u/Common-Brick8921

Tive filho recentemente e comecei a colocar várias coisas em perspectiva, uma delas sendo o meu ape e a localização. Eu amo minha casa, comprei na planta, planejei do jeito que eu queria, mas já não é algo tão viável mais.

Eu já encontrei outros apartamentos legais e que fazem mais sentido para mim, mas quando penso em vender me dá um aperto no coração. Literalmente tudo daquele apartamento foi escolhido a dedo e comprado por mim. O que fizeram? Como foi esse processo de desapego? Se eu pudesse pegar essa casa e colocar em outro lugar eu faria.

I worked at a logistics company for about 7 years. I had this client that was super demanding and completely abusive, but since they were a HUGE client no one really stood up for us and/or defended us in any way. I’m talking messaging me 10pm on a Saturday to find people to work the next day, a Sunday. Call me during holidays (Christmas one comes to mind). Call me during my vacations… things like this. But not only that, they were also very rude and treated us like slaves.

I took most of it because I was mid management sort of so I was the one having to handle all the “out of hours” issues. My bosses were very close to me (or so I thought), but also in abusive ways I couldn’t see at the time. One made me work at another city during Covid (totally unnecessary and the office was empty), the other would call me everyday while she picked up her daughter from school to complain about the team. Nothing I did was ever good enough, despite me doing a 3 people’s job + the team because of the amount of things we had to take care of.

I had enough and left the company to go to another one that’s very chill and paid more. It was also one of their biggest clients and they were pissed I left to go there, so that was a good revenge. After I left I started seeing how much I suffered all those years and how little they cared about my life despite all that I was doing. I just HAD to cater to the client at all times. My free time wasn’t mine.

It’s been 4 years, I’m still at this company and happy, no plans on leaving. But just saw the “new” manager for this account on Instagram and she’s in Paris, and I know that she went there for work, which got me thinking into all the abuse. I know it’s not her fault everything that happened and I hope things are better for her regarding them, but I just don’t know how to simply forget it. I really like the job. I was good at it, really good. If I had felt a bit more protected I wouldn’t have searched for something else.

Antes de engravidar eu emagreci 18kgs, cai para 61kgs e estava bem feliz com o meu corpo. Durante a gestação engordei quase 30kgs e perdi uns 12kgs assim que pari. Agora voltei a estaca zero, ao peso que tinha antes de engravidar.

O meu marido faz bastante coisa em casa e consigo encaixar coisas “minhas” no dia a dia, porém estou com uma dificuldade gigantesca de ir à academia, pois acabo fica do muito cansada. Como vocês lidaram com isso?