u/Delicious-Wind-4008

Hello! My man has been on T for a year (as of today yay!) and we have always had great sex, even before he started hrt. He never really wanted me to touch him and wanted to do everything which I was okay with, but recently he started changing his mind. When he asked me I was so nervous it made my heart race and my stomach nauseous. I don’t know what to do! He’s also very nervous so he could only say so much about what he thinks he wants. I’m a cis woman and I’ve read blogs about potential ways we can have sex that physically pleasure him more but I’m so confused! We normally use a prosthetic and there was a brief talk of us getting a toy more for him. This is so new to me and I’m getting in my head about it BAD. Does anyone have any advice or maybe more links to things I can read? My brain needs to understand anything it can lol. Thanks!!

Hi friends! Im currently a barista at Starbucks but there’s a potential opportunity for me at Black Rock Coffee and I’m thinking of taking it. I’d like to do both at the same time…. I know you “can’t” but technically what is stopping me? Are they going to look at my employment records like a hawk? No. So if I don’t tell my SM, is it really that deep? Need some input. Thanks!

Hi friends! With the cost of living always rising, I’m looking for a second job. Does anyone have any advice or experience on getting a second that might not also be coffee? With the store im at I can change my availability easily, so I was thinking of going back to hosting at nights. Does anyone do anything else and absolutely love it? Thanks!

Hi baristas! With the cost of living always rising, I’m looking for a second job. Does anyone have any advice or experience on getting a second that might not also be coffee? With where I’m a barista I can change my availability easily, so I was thinking of going back to hosting at nights. Does anyone do anything else and absolutely love it? Thanks!

Hello!! Does anyone know where to get the limited Busch Apple Light around mesa? My boyfriend and I haven’t been able to find it and are curious. Thanks!

Hi!! I’m a young woman getting ready to move out of my family home and looking for affordable apartments is so difficult!! I don’t have anyone to live with and I’m not sure how to find a random roommate from a site that isn’t shady. I’m looking for a 1 bed 1 bath or even a studio that’s okay with animals (two well behaved kitties) and no higher than $900 a month. I work in Scottsdale but I’d love to stay in the mesa area. Help!!

I woke up today out of it, after my alarm, and with a 103 fever….. one hour before my shift. I called ASAP knowing i definitely couldn’t come in. This is my first time calling out and it made me more sick to my stomach. My manager is pissed and said it might be an unexcused absence. What do I do from here? What happens? Am I in trouble, is there a written warning? I’ve never done any of this and I’m so anxious. I’m a great partner and I’m always at my shift 15 minutes early and I usually stay after. Help!