
My Baby Boy became an angel on March 9! Will he return to me?
Sorry in advance for the image. We lost him in the Second Trimester. He was our first, my miracle baby after years of trying!

Sorry in advance for the image. We lost him in the Second Trimester. He was our first, my miracle baby after years of trying!
Is it normal to see high WBC(3+) and RBC(4+) numbers in a 17 weeker's lungs?
Can this to be due to shock and fetal distress being in the birth canal for approx 24 hours?
Preterm labor, pending autopsy results for my sweet angel baby boy.
Baby boy lost halfway through pregnancy. Have you come across this Bacteria causing diseases?
My placenta tissue showed:
Mixed Flora including:
2+ Weeksella Virosa(is a rare bacteria that is known to cause preterm labor based on what I read)
2+ Pseudoglitamicbacter species
2+ oligella urethrealis
1+ Corynebacterium Aurimucosum
No organisms and no WBC seen on Gram Smear
Baby's Fetal lung tissue shows:
3+ White blood cells
4+ Red blood Cells
A swab of his fetal ling was taken. No organisms grew on the culture after 2 days of incubation
Context: Lost my baby boy midway(17 week baby) through pregnancy, it was sudden and things were textbook until they weren't. Losing him made me realize how wanted and loved he was.
I'm praying he returns to us, does that work- Mediums of Reddit?
Signs:
- A few weeks before I lost him, randomly at 11:11 I started asking for a safe and smooth labor, before that it was always asking for a healthy and happy baby which he absolutely was.
- Also, I cried to my husband telling him I felt something is wrong, but chalked it up to pregnancy hormones
Not sure if this was some higher power guiding me OR if I brought this upon myself?
- Baby has given so many signs, my husband and I have asked him for multiple confirmations of blue butterflies, ladybugs and he has always shown up telling us he is safe and confirming he wants to come back. but as humans we're silly.
A Tale of Many Grandfathers:
My Maternal Grandpa:
- Earlier in my pregnancy, my maternal grandpa visited in my dream and expressed how excited 'we are to welcome your baby'. Who is the WE?
I was very close to him and he passed in COVID, his visitation dreams typically occur once a year for me and all he typically does is smile, this was the first time I heard his voice.
Can't help but think that grandpa meant, he was happy that my baby will be welcomed by him in heaven or wherever he is? AND not what I assumed here on earth with me?
My Paternal Grandpa
- My baby's due date was the same as my Paternal Granpa's passing, on my dad's side they joke that I'm my father's grandmother reincarnated. When we learned about baby's due date, couldn't help but think Paternal Grandpa was returning?
He passed a few months before I was born and kept asking my mom ' to show her baby to me' during his final days at the hospital.
My husband's paternal Grandpa:
Baby was born premature on my husband's grandfather's birthday
Not pregnant yet- but will try soon. I miss him so much, he was our first and we tried for 2 years to bring him.
Questions:
- Am I drowning in grief or this is real?
- I keep getting the feeling this was not meant to happen and it was a mistake, just an unshakeable feeling like something in this timeline flipped?
- This tale of multiple grandfathers is all too confusing. Did they all try and come back and get confused who gets to go and ultimately I lost my baby?
(Yay human biology and all the guilt I have for losing him)
If this is true, can you invite a miscarried baby back to your womb and do they respond and return?
Context: Lost my baby boy midway(17 week baby) through pregnancy, it was sudden and things were textbook until they weren't. Losing him made me realize how wanted and loved he was.
I'm praying he returns to us, does that work- Mediums of Reddit?
Signs:
- A few weeks before I lost him, randomly at 11:11 I started asking for a safe and smooth labor, before that it was always asking for a healthy and happy baby which he absolutely was.
- Also, I cried to my husband telling him I felt something is wrong, but chalked it up to pregnancy hormones
Not sure if this was some higher power guiding me OR if I brought this upon myself?
- Baby has given so many signs, my husband and I have asked him for multiple confirmations of blue butterflies, ladybugs and he has always shown up telling us he is safe and confirming he wants to come back. but as humans we're silly.
A Tale of Many Grandfathers:
My Maternal Grandpa:
- Earlier in my pregnancy, my maternal grandpa visited in my dream and expressed how excited 'we are to welcome your baby'. Who is the WE?
I was very close to him and he passed in COVID, his visitation dreams typically occur once a year for me and all he typically does is smile, this was the first time I heard his voice.
Can't help but think that grandpa meant, he was happy that my baby will be welcomed by him in heaven or wherever he is? AND not what I assumed here on earth with me?
My Paternal Grandpa
- My baby's due date was the same as my Paternal Granpa's passing, on my dad's side they joke that I'm my father's grandmother reincarnated. When we learned about baby's due date, couldn't help but think Paternal Grandpa was returning?
He passed a few months before I was born and kept asking my mom ' to show her baby to me' during his final days at the hospital.
My husband's paternal Grandpa:
Baby was born premature on my husband's grandfather's birthday
Not pregnant yet- but will try soon. I miss him so much, he was our first and we tried for 2 years to bring him.
Questions:
- Am I drowning in grief or this is real?
- I keep getting the feeling this was not meant to happen and it was a mistake, just an unshakeable feeling like something in this timeline flipped?
- This tale of multiple grandfathers is all too confusing. Did they all try and come back and get confused who gets to go and ultimately I lost my baby?
(Yay human biology and all the guilt I have for losing him)
Really frustrated having found out possible IC that led to Chorio, leading to losing my first born boy.
Genuinely curious, is there not enough $$ for funding research or little has been available to study?
35F, vegetarian, relatively healthy.
Had a textbook pregnancy until 17 weeks and then a spontaneous labor resulting in loss
Spotting and passing small clots on a Saturday coupled with cramping, ER tested WBC and diagnosed UTI and gave Macrobid, on Monday baby came out of vagina, had to deliver
Elevated levels of CRP and lactate which stayed high and then eventually normaled out after a week.
Due to grief and shock of how quickly we lost baby boy, went home on the Monday and returned on Wednesday due to fever and chills
A lot of uterine tenderness was mentioned right after delivery and some white pus came out?
I've been doing a lot of reading and understand WBC, Lactate and CRP can be elevated during labor.
I had mild headaches a couple times during pregnancy, cramping once before, felt leaking and pee/poop smelled sweet once with vomitting only when I ate yoghurt. When I look at these together, makes me think I should have gone to ER, but I was told enough times by the mid-wives that my frequent urination and pelvic/vaginal pressure in week 13 was normal, so I took everything else as growing uterus and baby stuff.
Naturally conceived after a polyp removal, waited 6 weeks and fell pregnant. No progesterone was offered, due to deemed low risk. Makes me wonder if the polyp removal(2cm) had something to do with early cervical dilation or insufficiency leading to loss?
11 week scan abdominal had cervix closed and measured 3cm which is on the shorter side as I now understand
Baby's lungs had 2+ WBC
Placenta had Weeksella Virosa and Cornybacteria-- which likely got infected during vaginal delivery
My question to you is is this a true case of Chorio? Please please Help me solve this mystery!