31F divorced, 10 years abroad
Been living in Canada for 10 years and have 2.5 crores in savings. Got divorced 3 years ago from a cheating husband. I feel lonely here, all I do is work or solo travel. I have some friends and relatives in Canada but everyone is so money minded and busy in their own lives that my divorced ass feels depressed.
To top it all I see my parents on video call everyday and all my dad tells me is that I should move back, get re married to a rich punjabi guy and live an easy work free stress-free life. I dated a guy here and lived with him for 6 months but after that him & I both felt we needed our space because he had a kid so I moved out to my own place. Since that break up I’ve been feeling worse and keep thinking I am going to end up alone.
I know this should not influence my decision but I think maybe being closer to family will keep me sane although I’ve tried being in India for 6-7 months in the past and got sick of the fake lifestyle.
All my friends are rich and married, having kids now. I love them but because I am divorced and stay in Canada most of the year, everytime I go back home it takes me couple weeks to feel at home again.
My mom knows how the society views divorced women and doesnt seem to be much in favour of me moving back but my dad & brother really want me to. My brother is younger and unmarried so I worry about his prospects of marriage being effected too.
Can someone recommend something ?