Am planning to invest in an apartment with due possession after 3 years. However am currently in a mixed thought based on the investment amount, late possession and pre-emi.
Don't want to be in heavy loan burden. Currently under Jupiter Jupiter dasha and soon to start Jupiter Saturn in Nov.
He initiates physical contact too soon. When you refuse tries to manipulate you saying you have old thinking.
Uses pickup lines like "I will make sure you meet my Mom" 😂😂 mind you only on Indian Gurls not Gurls from abroad and I have noticed gurls with less exposure to Casanova guys easily falls for this.
He calls you late in the night and tells "I would like to talk to you when nobody disturbs me", but what he is actually doing is not letting anyone know that you are a part of his life because you are not.
His friends don't know that you exist, even if they do it's just surface level.
Never talks on serious topics about future and talks on random things like dress, makeup, style something that's very much on a lighter note.
Tries to control you in subtle way. Eg: you look awesome in traditional and not in western you should always wear those. In a way he wants you to wear traditional and stop wearing western clothes.
"You are so adjusting compared to other girls I have known I really like this trait of you" and then telling you more things to adjust. Appreciation and then manipulation.
Talks about financial issues he's facing at an early stage in a relationship clearly showing he's trying to extract from you.
Doesn't bother if you are sick but worried if he doesn't get ssxx.
Continuously keeps on preaching about his religion will surely try to mold you as per his idea of woman in his religion. Tries to put your religion down.
Will call you and then suddenly disappear for days then again come back. He was not occupied he was checking for other options.
Calls you at 3:00 am it's no way love its a booty call.
He is very influenced by someone from his family and talks often about that person clearly shows his thinking itself is governed by this person. Blindly following anyone is foolish and stupid and will undoubtedly create issues for you too in near future.
Tries to initiate physical contact saying, "that's how I express my love". This is bullshit respond but I don't like to receive love like this. 😂😂
Notice how he talks about other women in his life or women colleagues in general or any random women. You will clearly see what he thinks of women in general.
Most important your intuition will tell you something is wrong. Know it.
All these are real life stories I have seen, heard and experienced by myself and from other women too.