u/Dangerous_Dig_9681

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Adhd and relationships!!

I have inattentive ADHD and it has affected my past relationships, especially during intimacy or just in general my mind can’t stay focused on what I’m supposed to focus on 😭.
I am on medication but it makes me talk too much and have no appetite or a sex drive, I have a really hard time staying present, I literally have to force it sometimes and I don’t want my partner to feel dismissed or unoticed .It’s really making me hold back on dating.
Has anyone experienced this or have any advice??

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u/Dangerous_Dig_9681 — 10 days ago

So I’m back at home from college for a couple of weeks (big mistake). It hasn’t even been a week yet and my mom has already given me the silent treatment, cause she asked me to do something and I didn’t do it 😑😑.

Out of all my siblings I’m the only one she does it to wayy before I was a teenager,even though im the one she comes running to about most of her problems, everytime this happens I feel like I’m withheld from eating as she does all the shopping and cooking unless I apologise and I’m literally starving rn😭😭 .

This might sound silly but there’s more to it but I don’t have the energy.

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u/Dangerous_Dig_9681 — 23 days ago
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Me and my ex gf both had similar trauma backgrounds and we haven’t spoken in about a year.

Recently I had a delayed flashback of my own trauma, and now when it happens my brain also creates “flashbacks” of her trauma too (even though I was never there). It’s like I’m seeing both at the same time and I know my brain is making it up, but it won’t stop.

I also don’t want to contact her but it’s been beating me down and ik it’s not her fault but Idk if talking to her would solve something??

Has anyone experienced something like this or know why it happens??

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u/Dangerous_Dig_9681 — 25 days ago