Need help
Fellow dad's, I come to you with a rather sensitive issue, but I cant ask my missus or all hell will break loose, and ill explain why. I feel like I should do a paternity test on my youngest son, for these reasons. He's autistic but highly autistic, now that isnt a problem, our eldest has Autism and ADHD but no where near as bad as his little brother. His outbursts, the violence, the sudden freezing, tremors, they all unsurprisingly match with the behaviours of the son of the guy my missus cheated with. Ive spoke with two mum friends who said they couldn't deny the similarity between the two boys at the age he is now. I dont not want to be his dad, but I need to know, because if so, well I will leave her for lying to me for nearly 4 years. Hence why I cant speak to the missus, I even just bailed on A&E because she said im a hypocondriacte, so you can guess how the conversation would go if i said hey, you know hes similar to thingy at this age. Do I doit, get the results and if I am being crazy bin them, or if they are what I think then confront her head on