My adult daughters don’t talk anymore. I stay out of it. As a mom, I noticed that they are kind of emotionally connected to each other
Each child (adults) have legit reasons for not having contact with each other.
They are both girls in their late 20’s. I don’t interfere in their conflict.
But there’s something I’ve found interesting.
**. Oftentimes, when one of the girls experiences something like a nosebleed requiring cauterization, the other child experiences severe nose bleeds
Other examples:
* two weeks ago one of my daughters told me about blood in her urine. The next week, my other daughter tells me about blood in her urine.
* severe rashes. One daughter will tell me about her chronic hives and the next week my other daughter will ask for help about similar symptom.
The are born 15 month apart.
I guess I’m just saying these two have an unrecognized emotional connection.
I’ll live and let live, and I do try to step back, but I’m hopeful for the future when they can start over with each either, because when they were besties, they were the best for each other