u/Complete-Tune7134

I've been taking driving lessons but whenever I drive with my mom she gets anxious and when she gets anxious she gets snappy and bitchy and in return I get anxious. She kept grabbing the wheel, saying I was too close to the line then when I turn into the wawa I'm trying to straighten and go forward and my mom grabs the wheel and I drove into the curve because she was yelling at me to slow down and she grabbed the wheel and I got distracted. Then she was yelling at me to back up, stop, park. I just can't. I do fine with the instructor because the instructor is chill and i can be calm but with my mom, things like this happen!

Every once in awhile when I get new ear molds they sometimes cause irritation on my outer ear cartilage. My dermatologist says its a keloid and gives me a steroid shot and some topical cream and it goes away after awhile. In the meantime I've been putting a hydrocolloid patch on it and it seems to be healing, but I know I need thay steroid shot. I have. A dermatologist and an audiologist appointment coming up soon but in the meantime, does anyone else have this problem and what are your tips to deal with it because I can't just not wear my hearing aids.

In my previous post, I complained that my neighbors blasted music, then got high and called the cops on themselves. The music stopped, and it's still quiet, but now these neighbors are straight-up acting trashy. They have some kids, and one day they were outside playing, and I offered them some water ice I had in the freezer since I didn't want it, and it was hot outside. A few days later, my mom caught them throwing trash at my dog. They live on the top floor, and they've been throwing trash from their balcony onto the yard. The other day, the landlord came over to do repairs for them. Suddenly, the trash was picked up. I don't know if the landlord told them to clean up or cleaned it up himself, but the trash was gone. In the recycling, where it wasn't supposed to be, but not in my area of the yard anymore. There were also stuffed animals that they left in the yard. Just a few moments ago, they threw water over the balcony, and it hit my mom, so she had to change her pants. It was a new pair of pants, too. My aunt is over visiting and heard them throwing water over the balcony. They have never done this before. I don't know what their problem is, but I'm getting tired of them. My mom and I never bothered them, and I was nice to the kids; they only started acting this way after my brother moved out. My aunt thinks we should move soon when our lease is up because once school is out for the summer, it will be worse. The landlord says we can stay past July; he likes us because he likes my dog, but I don't know if we should stay.

A bit of an update from my last post. So I told my mom to tell the Landlord about the music blasting. Lately its been quieter, sometimes its not playing. I thought it was the other neighbor who was there before us, mom thinks its the dude living with her blasting music. Then today happened. I woke up to it at first then dead silence. Later that day I went outside to get my dog. I saw two police officers upstairs talking to the neighbors. I didn't have my hearing aids on so I had no idea what was being said. My dog wasn't outside and that plus police freaked me out because I have an alaskan malamute and in the past he scared police officers. I checked inside just to make sure my dog was in there. He was in the bathroom hallway just chilling. Then I tell my mom my neighbors had police over. My mom told me that the neighbors called the police on themselves. They got high and called police saying their car seat wasn't working. I kid you not I thought I misheard something else for car seat but it was car seat. My mom went outside earlier thinking the mechanic returned our car but it was a police car and they told mom the neighbors called them. Since then its quiet all day.

This started awhile ago. My family moved to a new place last fall. It's one of those houses thats been converted to 3 units. We live in the bottom unit​. So far everything was fine, until recently. My brother moved out a few weeks ago and since then the upstairs neighbor has been blasting music 24/7 and I mean 24/7 well into midnight, early morning and it just seems to be getting louder. So loud I can feel the vibrations, it shakes the house sometimes. Even when I go outside I can hear the music. My mom works from home and I'm hearing impaired and wear hearing aids. I can't even put them on with the music blasting because I get exhausted. The best way it was described by a therapist is that for hearing people, a day is like a walk in the park. For hearing impaired people it's a marathon. I can hear some without my hearing aids so I can hear the music. I go to sleep hearing, I wake up hearing it. I don't know if its the old neighbor, the new neighbor, or them doing it has something to do with my brother moving out because it didnt happen until he moved out.