u/Culucosepodi

I'm 27M from Kerala. Yesterday I attended the wedding of my friend whose elder brother was my senior in office & he was also a very close friend of mine. This brother got married 3 years back & since then, I've cautiously maintained a healthy gap to avoid any issues. Before his wedding, we were good friends... we used to hangout after office.. travel for office works together (NOT overnight journeys).
When his marriage was fixed... very generally I tried keeping a good relation with his wife also since I treated her as a new member in our wolfpack. We enjoyed his engagement, wedding and everything and went back to our own hustles.
Somewhere mid 2024, this girl (his wife) called up my parents and told them she does not like me talking to him... By then he had already resigned from our office and sooner our contact shrunk and both of us had come down to random "Happy onam" "Happy Christmas" texts or random once in 3-4 months hi-bye. But again, when she did this... I was so embarrassed in front of my parents and respectfully I cut the contact with her husband. Since 2024, I have only talked to him once or twice for some reason I don't even remember.
Meanwhile, they developed fresh issues between them as a couple and are separated unofficially with random fights and discussions in between.
Even though, I came to know about these from his sister, my friend and other common channels... i did not interfere or comment since this was a delicate issue..

Yesterday this girl again called my parents for attending my friend, his sisters' wedding. I was invited with 3 of our other friends. We attended and I did not even have lunch from there... I went for another event. I spent around 1 hr at the wedding before I left. This time she verbally abused me & my parents and this was uncalled for! I seriously regret attending the wedding now... But How to fix this!?
She is not hearing me out at all.. I have no intentions to have an extra marital affair with her husband. He is no "Shah Rukh Khan"! Now even if he was, I'm not behind a married man!

I have respectfully cut contact with him for her peace!!

Now, this has been on my head like I just hate this... She is threatening me to insult me at my place of work!!!!! I dont wanna face all these

I'm 26(F) from Kerala. Yesterday I attended the wedding of my friend whose brother was my senior in office & he was also a very close friend of mine. This brother got married 3 years back & since then, I've cautiously maintained a healthy gap to avoid any issues. Before his wedding, we were good friends... we used to hangout after office.. travel for office works together (NOT overnight journeys).
When his marriage was fixed... very generally I tried keeping a good relation with his wife also since I treated her as a new member in our wolfpack. We enjoyed his engagement, wedding and everything and went back to our own hustles.
Somewhere mid 2024, this girl (his wife) called up my parents and told them she does not like me talking to him... By then he had already resigned from our office and sooner our contact shrunk and both of us had come down to random "Happy onam" "Happy Christmas" texts or random once in 3-4 months hi-bye. But again, when she did this... I was so embarrassed in front of my parents and respectfully I cut the contact with her husband. Since 2024, I have only talked to him once or twice for some reason I don't even remember.
Meanwhile, they developed fresh issues between them as a couple and are separated unofficially with random fights and discussions in between.
Even though, I came to know about these from his sister, my friend and other common channels... i did not interfere or comment since this was a delicate issue..

Yesterday this girl again called my parents for attending my friend, his sisters' wedding. I was invited with 3 of our other friends. We attended and I did not even have lunch from there... I went for another event. I spent around 1 hr at the wedding before I left. This time she verbally abused me & my parents and this was uncalled for! I seriously regret attending the wedding now... But How to fix this!?
She is not hearing me out at all.. I have no intentions to have an extra marital affair with her husband. He is no "Shah Rukh Khan"! Now even if he was, I'm not behind a married man!

I have respectfully cut contact with him for her peace!!

Now, this has been on my head like I just hate this... She is threatening me to insult me at my place of work!!!!! I dont wanna face all these