u/Crafty_Barnacle_8298

The other way around is always discussed. Are there any fellow teachers here. Do u have any such experience. I used to work as a teacher and seriously these teenagers are so rude and disrespectful. They don't give a sh*t about studying (most of them) and would not take you seriously just because you are a young teacher. It made me really sad and wanted to quit the profession. There are some nice students, that's true. But the times are very different, in our times teachers did get some respect. I'm not saying students should walk tiptoe around tchrs or be at their foot . Nooooo. Just basic human kindness.

One example, I used to go to school in a two wheeler and so I have to wear my sunglasses. And as I was about to start my scooty this boy ,14 yr old was singing a bashing song at me, like Kannappi rider..and all, in front of a whole lot of students and they were laughing. I felt really sad. What if the tables were turned, it would even get political. I really don't get their attitude. Ingane okke nammal tchrsnod behave cheyyumaruno.. maybe avaru kelkathe nthelm parnjalm not in their face hurting them like this. There are a lot of things like this. It's not at all easy being a teacher nowadays. No matter how much you try to make them comfortable, some kids are just mean.

But the kids from Up and Lp section are so sweet. 🥺 How I wished I could teach them. It's the teenagers who are disrespectful.

I saw a comment yesterday that today's Omy's b'day and I literally thought they would be somewhere else..coz from all the family fiascos it was expected. Akri unfollowing Ag and things and diya constantly bashing Ag's fam, a get together in these times would be really awkward. Good for them.

Does anyone know their reason for divorce. They seemed like a lovely couple back in the days. I remember reading about her polyamory related posts. Is that the reason?

I watched Ahaana's video and I have seen comments under posts here bashing her for saying they helped tanvi set up the YouTube and all. Where's the lie people..? What she said was true, right. If tanvi were not their cousin she wouldn't have gained this easy support at all.

Some people here just want to hate them. I also don't like some things abt them, and especially Diya and her atrocities. But even when there is something good the majority here won't accept it. I have actually conducted a lil experiment myself .I once put a comment supporting hansika and it has got a lot of downvotes to my surprise..then I edited and added a little jab to see what happens and the downvotes turned into upvotes.. That's when I truly understood the hypocrisy here

And what I'm actually trying to say is , her Ammoomma defo seems like a problematic person. And they have their rights to not talk to her..Maybe if the circumstances would need them I'm sure Sikri wouldn't abandon her mother with not a care in the world.. so once in a while just try to understand that they are also people with real emotions.

Does anyone know her in real life? If yes , is she like this irl, I mean ithrakk innocent aano ee kutti. At first I found her videos to be funny, but now I don't skip them, it's like looking back into the good old days, (I say this in a good way). You know, where you are a kid or a teenager, wearing whatever you like, feeling confident in them and just having fun..

Does anybody know anything about this. Some of my friends from cochin said that they are dating. Any tea?

My friend once told me this story of her cousin. Let's name my friend lily and the cousin maggi. So maggi had a relationship, even though she is super secretive about everything personal quite a few people in the locality knew it and obviously did lily. But maggi would act like a very good girl making critical comments about people who have relationships. And at some point, maggi's engagement got fixed and lily saw maggi's lover going to and fro in front of maggi's home. Lily knew that it's her lover and maggi lied after some time that it's a person who proposed her but she rejected and even changed his name. (Lily knows his real name). And before a few days of the engagement lily saw his car going into maggi"s home. And later lily asked maggi why he came, maggi said her family called him to advice to stop disturbing her. But the truth was something else. Lily got to know this through the chat screenshots of this lover from a friend in the locality..

What really happened. Maggi didn't even mention to this lover that she's going to get engaged. And they came to expose her in front of the whole family. And then there are other things. Maggi failed plus two and lily and other relatives know this (they did check her result) , but maggi had been lying to all that she passed the exams. (She later joined a course which only needed 10th) And when lily went to join the degree course maggi also went with her pretending to apply for a degree, then later she said (njn pinne cheytholam). And maggi had been lying to this bf of hers that she joined the degree course in a nearby college . (Actually lily joined there). And maggi would tell him that she is the teacher's pet, she always gets good grades in the class and she would talk to lily everyday and ask her about the college shenanigans. Poor lily didn't know anything. And then maggi would describe all the things she got from lily to her lover. The funniest part is that the guy lives close to the college, didn't it even occur to him to visit maggi once.??Either she was too good at lying or he was too naive. So only later did this boyfriend understand that this girl didn't even join a new college and lily also got to know this all and the girl was shocked. So do you know such good liars. ?;

One thing I've been observing recently is that some people only try to find fault with people who have money. For example, near my husband's house there's a family, one of the siblings is married and he has money, and the other is unmarried and no money.( And is special) So their mother always supported the unmarried person and would villainise the other. Even though it's the money guy, (let's call him Binu.) is taking care of everything financially and otherwise. Even when the mother was sick, (she's no more) it was binu who took all the hospital finances and care, of course you can't expect that from the other brother . I understand that. But then the mom and the family would ask binu and wife to get out and they actually went and built a new home. And even my mom in law is always blaming binu for the new home , why are they not seeing their reason. Just bcoz they have money people are villainising them. If there is a quarrel and the one side is problematic but poor, these people would moralise themm only. And even if the rich side has merits they won't see it. I hateeeee it. And my husband is well off than his brother, and does more for the family and the mom in law is always trying to boost the other brother.. why this attitudeee.. !!

Do you find them interesting? What's your zodiac sign and other than yours which one is your fav and why. Have u noticed patterns ?

Yesterday a chechi and chettan came selling nighties and my mom bought two and I asked them if they have frock nighties, they said no. And I asked them if they will come again soon, they said yess, may be like next month or something. And this morning my mom went out to shop some things and I was alone. So I heard the sound of someone coming and I ran into the other room, coz I was alone and was wearing my mom's nighty and was not comfortable opening the door in it and also when I'm alone I don't like attending to strangers. And I heard this person calling hello Helloo..and they even rang the bell. I didn't see them but in my mind I was thinking what if it's yesterday's ppl. And then they were gone. Then my mom came back and I told her this , she said it would be the nighty sellers , she saw them coming when she went to the shop. I was like oh noooooo. I was waiting for them and now I feel really really bad. They cameee for mee and I didn't open the door. I feel like they saw me running 😭😭😭😭 goshhh. What if they wouldn't come back anymore. I feel bad for ignoring them. Does anyone do this when they are alone . especially girls?

I had this childhood friend..we were really close and we would visit each other often, share secrets. One thing about her is that she loooves to gossip and is very much of a people person and her main weapon of getting close to people itself is also gossip. I mean she used to spill the tea to me about her other "close" ones. So I knew it in my mind that she was not very good at keeping your secrets. And also would act like the goody two shoes while spreading other's secrets. I mean she would keep her secrets very private and would even straight away lie that she doesn't have a boyfriend and all. Like the teachers, she would go to the staffroom, sit with them and leak other's relationship and be this nice girl to them. You know the type. And another thing is that she used to borrow my clothes. Like a lottt. I was a fool and would give her like even 3-4 sets of dresses a week..( she had family struggles financially , so I used to understand it). For functions and all. It was absolutely okay for me and I wouldn't even think twice giving her my nice clothes. But later I felt like she was using me. ( I've heard from someone that she spilled some tea about my relationship, whereas I kept all her even more controversial things) And she would borrow clothes to go for an exam ?? Like doesn't she have clothes to go for an exam. I was a fool like I said and gave it to her. It's only after some time I understood her intentions behind this, coz she was going for the exam with her bf and so while travelling through our hometown, people wouldn't easily recognise her from the clothes ( ppl who knows us and believe me my naattkar is sookshmadarshinis) and even if somebody we know see them they would think it's me for a second. Then some people had told me about her talking poorly about me. I didn't believe it at that time, but slowly I got there. Then she would say some very nasty things about her classmate, which I now wonder if it's true at all. She really likes cooking up some fantasy stories. And I started wondering if she makes such stories about me. Then I started distancing myself from her. Coz she is fake af and uses people. And she got married to her boyfriend of that time and guess what, even her now close friends have been made to believe that it's an arranged marriage. One guy even argued for her when we said they were in love, like noo , it's pakkaaa arranged marriage. They are like sis and bro on Instagram, always resharing everything she's posting and all. And she is lying even to them. God she hasn't changed at all and they believe her..arghhh..And I don't have much contact with her now. For my own good. Any such experiences?

I used to dislike Cam, I've always thought he is a lil too much . But now I'm on my 4th or 5th rewatch and I'm starting to like him. Actually love him. He is soo adorable for me now. Yes he is a queen and dramatic but he is soo sweet and pure too. And unintentionally funny. Anyone with the same experience?