Thoughts?
My partner is autistic, trans, has POTS & I suspect has dyspraxia. I have a physical disability causing all over joint pain & mobility problems plus ADHD & PTSD. My partner bought a 4.5" pair of heels to wear to Pride. With the heels, she's just shy of 6'8". She was upset and angry when I said I didn't think they were a good idea to wear, because she's wobbly anyway and not used to heels and that if she falls into me I could break my leg (I have trauma from a previous leg break). She said I was carastrophising. This is even though she's fainted twice in the recent heat. We have had a huge argument about it and things aren't resolved, and she still thinks I'm catastrophising. The other issue is in heat and crowds, especially when standing for any length of time, I often need her support, and that will be much harder if she's wobbly herself and well over a foot taller than me.
Am I catastrophising?