r/MuslimSupportGroup

Assalamualaikum. My first time posting here. I had an abortion recently where i lost my little girl. I don’t know how to deal with this. I knew for a fact she was going to be following deen better than me because since i had gotten pregnant with her all i wanted to do was pray and read quran. I know she’s in jannah right now. Maybe i didn’t deserve her that’s why allah took her away from me. I regret the life i used to live- angry and irritated with people around me who cared about me. I feel like this is my punishment, having to lose my baby. I want to become better. I want to become a patient person not easily irritated and not snapping at people like before. I want to correct my mistakes. Whenever i die i want to be in jannah with my daughter. I want to become better. Please help me. How can i control my anger and emotions and become a better person?

Assalamwalikum, I don’t know if this is TMI but i’ve been having really bad health issues recently— not terrible but bladder issues for a while. Please does anyone have any advice on what dua to make to help this, maybe something for health?

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Assalamualaikum dear brothers and sisters...I am a woman who finished mbbs final exams last month and results are going to be out next week.I have a really special situation where I come from a family where no one ever had any patience to pursue studies.Everyone gets married early.My father and mother sacrificed a lot and against all superstitions helped me throughout my study.Allah has always helped me with everything Alhamdulillah. I got into govt medical entrance exam.Passed other exams.This time too I gave exam with full tawakkul as you know there are too many segments and a lots of students fail just for very little numbers.I messed up in some segments.Gave most of the exams properly Alhamdulillah.I am not really scared for me or my career...I am more scared for my parents who sacrificed a lot.And a lot of people are going to give them that look you know like what was the point of all these sacrifices.You daughter still failed.People don't know failure is a common thing in medicals...Please brothers and sisters..Keep me in your prayers if you pray or pray tahajjud...I am more scared for what would my parents feel...Please make dua for me and my friends so we become doctor InShaaAllah on this first attempt...And give me any advice regarding making duas if you have....Thank you so much If you read all these...May Allah bless you all with abundance,happiness, success in this duniyah and hereafter...Ameen...

: hi everyone so my result is coming tomorrow and i planned on praying the whole night but i have sadly gotten my period. This result is really important and i am really scared its my igcse result so are there any alternatives any other duas i can recitee or any other prayer rituals i can preform while being on my period . Thank you!!!!

As-Salaam-Alaikum everybody.

I am currently facing some difficulties in life, these difficulties are the consequences of my own actions . I take full accountability for them. I try to be as practical as possible. I prefer being practical. But I’m also very pessimistic. Every time I try for something I laugh at myself believing with conviction that I will fail. I don’t know why that is I’ve never had any good hopes or any optimistic outlooks on situations and again that is all completely my fault. No mental health issues or depression no excuses it is all my fault. The thing is I don’t know how I can wire my brain into being positive. Every time I make dua i always say to my self I don’t deserve it and then I end up convincing myself I don’t deserve it. I’m also quite insecure and have no confidence in myself. I constantly compare myself to others etc. I just wanted to get some advice and practical advice on how I can change that, my self criticism is incredibly stubborn. People can try say positive things about me but I’ll convince myself that I’m not like that. I also underestimate myself quite a lot too.

Just wanted to get some practical advice or steps on how I slowly fix this mentality I have, it’s causing me to be awake all night and affecting my sleep. And please don’t don’t say cliche things I know I need to make dua etc but come one guys is there anything practical I can do anything logical way of thinking. Maybe I’m just being dumb and feel free to correct me.

Jzk ❤️

My result is on 18th August please make dua for me i really really need it. i will forever be grateful if someone can pray salat ul hajat for me. I can’t pray right now so if anyone can pray salat ul hajat or tahajud for me I’ll be very very grateful!

Assalamualaikum,

from India, graduated this year in Bachelors of engineering.

It's been 5-6 months hunting for a full time job and not getting replies from anywhere.

My family has high expectations from me and they are paying me to stay in another city and my father is the only one who earns. He got sick we don't have any backup! my mum sold my her gold necklace for my engineering fees, and now sold her gold ring to my expenses. Obviously I'm not enjoying my life there I'm consistently studying but -

I'm not getting responses from anywhere it's feels disheartening why Allah's not listening to us!!!!!

I'm just tired!!! Sometimes I question myself will I ever be a good son for them or just make them poor??

Will I ever be able to get a job and take care of my family and get them all the happiness they deserve as they have sacrificed too much for me and invested all their money on me!!

I feel why ALLAH'S is making me struggle like this. don't I deserve a single job that can at least make them believe I can earn on my own????

I would be grateful if anyone has advice.

I don't need any money from anyone, I just need guidance... That's all!!!!!

I can't see them struggle like this that's all I need I don't need anything!!! I just want to keep them happy...

Will I ever make them happy?

Will I ever be a good son?

Should I just die?

Asalamualikom Brother and sister im in dire need of ur duas ik Only Allah alone can open doors for me pls pray that i get into my dream university with current alevel grades pls pray pls make dua for me

I am going through a very complicated health situation. There are lot of uncertainties regarding it. It may become better or it might not. Unfortunately, my marriage is fixed. Treatments are not really working. I don’t want to burden my future wife with my health issues.
Pls pray to Allah to save her life as soon as possible if my condition is going to stay the same.

I hope its allowed to request this here.

I accidentally had a quarrel with a person who was an undercover CID. Without mercy he kept bashing me and took my ID for whatever reason. The quarrel wasn't even a huge deal I said "what the (ykw)" in confusion and he thought I was cursing him

I agree i shouldn't have done that and I never get angry or curse in public, for whatever reason I did that then for the first time and it had to be that guy.

Please make Dua to somehow make him forget or forgive me for that, to have Allah change his heart.

I'm the only son in my family and I was born on the day of arafah, I'm supposed to be a blessing to my family, and I don't want this ruining it. My dad is almost 60 and still working 6 days a week for more than 10 hours, it is my sole responsibility to retire him and give him a good life he always deserved, and if I get deported god forbid, my family would as well.

I've already had extreme issues with my imaan due to some things that had happened in the past despite my sincere praying and faith, and if this escalates any further and my family gets to know about it (god forbid) it'll take even more of a massive toll.

I request you guys to make duas for me.

Jazak Allah khair

Assalaam wa alaikoum everyone

I hope it’s allowed to post this in here.

My husband and I are currently in our ‘iddah. Please make dua that Allah ﷻ reunites us before our ‘iddah ends. May He bring us back together as better versions of ourselves, place barakah in our marriage, and fill our hearts with sincere love, mercy, and a love for each other for His sake.

May Allah heal what has been hurt, guide us back to each other, and bless our marriage with sakinah, mawaddah and rahmah. Ameen. 🤲🏼

And may Allah reward everyone who makes dua for us, grant you what your heart longs for if it is good for you, ease your hardships, bless your relationships, and fill your life with barakah and happiness. May He answer the duas you carry quietly in your heart. Ameen. 🤍

Hello for the past few years I’ve been thinking alot about death. I do not want to commit but the more I think about it the less I see reasons to stay in this dunya, I have been making duas but clearly it is not working, is this because it is haram?
Please let me know and thank you

Assalamu alaikum everyone 🤍
I’m going through something really difficult right now and I would genuinely appreciate some du’as.
I’ve just received my university results. I’ve been working towards studying Midwifery for a long time, and it’s genuinely something I’m passionate about. I completed an Access course with the university I applied to, and because of that I was given a reduced offer of 80 UCAS points. I achieved the 80 points I needed, so I thought I was finally going to get the place I’d been working towards.
Instead, I received an email saying they couldn’t offer me my initial choice of Midwifery and offered me Adult Nursing instead. They haven’t properly explained why my 80 points aren’t being accepted, so I’m currently trying to get the decision reviewed.
I’m absolutely heartbroken. I had imagined results day so differently — I was going to dress up, get a cake and flowers, celebrate with my family and finally feel like everything I’d worked for had paid off. Instead I’ve spent the day crying and struggling to do anything.
I know that Allah knows what is best for me, and I don’t want to become attached to one outcome if it isn’t written for me. But I really, really love Midwifery and I’m praying that Allah opens this door for me if it is khayr.
My family are making du’a for me too, and my dad is even planning to do a qurbani/sadaqah and make du’a for me.
Please make du’a that Allah makes this situation easy, allows me to study Midwifery if it is good for me, puts barakah in my future, and gives me something better if this isn’t what is written for me.
I’d also really appreciate any specific du’as, adhkar or Qur’an verses you turn to when you’re desperately hoping for something and don’t know what the outcome will be.
JazakumAllahu khayran. Please keep me in your du’as. 🤍

My father left us when I was 13 I am now in my late 20s. He has come back to stay with us for a short period of time, to sort out some health related issues and documents. My mother lets him stay with us despite her own resentment and frustration. They are divorced so they are now non mehram to each other so he shouldn’t be staying with us. Thats a whole topic in itself. I think she’s scared to kick him out because he has nowhere else to stay and people will speak poorly of her if she kicks him out.

Last time he was here was in September 2024 and I remember feeling a lot of depression and anxiety about his arrival. It was like years of pent up frustration had exploded inside me and I could no longer function. When my father left when I was a teen my mother went into deep depression and mental health crisis that almost sent her to hospital. She’s since gotten better but my family has always struggled to keep a roof over our heads, food on the table, etc. I have other sibling and a younger brother who was 4 when my dad left. None of them have come to visit since he has left and I am the only one still living at home with my dad ( we all live in the same city).

Anyhow, to keep it short I have been very cold towards my father since he arrived a few days ago. Not really speaking to him unless it’s necessary and sometimes I ignore his attempts at conversation and walk away. I do this so I don’t lash out at him because I feel it bubbling inside me.

I know this is haram and I should be kind to him since he’s still my father. I want to gain Allahs pleasure but I don’t want to fall into poor boundaries or people pleasing. I struggled with this a lot in the past and my dad took advantage by asking for things from me.

What is my responsibility islamically? Do I have to be kind to him despite what he’s done? Will I gain Allahs anger if I continue to ignore him? Please give me any advice on this. May Allah make it easy on all who are struggling.

Good evening everyone,

I hope you are all doing well, I know that I may just be a stranger to all of you, recently I have been going through a tough period where things just don't seem to be going right

I have been messing up, potentially ruined a few fried ships forever because of my mental state, I am terrified, I have a session arranged with a psychiatrist at the end of this month.

I miss my friends greatly, I am tired of having nothing but years of anxiety and thoughts rushing through my head at all times of the day.

I have already started with zeeyarat ashura again and duaa tawasul.

I am not the best of people, nor am I the worst even though I feel like it, I had a mental breakdown, and I want to do everything in my power to try and reconcile with my friends and become a better person.

I am dedicating these prayers to them, as well as any of you who read this and are in need of prayers for loved ones or yourselves.

Ya rab, inshallah things work out, something inside tells me to give up hope on things ever working out, and another tells me that maybe there's a chance I can fix things and make it better.

Please everyone, whoever reads this, help me by praying with me, and inshallah things work out for the best

Things have never felt more bleak than they do now, but even after the darkest of nights there comes a ray of sunshine

Please everyone, I will document my journey as best I can and let you know about the updates.

Salam, I am currently in a desperate situation. I have over 6,000 euros in debt and I don't know what to do to get out of it. If you have any supplications or hadiths to share with me, I would be very grateful. Amen

Assalam alaykum everyone,

I'm going through an incredibly heavy period of my life right now, and I wanted to share honestly and hear whatever advice or perspective you might have.

I've been diagnosed with severe depression and anxiety for two years, and I'm currently under treatment for both, as well as for chronic insomnia. On top of that, I live with chronic pain every day, which makes even basic things feel exhausting.
Despite all of this, I'm still expected to take care of everything and everyone in my family. I'm the eldest of 5 siblings, and that role comes with a weight that never really goes away, no matter how little I have left to give. There's barely any space left for me to actually rest or focus on my own recovery.

Because I haven't been able to work as much as before, I've fallen behind on payments rent, bills, and other things keep piling up, and it's become a constant source of stress layered on top of everything else I'm already carrying.

Religiously, I've drifted far from practicing. I keep committing sins that I'm ashamed of and that I can't seem to stop, no matter how much I want to. That shame has grown so heavy that I don't even feel like I have the right to ask Allah for forgiveness, or to turn to Him and ask for help with any of this. That feeling might be the heaviest part of everything I'm going through. Feeling too unworthy to even reach out to Him when I need Him the most.

On top of all that, I've been isolating myself more and more from people around me, and I find myself constantly ruminating, stuck in dark, heavy thoughts that I can't seem to switch off, even when I try.

I'm not entirely sure what I'm looking for by posting this. Maybe just some perspective, some words of comfort, or advice from anyone who has been through something similar. Thank you for reading this far. 🤍

I studied accounting degrees, during my studies struggled to get a part time job
Graduated at 25
I struggled to get jobs
Got accountant job at age 28, fired within 3 months
Got another accounting job at age 31 fired within 6 monh
I am 32 now no job no friends no wife

Aoa everyone im getting my results in 7 hours and ive never felt more anxious please could you all just take a few seconds and make dua for me to pass all my exams with good grades please i beg you im so so scared ☹️

Please make dua for me 🤲

Assalamu alaikum. I'm going through a difficult time right now and would really appreciate your duas. May Allah reward everyone who remembers me in their prayers. JazakAllahu khayran.