u/CoolYogurtcloset3096

Assalamualaikum. My first time posting here. I had an abortion recently where i lost my little girl. I don’t know how to deal with this. I knew for a fact she was going to be following deen better than me because since i had gotten pregnant with her all i wanted to do was pray and read quran. I know she’s in jannah right now. Maybe i didn’t deserve her that’s why allah took her away from me. I regret the life i used to live- angry and irritated with people around me who cared about me. I feel like this is my punishment, having to lose my baby. I want to become better. I want to become a patient person not easily irritated and not snapping at people like before. I want to correct my mistakes. Whenever i die i want to be in jannah with my daughter. I want to become better. Please help me. How can i control my anger and emotions and become a better person?

Hey. This is my first pregnancy. At the anomaly scan my baby was diagnosed with cctga and small vsd and mild pulmonary stenosis. Consulted 3 paediatric cardiologists and they told us that it’s up to us parents to decide our baby’s future. It’s feels more like whether we want to suffer now by choosing to terminate or make our baby suffer too along with us when he/she has to go through multiple surgeries and repairs on their little hearts. I am diabetic and this was a totally unexpected pregnancy(we didn’t plan it) but until nt can everything came back normal so we were happy that inspite of my blood sugars being slightly higher (a1c 7.2) at the time of conception our baby is growing pretty well but the anomaly scan shattered us with this diagnosis. We don’t know what to do.

Hey. This is my first pregnancy. At the anomaly scan my baby was diagnosed with cctga and small vsd and mild pulmonary stenosis. Consulted 3 paediatric cardiologists and they told us that it’s up to us parents to decide our baby’s future. It’s feels more like whether we want to suffer now by choosing to terminate or make our baby suffer too along with us when he/she has to go through multiple surgeries and repairs on their little hearts. I am diabetic and this was a totally unexpected pregnancy(we didn’t plan it) but until nt can everything came back normal so we were happy that inspite of my blood sugars being slightly higher (a1c 7.2) at the time of conception our baby is growing pretty well but the anomaly scan shattered us with this diagnosis. We don’t know what to do.
Also the senior most paediatric cardiologist we consulted after travelling for 5 hours from where we live was very unhelpful. I had my hopes set on his responses but he didn’t even answer the questions properly and instead yelled at my husband for asking the same question a second time.

Hey guys i am new here. I am 13 weeks and 1 day pregnant. Recently had my NT scan done which came out good overall. I noticed my cervical length is 3.19 cm which is considered normal by my doctor but when i googled it, it falls in the lower range of normal like it should be between 3-5cm and i am 3.19cm. I am worried as i already am a type 2 diabetic and this is my first pregnancy. Having diabetes is already a big risk factor that i am struggling to manage everyday but now i am worried about this cervical length thing too. Will it become even shorter as my pregnancy progresses? is the only question that has been on my mind since last night and i couldn’t sleep and woke up with a terrible headache and i lost my appetite now (which is also bad because i take insulin if i dont eat i will get hypoglycaemia)
Sorry for the rant but i am so worried. Please help a girl out, somebody?🥺

Hey! 11 weeks and 2 days pregnant here. So far so good. But i really started craving sweets since a few days obviously i can’t eat those i know. I just wanted to know if sugar free options like zero added sugar ice creams are safe during pregnancy. Even though the brands say they have zero added sugar… there are still at least 2g of sugar per serving in the nutrition label which they claim to be natural sugars. Will those kind of treats be okay for me? If yes how often can i have these?
I am on insulin aspart(for post lunch spikes) and 30/70 huminsulin (before breakfast and dinner)

7w6d pregnant here. Extremely nauseous to everything but carbs and of course having carbs will skyrocket my blood sugar levels. So i am severely depressed and can’t decide what to eat. I can’t eat anything without gagging and spitting it out, even thinking about vegetables makes me want to throw up.
I know high blood sugars will be bad for my baby, i don’t want to hurt my baby but i also can’t eat anything. My brain has ultimately decided that i’d rather stay hungry than eat anything. Wish me luck y’all.
[I take 30/70 admixture huminsulin twice a day - 16 units before breakfast and 12 units before dinner. For lunch spikes my endo gave me insulin aspart and i take it based on the amount of carbs i am consuming.]

I am nearly 7 weeks pregnant. My post lunch sugars have been only around 200-220 never less than 140. Tried to manage this by eating no carbs at all but nausea doesn’t allow me to eat some stuff. So i went to see my endo and he told me to take a short acting insulin along with 30/70 admixture i take twice a day. He told me to take 6-8 units of fast acting insulin but i read on google that 1 unit reduces ur BG by 50 mg/dL. So 6 units should reduce it by 300 mg/dL. I was like what?? Then my doc also told me to take the insulin dose depending on ur blood glucose levels at that moment.

I have never taken a correction dose like this. So please can someone guide me or help me understand this better. Please.

Also i ate like half a bowl of rice today with an omelette because that’s the only thing that my nausea allowed me to eat today.

Hello!

I am 6 weeks pregnant and i am craving carbs. So i cave in today and had rice for lunch today and for the first time in a week I wasn’t gagging while eating. But after 3 hours i checked my bg and it was 196. Not that shocking but i had small portion of rice only. Anybody can help? Please