positive BC stories (3BC, 4BC, 5BC)

Hello - I’ve posted previously about the difference between Day 5 and 6 embroys- but wondering if anyone has any positive stories about (insert number)BC embroys? A lot of successes seem to be about AA or AB, but haven’t heard a lot about BC.

Any positive outcomes out there from BC babies?xxx

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u/Realistic-Age-3543 — 4 days ago

Low AMH and high FSH

🙏Hi there, please please advise if you had low AMH (mine is 0.14) and high FSH (mine is 35.2)at the age of 39 and were successful with only 1 cycle of ivf
with your own egg and donor sperm? 🙏If not, how many cycles did it take you to have a baby with your own egg?  🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Thank you so very much 🙏

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u/VeryHealthy3082 — 4 days ago

High mosaic

Can someone please help me understand the mosaic embryo? Is it not usable because it’s a high level mosaic?

u/coop291310 — 4 days ago

Complex and low level mosaic embryos

looking for advice: I was told I likely would never hav a successful pregnancy without the help of donor eggs. I purchased 6 donor eggs but then became pregnant spontaneously while waiting for them to arrive. We then created embryos hoping to use the donor eggs for future baby #2. After PGT-A we only ended up with one low level mosaic embryo and one complex mosaic embryo. I cannot try for a second baby for about 2 years due to cancer survivorship and having to go back on a medication for a year after baby arrives before having a second baby. I know technically a low level mosaic can lead to a successful birth but I will now have to spend $85/month to store these 2 not so perfect embryos. Is the likelihood of success with a low level mosaic worth spending $2,000 in storage fees or should I cut my losses and save that money for purchasing new donor eggs a couple years from now?

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u/TheBarredRock — 4 days ago

In the midst of my TWW

Third transfer this year. Not the best pic because I tried to resist taking one this time.

u/tsj48 — 5 days ago

First Fresh Embryo Transfer

Hello everyone.

I am gearing up for my very first fresh embryo transfer. It'll be at CNY Syracuse, and I'm a travel patient from the DMV.
I froze eggs and my husband froze his sperm, they're creating our embryos on Monday coming.

I am doing a modified natural protocol with letrozole, trigger, and progesterone.
I have 16 eggs frozen between two egg retrievals 2 and 4 years ago that I'm thawing to be fertilized. One embryo will be transferred and the rest PGT-A tested.

Based on your experience how often have you seen day 3 transfers? | ask because I want to prepare for worst case scenarios. I'd love a weekend transfer but I was told they may have me come sooner based on how the embryos are doing.

As a travel patient, 5-hours away from the transfer location, how would you handle the travel logistics for this? How soon were you told to get there?

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u/Longjumping_Math_943 — 5 days ago

Embryoman is off on vacation until August 24

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Hey everyone, just a quick heads up!

I'm going camping and won't be able to reply to posts until August 24.

I'll check in on mobile to approve pending posts, but approvals may take longer than usual. I'll continue approving anything that doesn't violate the group rules, but I won't be able to answer questions or leave comments.

You can still post in the weekly embryo photo discussion thread, and I'll get back to those when I return.

Thanks for your patience and understanding, and sorry for any inconvenience while I'm away!

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u/embryomanofficial — 6 days ago

Continued Chemicals

Hello,

I am a 34F with PCOS and I am currently losing my 2nd pregnancy. This was our third FET. The first was a chemical that ended Dec 27. He made it to 5 weeks 2days (M embryo 4AA). Our second was a failed transfer Feb 27 (M embryo 5AB). Our third was confirmed non-viable August 7 (F embryo 4AA). She was just shy of 5 weeks I think. We had a water sonogram before starting back in September or October I believe, and came back normal. After the second, we had an endometrial biopsy that came back normal. My progesterone and estrogen have all come back higher than the target range and my lining was always within the target range. Low dose aspirin was added for the 2nd and 3rd to help support blood flow to the embryos during implantation.

I'm at a loss. I don't know why or how we keep losing our babies. They both ended before we ever got to see them; to hear their heartbeats. So far we have had no changes to protocol or extra testing or medication prescribed. This last one hurt a lot because she was our only confirmed female. I guess I'm looking for support and guidance.

Tell me your success stories. Tell me what path finally worked for you. Give me ideas to ask my doctor. I'm so filled with so much sorrow and hatred that I need something to push me forward.

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u/OkFerret6716 — 6 days ago

Do children conceived through IVF have long-term health problems?

Most children conceived through IVF appear to have similar long-term health to those conceived without fertility treatment.

Many people worry about whether IVF could affect their child's health later in life. To help answer that question, two large reviews by Le et al. (2026) and Firmin et al. (2026) summarized nearly 150 studies examining the long-term health of children conceived through IVF and ICSI.

Overall, the evidence found:

• Most birth defects and cardiovascular and metabolic outcomes were similar after IVF, although a few differences were reported.

• Brain development, growth, asthma, diabetes, and cancer were generally similar.

• Children conceived through ICSI had similar long-term health to those conceived through conventional IVF, with only some reported differences.

• PGT wasn't associated with differences in children's growth, blood pressure, or metabolic health, but longer-term data are still needed.

• Fresh and frozen embryo transfers differed in birth weight.

One important challenge is separating the effects of IVF itself from the effects of the parents' underlying infertility. Some of the reported differences may be related to infertility itself rather than the fertility treatment, but it's still not clear how much each contributes.

Overall, the evidence is reassuring. Importantly, most of the conditions studied were rare, affecting fewer than 1% of children. This means that even when an increased risk was found, the actual increase in the chance of developing the condition was very small.

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u/embryomanofficial — 7 days ago