u/ComfortableFun7139

I have this stalker ex-friend who keeps harassing me by sending multiple friend request in Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin and Tiktok. Apart from these, lahat ng mga close friends ko, mga ex ko at love ones ko, inaadd at chinachat nya. I'm paranoid, this has been going on for about 2 years na. She's a DDS and we all know yung mga character nila. I'm afraid what shes capable of.

Hi I'm 27 male and I have this 25/26(?) female exfriend I met online mid pandemic on a literary group in Facebook. We became really good friends because we shared the same faith in God and talked a lot during the pandemic.

Around 2023-ish, I decided to end the friendship because I started feeling like she was becoming too possessive and invasive in my life. To the point na iniinvolve nya sarili nya sa family ko, close friends ko, pati exes ko. It became uncomfortable for me and I felt like my personal boundaries were no longer being respected.

Another major reason why I decided to completely end our friendship was because she became extremely politically radicalized. She’s a die hard DDS and supported Duterte to the point that she would justify people dying by saying it was “God’s will.” She also believed that people should stay silent when the government is harassing or abusing citizens because “the Bible tells us so.” That was honestly the boiling point for me and when I realized I needed to cut her off completely.

I also have a girlfriend now and she has started harassing her too, which made everything even more disturbing and stressful for me.

What makes this even more stressful for me now is everything happening in the Philippines politically, and the fact that my stalker is a die hard DDS. It honestly makes me more anxious and paranoid about what she might be capable of doing.

I honestly won’t mention everything she has done because just writing this and remembering everything is already traumatizing for me.

I ignored her, unfriended her, and unfollowed her on Instagram, but she kept adding me back on multiple platforms on different accounts. Hanggang ngayon, gumagawa pa rin siya ng way to contact me and even reaches out to people close to me. Nahihiya na ako sa mga friends ko na nireach out nya at irereach out nya pa.

I have this stalker ex-friend who keeps harassing me by sending multiple friend request in Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin and Tiktok. Apart from these, lahat ng mga close friends ko, mga ex ko at love ones ko, inaadd at chinachat nya. I'm paranoid, this has been going on for about 2 years na. She's a DDS and we all know yung mga character nila. I'm afraid what shes capable of.

Hi I'm 27 male and I have this 25/26(?) female exfriend I met online mid pandemic on a literary group in Facebook. We became really good friends because we shared the same faith in God and talked a lot during the pandemic.

Around 2023-ish, I decided to end the friendship because I started feeling like she was becoming too possessive and invasive in my life. To the point na iniinvolve nya sarili nya sa family ko, close friends ko, pati exes ko. It became uncomfortable for me and I felt like my personal boundaries were no longer being respected.

Another major reason why I decided to completely end our friendship was because she became extremely politically radicalized. She’s a die hard DDS and supported Duterte to the point that she would justify people dying by saying it was “God’s will.” She also believed that people should stay silent when the government is harassing or abusing citizens because “the Bible tells us so.” That was honestly the boiling point for me and when I realized I needed to cut her off completely.

I also have a girlfriend now and she has started harassing her too, which made everything even more disturbing and stressful for me.

What makes this even more stressful for me now is everything happening in the Philippines politically, and the fact that my stalker is a die hard DDS. It honestly makes me more anxious and paranoid about what she might be capable of doing.

I honestly won’t mention everything she has done because just writing this and remembering everything is already traumatizing for me.

I ignored her, unfriended her, and unfollowed her on Instagram, but she kept adding me back on multiple platforms on different accounts. Hanggang ngayon, gumagawa pa rin siya ng way to contact me and even reaches out to people close to me. Nahihiya na ako sa mga friends ko na nireach out nya at irereach out nya pa.

Problem/Goal: I have this stalker ex-friend who keeps harassing me by sending multiple friend request in Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin and Tiktok. Apart from these, lahat ng mga close friends ko, mga ex ko at love ones ko, inaadd at chinachat nya. What can I do to stop this? Is there any legal way to end this? I'm paranoid, this has been going on for about 2 years na. She's a DDS and we all know yung mga character nila. I'm afraid what shes capable of.

Context: Hi I'm 27 male and I have this 25/26(?) female exfriend I met online mid pandemic on a literary group in Facebook. We became really good friends because we shared the same faith in God and talked a lot during the pandemic.

Around 2023-ish, I decided to end the friendship because I started feeling like she was becoming too possessive and invasive in my life. To the point na iniinvolve nya sarili nya sa family ko, close friends ko, pati exes ko. It became uncomfortable for me and I felt like my personal boundaries were no longer being respected.

Another major reason why I decided to completely end our friendship was because she became extremely politically radicalized. She’s a die hard DDS and supported Duterte to the point that she would justify people dying by saying it was “God’s will.” She also believed that people should stay silent when the government is harassing or abusing citizens because “the Bible tells us so.” That was honestly the boiling point for me and when I realized I needed to cut her off completely.

I also have a girlfriend now and she has started harassing her too, which made everything even more disturbing and stressful for me.

What makes this even more stressful for me now is everything happening in the Philippines politically, and the fact that my stalker is a die hard DDS. It honestly makes me more anxious and paranoid about what she might be capable of doing.

I honestly won’t mention everything she has done because just writing this and remembering everything is already traumatizing for me.

Previous Attempts: I ignored her, unfriended her, and unfollowed her on Instagram, but she kept adding me back on multiple platforms on different accounts. Hanggang ngayon, gumagawa pa rin siya ng way to contact me and even reaches out to people close to me. Nahihiya na ako sa mga friends ko na nireach out nya at irereach out nya pa. Please help.