Guy I’m seeing is constantly sexual and it’s starting to PMO
29F seeing someone 35M who was very kind, caring and attentive which is the reason I ended up falling for him. It has only been for the past week or so, but he constantly wants to talk about sex, speak about sex and see me for it. I am a sexual person but it is getting to a point where it’s making me feel like that is the only reason he is seeing me now. We still go for dinner and on dates, but the rest of the time it is ALL sexual.
I keep trying to change the subject and suggest doing wholesome things and he just makes sexual comments. I have mentioned it and he said he just finds me so hot and is obsessed with my body, which doesn’t help me. When I say he is sexual, I mean he wants to sext whenever we message, speak on the phone or see each other.
Is he just seeing me because of my body/looks and not for me as a person? It’s pissing me off because I have always been lusted after my whole life but never loved.