u/Consistent_Safety691

So I'm 19f and I travel frequently from indore to Tiruchirappalli and back with layovers. All the flights that I took in 2025, I was given a seat near a woman without asking or selecting a seat while booking. The last two flights I took, I was given a seat near males. I don't mind it but I felt more comfier around females and I could sleep nicely. Have they stopped doing it on their own?. I booked my flight this time but did not select my seats. If I ask for a seat near a female while getting my boarding pass , will they give me ?

So I'm 19f and my boyfriend is 18m. He's nice and cute but highly emotionally unavailable. Like what do I even say. He has a tendency to ignore his phone a lot. And no he does not ignore me, I can see his last seen on WhatsApp and his last seen is always hours ago. Now I know he loves me but he's never on his phone 😭😭. I get replies hours later sometimes. Now if I get into some kind of problem and I'm feeling anxious about it, I can text him but he'll not reply I know. Even if he does reply he's like "kya hua" "oh" "okay" that's it. He does not care at all. When we meet in person, he's fully concentrated on me but phone toh like he barely touches 😭 If I text my friend about it, they handle me better. I'm grateful for my friends but I have a boyfriend. Isn't a boyfriend supposed to give a fuck ? He's so chill. I don't know what's up. I know he does not do it on purpose and I know he cares but he's very practical and chill. Not mushy, like I tell him a problem and he tells a solution but nothing to calm me down when i get anxious ( 0 ability to console as samay raina once said) He usually pampers when I ask him to but usko khudse samjh nahi aata ki she's anxious maybe I need to reassure her that everything is going to be fine. I don't even know how to talk about it. Because I know he does not do it on purpose. I don't want to like tell him ki tum aisa kyun nahi karte vaisa kyun nahi karte ,I dont want to nag him but I need gently tell him ki I need a little bit more. How do i frame it in a gentle way ki I need him to be there a little more 😭

So umm.. 😭😭😭. Im 19 and I'm doing engineering currently. The thing is there are a few students in my class who I got into a fight with and now we don't talk at all 😭😭. Me and my mom recently started a small business and made an instagram account that we both handle 😭😭. The thing is... my mom accidentally followed a girl I had a huge fight with. Like a huge fight. I got a notification "accepted your request" and "started following you" . I was like whattt?????? And then I realised my mom might have accidentally clicked shit and sent a request. The moment I saw the request, I unfollowed her and removed her from following. Gurl 🤡🤡🤡 I'm scared as fuck because every thing I do is a huge deal to them and they are always ready to talk shi about me like seriously 😭😭. Oh boy this gonna be a huge discussion. I'm terrified. "She just wanted to show us" "she's such a show off" "she's just a bitch ". Man I'm so pissed at my mom but I can't even be angry cuz it's not her fault, it was an accident. Ughhhhh 😭😭

Okay, I've been asking a lot of questions on this sub and I promise this is the last one. Is it cool if I confess to my crush I like him? I've always seen this as a guy's job, that the guy is supposed to like the girl and confess but I can't help it. I like him and I feel like I'm getting braver when it comes to him. I'm also a bit like.... feeling low and scared that am I supposed to do it? I don't know bro , I'm scared he's gonna see me below him if I tell him because a) no one has ever even complimented him b) I think I'm gonna be the first girl he is going to get a confession from. c) mujhe darr lag raha hai how he is going to perceive it cuz I'm not attractive or smth. My stomach is doing that churning thing

Okay so this is tiny but very heavy on my heart. Whenever I've liked a guy since teenage, they all end up becoming really good friends of mine but they never really find me attractive enough to like me back. I like that they feel comfortable enough to talk, hang out, laugh , have fun and I genuinely enjoy the lightness of it too but it's hurts honestly. I try my very best to look good, skincare,outfit everything but mai kya karun, I'm not one of those pretty girls Bro 😭🙏. I will never be. I don't like talking about this to anyone because then I just seem desperate for validation and to be liked but it's not even validation seeking. It just hurts that they find me comfortable enough to text me all day and play badminton with me and stuff but never cute 😭😭😭😭. Kya hai yaar yeh . I just wanted to get it off of my chest 🥀. Hurtful 🥀🥀🥀. I feel so chopped 🥀😭

I have biology:human anatomy and physiology exam tomorrow. I tried checking srm helper site but they don't have pyqs for this subject ( obviously ) does anyone have previous year paper for this???? Or important questions or basically anything pleaseeee 😭😭

I'm in 2nd semester currently. So basically if you remember in first semester, two papers were post poned because of that bad weather or something. My flight got cancelled at end moment and I could not attend 2 exams. Leading to me getting 2 arrears. The situation is that my cgpa turned out to be 6.24 🤡🤡🤡. Ab even if I do everything right and maintain 9cgpa and stuff till the end of 8 sems, my end cgpa will still be 8 something. Placement hone ke koi chances hai or should I think about masters and stuff?

The title! Is it going to be enough? How many papers should I see?

So I don't know what's happening. I had a huge huge crush on this guy in my college. He didn't like me back but he was so sweet about it. We both talked it out and now we're on good terms. I liked him like nuts initially( like crying sometimes when he looked at me too long out of happiness, yes 💀) and then feelings sort of kept reducing in general and now I see him like any other guy in our college ( though I'll always have a soft spot for him in my heart). Post that, a few guys have asked me out, I went on a few dates with one of them and I just couldn't get myself to like them. Even though these guys are objectively 'better looking' but I still could not . I'm getting very indifferent to this, to my crush and also to other guys. I'm so scared I'm losing my willingness to date at a young age. Kinda sucks but it's also kinda peaceful. I'm scared of how peaceful not liking anyone and not being involved with anyone is. What if I never want love again??? It seems normal to me kyunki 'dil utar jata hai' but is it actually normal or do I need to see a therapist?? Is it normal to not want it anymore? I don't want to blame my crush for this, I just haven't liked a guy with this intensity at all ever now that with him, even the humanly feelings towards romance have gone. Am I alright? 😭

Kiddos, congratulations to everyone who did good and expecting a medical college. Ya'll worked really hard, so proud of you guys for working your ass off and reaching this place. Celebrate, chill, enjoyyy

To everyone else, life is not over, last year when I could not crack neet, it legit felt like life is over but excatly one year from then, I'm in my college mess right now with my friends who have also forgotten that they were once neet aspirants. Subah movie dekh ke aaye sab. You wont remember this happened after a while. Don't take more drops if you've already taken one, get a college and start living. Trust me, college is gonna be better and you'll have more mental strength to work harder in college. Ghar pe jo bhi bolein sun Lena, thode din mein sab calm down ho jaayega, negative thoughts aayenge but don't act on them. Hold on a little. This too shall pass ✨️. Either way, we'll always be fighters 💪

Its a bit urgent. So im originally from indore but mera college trichy mein hai (tamil nadu). The thing is I fell down and hurt my leg pretty bad. I got treatment at a hospital but voh log mujhe medical certificate nahi de rahe. Kuch lafda hai ki inpatient ko dete hai medical certificate, outpatient ko nahi dete. I have my prescription and medical bills, do you think any doctor will consider it? And will be considered fake kyunki maine treatment trichy se karaya but banvaya indore se? I was thinking mummy papa ko bol dun banva denge, phir mai print kara lungi.