u/Dazzling_Explorer729

If you’re talking to a girl and she tells you she has an avoidant attachment style, would you still pursue a relationship with her, even though you haven’t noticed any avoidant behavior from her so far?

I know it's unhealthy

It's been over a year, but and logically I know they're living their own life. They probably don't even remember half the conversations I still replay in my head.

But every few weeks, I catch myself opening that app, searching their username, wondering if they're okay. They haven't posted in months. I don't even know if they deleted the account or just moved on

The weird part isn't missing them.

It's realizing I miss the version of myself that believed someone choosing to stay was guaranteed.

I don't check because I expect a message anymore.

I check because some part of me hasn't accepted that some endings don't come with closure