Like just a scenario, you meet this guy, you fall in love with him, you're basically soulmates. But then your best friend is like "I love him too" so you break up with him so your best friend could have him.
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I [19] don't think I've ever been in a relationship where the first thing I didn't look for is how they look. I've found that with men it was always about how they would look next to me or how cute we are together. And with women it was always about how pretty they are. This thing I have with looks goes beyond romantic relationships, I tend to always befriend those who can be considered conventionally attractive. This has burned me several times because for some reason attractive people are much more likely to be assholes. Maybe someday I'll finally love someone for who they are and not just for their face.
I got whiplash when I first heard it cause why did he sound so different?
My (ex)friend recently confessed to me that he is having pedophilic thoughts on his younger cousin, he is 17. He said this to me when we were getting drunk, the moment he said it he just started crying about what a terrible person he is for having such thoughts and how he couldn't help it and how it just pops into his head. He doesn't want to be a pedophile, he'd rather die than be one, but he is one, and he is sick because of it. He passed out after an hour of crying, he is currently sleeping on the floor of my bedroom. I was so shaken at his confession I could say a word or even move before he passed out. I did some research from the past about types of paraphilia for a class and understand that it's something that is influenced by upbringing, my (ex)friend was groomed by his father so that's definitely one of the factors that caused him to be like this. I'm thinking of calling the cops on him, but as much as it is sickening to think about they probably won't do anything because he has not done anything like SA a kid or own/watch any kind of CSAM material(according to him). And there is also the fact that it isn't his fault that he feels this way. I don't know what to do.