u/Delusional_doctur

The cat on a wall

25/M

Happend to match with same girl for 3 times in 3 different dating apps in a span of 9 months

She is 23/F

I met her for the first time in bumble... the first chat after matching went well tbh... she was from my home town... then she caught up with her work in iT and didnt reply and there after I chose to quit dating and deal with my work

6 months later when I thought I should try dating app again... this time I tried tinder and surprisingly I met her again... she recognized me and matched with me - she remembered our convo even better than me... but the same story repeats...she being working in IT and dealing with deadline didnt respond properly and I chose to leave dating app again and deal with my work

3 months later I again decided to install dating app and this time I matched with the same girl for 3rd time... unlike past 2 times she did respond well and made sensible connection

She was the one who asked for the contacts... started talking daily... one fine night she opened up by herself about past dating failure that made her visit therapies coz she had underwent AbOrtio' coz the guy sacked her up after honeymoon phase.

Thats it... right from that day she again started zoning out... she used to talk so good in the first few days of asking my number and everything seems odd after this incident

I sensed it and addressed that to her... she now tells I dont know i feel like I am forcing myself to make a conversation with you... blah blah blah...

Irony is she was the one who said she was interested in me and wanted to date me and thats why she asked for my contact

From my side I tried my best to keep the conversation going believed that it must the starting shy phase and things will be good later on.

Now I feel like she has not been out of her trauma from past and I told her not to text me until she feels something naturally

Told her : you needn't force anything... I dont believe that u r mentally well enough to date... coz she herself admits that she will open up random tabs while texting me... zone out and feels less interested to make the conversation be going.

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u/Delusional_doctur — 5 days ago

THE CAT ON A WALL

25/M

Happend to match with same girl for 3 times in 3 different dating apps in a span of 9 months

She is 23/F

I met her for the first time in bumble... the first chat after matching went well tbh... she was from my home town... then she caught up with her work in iT and didnt reply and there after I chose to quit dating and deal with my work

6 months later when I thought I should try dating app again... this time I tried tinder and surprisingly I met her again... she recognized me and matched with me - she remembered our convo even better than me... but the same story repeats...she being working in IT and dealing with deadline didnt respond properly and I chose to leave dating app again and deal with my work

3 months later I again decided to install dating app and this time I matched with the same girl for 3rd time... unlike past 2 times she did respond well and made sensible connection

She was the one who asked for the contacts... started talking daily... one fine night she opened up by herself about past dating failure that made her visit therapies coz she had underwent AbOrtio' coz the guy sacked her up after honeymoon phase.

Thats it... right from that day she again started zoning out... she used to talk so good in the first few days of asking my number and everything seems odd after this incident

I sensed it and addressed that to her... she now tells I dont know i feel like I am forcing myself to make a conversation with you... blah blah blah...

Irony is she was the one who said she was interested in me and wanted to date me and thats why she asked for my contact

From my side I tried my best to keep the conversation going believed that it must the starting shy phase and things will be good later on.

Now I feel like she has not been out of her trauma from past and I told her not to text me until she feels something naturally

Told her : you needn't force anything... I dont believe that u r mentally well enough to date... coz she herself admits that she will open up random tabs while texting me... zone out and feels less interested to make the conversation be going.

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u/Delusional_doctur — 5 days ago

Innah dhan ma un prechanai 🤡

25/M

Happend to match with same girl for 3 times in 3 different dating apps in a span of 9 months

She is 23/F

I met her for the first time in bumble... the first chat after matching went well tbh... she was from my home town... then she caught up with her work in iT and didnt reply and there after I chose to quit dating and deal with my work

6 months later when I thought I should try dating app again... this time I tried tinder and surprisingly I met her again... she recognized me and matched with me - she remembered our convo even better than me... but the same story repeats...she being working in IT and dealing with deadline didnt respond properly and I chose to leave dating app again and deal with my work

3 months later I again decided to install dating app and this time I matched with the same girl for 3rd time... unlike past 2 times she did respond well and made sensible connection

She was the one who asked for the contacts... started talking daily... one fine night she opened up by herself about past dating failure that made her visit therapies coz she had underwent AbOrtio' coz the guy sacked her up after honeymoon phase.

Thats it... right from that day she again started zoning out... she used to talk so good in the first few days of asking my number and everything seems odd after this incident

I sensed it and addressed that to her... she now tells I dont know i feel like I am forcing myself to make a conversation with you... blah blah blah...

Irony is she was the one who said she was interested in me and wanted to date me and thats why she asked for my contact

From my side I tried my best to keep the conversation going believed that it must the starting shy phase and things will be good later on.

Now I feel like she has not been out of her trauma from past and I told her not to text me until she feels something naturally

Told her : you needn't force anything... I dont believe that u r mentally well enough to date... coz she herself admits that she will open up random tabs while texting me... zone out and feels less interested to make the conversation be going.

reddit.com
u/Delusional_doctur — 5 days ago