u/D_v_H21

Hi, I would like to know AITAH for this. First to start I’m 25 years old and I have partner that I love so much that I made a book about him and how much I love him, currently we are together and we are expecting soon a baby girl. You know that pregnancy is not the most easy for the woman in the end. So for two years I’ve been trying to cook different meals not my strength but I’m trying I want to learn. He always says that I don’t have any energy and feelings to do something not only cooking. For him I’m just a lazy person that loves to stay in bed. Yes I do stay in bed but not all day, just in days that I’m really tired or I need emotional vacation from everything because we live also with my in-laws which can be pretty damaging sometimes. So we had a fight about the cooking thing and he says that I’ll learn in the future when it’s already late. I can’t trust him now that he believes that I can do my things as becoming a mother, he says it but I can’t believe to him. I cried for this several hours. I don’t know if I can trust him when he says that he believes in me because lately are only fights and yes, no more sweet love. Years back i didn’t have the person to be my guide I had to do everything by my self and now once again I feel completely alone. So AITAH for being emotional and telling him that I don’t believe him?

This morning my husband decided to yell at me. I’m currently pregnant in my last week and I’m exited. So I had few days that I got for me, even that I cleaned and do the laundry. But he is never satisfied. I also had to mange the time to clean his car, talk to his parents and I badly wanted to see him because he is the only craving and he manage to have little time for me, I don’t judge him about the time I get that he has to work because our finance situation is not the best. I don’t know how to feel and what to do. I’m emotionally drained because some of the other days I got yelled again without a visible reason for me.

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Really is somebody familiar with taking all the guild but there is always someone innocent. Constantly cleaning the kitchen and they told me there are always crumbs. I leave everything every time perfectly, but there is that one person in the house that doesn’t do anything and finally what happened it is my fault and because of these happened to have ants in the kitchen. I hate when people are not cleaning after themselves. Even I hate this I’m staying quiet and clean everything. I just wanted to share, I know it’s not going to change and I don’t know what to do. Just hopping not to go mad about it. Thanks for reading 🤗

Really is somebody familiar with taking all the guild but there is always someone innocent. Constantly cleaning the kitchen and they told me there are always crumbs. I leave everything every time perfectly, but there is that one person in the house that doesn’t do anything and finally what happened it is my fault and because of these happened to have ants in the kitchen. I hate when people are not cleaning after themselves. Even I hate this I’m staying quiet and clean everything. I just wanted to share, I know it’s not going to change and I don’t know what to do. Just hopping not to go mad about it. Thanks 😊

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