u/Consiouswierdsage

I wonder.

I recognise a pattern and I am trying to identify where it goes.

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I often come across it and kinda hate it.

Love is rare. When I personally get to love someone, I go full throttle. There isn't anything that I wouldn't workaround ( workaround not give up )

But I get it. People don't really understand how rare love is. Instead once they have it, they take it for granted.

Then they consider all other problems in life, but love is already there right ? So why care about it.

If they see all the problems also without love, they will probably choose love.

Lol to think about it. I think it's the cycle at this point.

Love like you will never survive the loss of it.

But survive it anyway.

I have been a Reddit user for some years. It really helped with a lot of learning and exposure.

But now Reddit has become Facebook, so many Indian subreddits are trash, talking Bollywood and Kollywood.

Stock subReddit is manipulating people with spamming pump dump stocks.

Vehicle subreddit removing e20 contents.

Gold subreddit promoting a scammer.

Its endless man.

Through all this I think Chennai sub is the neutral of em all.

I would really like to know how mods are keeping it that way, do AMA mods. Kudos to your work that I don't think people are realising.

Running a sub neutral apart from all the fucking marketing, spam and political bots is huge. How are you guys pulling it off ?

Few days back I genuinely asked if there is a way to mess the government up.

I got the idea.

Buy gold for everything you got.

Government will get fkd up.

I used to buy sneakers from woodland which was very uncomfortable to wear.

For once I said fuck it and bought a adidas r71 or dragon its called for 5k through a malaysia returning cousin.

And its fucking amazing.

It's so comfortable I literally jumped after wearing it.

Idk why woodlands was so bad compared to this I might have bought wrong sizes or expect too much idk.

Woodland ones was 800 a pair and another one was 2k

So yeah. I am gonna buy one more pair to cycle between them what else should I try ?

Most breakup advice is just ego protection dressed up as wisdom.

"Move on." "Stop wasting your time." "She's moved on, why haven't you?" "Don't be a fool."

And look, I get it. People are trying to protect you. But what they're actually protecting is their own discomfort with watching someone love deeply without a guaranteed return.

The whole framework is about risk management. Don't invest where the ROI is uncertain. Cut losses early. Exit cleanly.

That's not wisdom. That's fear with good vocabulary.

INFJs don't buy it. Not because we're naive or delusional but because we feel the difference between a door that's closed and a door that's just not open yet. And we're not willing to treat those two things as the same just to look composed on the outside.

There's a difference between chasing someone and refusing to pretend you didn't love them. One is desperation. The other is integrity.

When everyone else is calculating whether staying makes them look like a fool, the INFJ is asking a completely different question. Am I being true to what I actually felt? External validation doesn't move us. "Bro just move on everyone thinks you're simping" genuinely doesn't land. Because we're not doing this for the audience.

But here's the honest part.

INFJs do get lost. And that part is real and worth calling out.

We stay through genuine uncertainty because we're wired to hold space for people. That's a gift until it becomes self erasure. Sometimes we're so busy honoring the love that we forget to check in with ourselves. Am I still okay? Am I still living forward or just waiting?

The line isn't "leave when it's painful." Pain is not a signal to exit.

The line is clarity.

If there was a real reason, a dream she had to chase, a season of life that made choosing you impossible right now, that is not rejection. That deserves patience if you have it to give.

But if there is clear rejection, if there is deliberate avoidance, if someone is communicating through their actions that the door is actually shut, staying past that isn't love anymore. It's self abandonment with love's name on it.

Stay as long as there is a real chance. Move on when there is clarity, even if that clarity hurts.

The INFJ curse is that we feel too much to fake indifference. The INFJ strength is that we love with enough depth that when we do stay, it actually means something.

Just don't lose yourself in it. The love was never the mistake. Forgetting you exist too, that's the only thing to watch for.

You guys are probably aware of the whole Inr depreciation.

And upcoming years of economic instability.

What are your plans and ideas to navigate it without losing value.

I appreciate it as much as discussions on this thread. We could all use ideas.

If buying new cars or bikes get EV.

Install Solar panels if not already.

Reduce holding in INR and buy Gold.

Depend on local vendors to make sure working force is affected less which in turn helps us.

I have been an active follower of macro economics.

And there is a rough time ahead and the Indian government is pretty incompetent.

Upcoming year is going to tough af for the middle class and lower middle class.

Until BJP is replaced India will suffer. And change is in the hands of north indians. And they are not that smart, they will bleed until they cannot take anymore and go out to riots. Until that they will comfortably stay in an echo chamber that India is fine.

India is not doing fine. Its doing worse ever.

Tamilnadu is significantly safe compared to other states. But we will also face challenges specifically energy.

What can we do about it ?

Reduce your INR holdings. Only have enough to spend for basic needs for two years.

If you have money sitting around simply buy gold. For all of it. Only then the value will be protected.

Become self sufficient - its not a one day process but start somewhere I guess.

Purchase EV's if you are about buy cars or bikes.

install solar panels at home.

Lastly, depend on local vendors for everything, we have to circulate the money inside the state in order to help our working class. Reduce amazon and such services to buy goods. Depend on local vendors.

Probably someother smart ways are there. Others can add it in the comment.

But the whole point of this post is, it won't get better, it won't until northies bleed to death and start to protest against union government and potentially there is change in rulling.