u/CryNot321

At first he we would just crack jokes and it helped the day pass by quickly but now he tells me to be quiet and says he doesn’t care about what I have to say. Even though he constantly approaches me and teases me. He will act nice one day and then switch to being extremely rude. He has also said he isn’t interested in me twice in front of coworkers and customers. Which I never was. I feel he does it to belittle me. I just don’t understand why?
I feel like he doesn’t like me or assumes I like him more than coworker level. So intentionally makes me dislike him? Idk it’s honestly irritating and I am done with this pattern of nice one day and extremely rude the next. The other day he told me “my sister saw you and said you were very pretty and I told her ew why she looks like a sloth” (honestly I think sloths are cute so I didn’t really gaf and give him the reaction he wanted) same day a male customer was asking for my number and he kept passing by and after when the customer left, we were passing by each other and he loudly was like “get tf out of my way damn” from how I reacted he came back up and apologized. But that really just set me off and he later started acting nice but I didn’t care and he tried playing victim saying “oh why are you being mean to me when I’m trying to be nice to you”

How do I stop this crap.
I am trying to completely stop giving him a reaction and not interact with him but it’s a small business and it’s just him and two others. I genuinely like this job but the way he has switched on me and becoming worse is becoming irritating.

I was using the leg extension and when I finished I felt a quick sharp pain in the front of my left hip. When I got home I noticed a black and blue the size of a quarter had popped up. Is this normal? I have been going to the gym for almost a year and this is the first time I felt that and gotten bruised in the same area. Should I be concerned was I pushing myself too hard? Or not doing my workout correctly?Sorry if this sounds like a dumb question

Okay there is this guy that I have noticed looking my way a lot and a few times I’ll catch him just looking at me when I look into a reflection. We make eye contact from the other end of a room a lot but up close he will be staring straight ahead. I have looked at him as he was talking to friends and he did a double take at me a few times. Then finally we just happened to be walking around the corner at the same time and we lock eyes for 3-5 seconds and it was like I was in a trance until I realized he was smiling with his jaw slightly open and I couldn’t help but smile back. After that he disappears and then when we do make eye contact now he turns away so fast and starts working on something or walks the other end of where we are. It’s like we finally made eye contact up close and now when I think today I have enough courage to say hi, he turns away from me.

I either think he doesn’t like me enough to want an interaction and just see’s me as eye candy or he is extremely shy. But he is so confident to look at me from afar and smile at me when he thinks I don’t notice (reflection or a friend notices). I have even noticed him talking to some friends of his and they seemed to look directly towards me as if he was talking about me. Also one time I was going down the steps and near the bottom there are tables. He was sitting there with a guy friend and he quickly looked at me, then his friend and his eyes got wide as if to signal oh shit thats her. What do you guys think?