u/DepartmentSalt5401

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hello i would like your opinion on the hinge profile i am currently using

before i used another one , i had two pictures that were different than the current one, and it worked really decently , i could match with the women i was interested in, even if my old profile had a lot of selfies

but the pictures started to be a bit old ( from 4 years ago ) so i took new one , but ever since i have changed my profile doesnt work well at all

for exemple before with the old one i could get a 50 % rate of matches ( i use the free version ) , like 3 out of 6 swipe i did converted in a match , but with the new one its a 0 %

the pictures i have changes are one where i hold a book with denim jacket and shorter hair , and a group picture, i had to change them because i start to look older

i indeed replaced them with a picture with book and denim jacket but recent one and a surf picture , but ever since my profile doesnt work well at all

The 2 Last picture are the one i used on my older profile ( cat picture as number 1 and then those 2 last picture) , and this profile got 50+ like in few month in paris ( even with selfie and " no teeth smile" ( it doenst matter here ) , but my new one get nothing, and even no match

i also precise that the prompt didnt do anything at all to change the match rate in france , so mine are really lame , i always matched despite bad prompt

i precise the old denim jacket + book picture was the one with the most like on my profile in paris

sorry for my english i am french

u/DepartmentSalt5401 — 1 day ago

besoin de conseil pour gérer une rupture douloureuse

voila la situation, il y a 13 mois j'ai matché avec une étrangère en mode voyage sur une appli de rencontre, et meme si je savais que les relations a distance sont très compliquées je me suis pris au jeu,

on a discuté durant plus de 1 an et il y a eu des sentiments des deux cotés, on devait se rencontrer en juin de cette année ,

le mois dernier la communication est devenue compliquée a cause de problème de telephone de son coté , et plus distante , puis elle a fini par me dire qu'elle voulait rompre , elle m'a envoyé un message me disant qu'elle gardait une image positive de la relation etc , et moi je me suis senti con du coup j'ai juste répondu un " merci , toi aussi prends soin de toi " froid

il faut savoir que j'avis desactivé mon instagram pour elle durant la relation a partir du 2 eme mois , et du coup a peine 5 jours après sa décision de rompre je l'ai réactivé et j'ai ajouté plusieurs femmes qui m'ont envoyé des demandes d'ajout ....

elle a vu cela et m'a envoyé un message me disant que jétais un hypocrite , m'a insulté etc ,

et honnetement je suis désemparé parce que je souhaiterais vraiment me remettre avec elle ... ai je détruis mes chances de retour avec? en ayant ajouté des filles sur instagram aussi vite , le truc c'est que c'est mon ex qui a décidé de rompre et dès que je tentais de lui dire que sa décision me peinait elle disait que il fallait que j'accepte , je ne sais plus quoi faire , si jamais vous avez des conseils, merci

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u/DepartmentSalt5401 — 12 days ago

adding girls on instagram after a break up

my gf decided to break up with me 1 week ago, during our relationship i desactivated my ig ,

lately i went on langage exchange app and some women asked for my ig, i added 3 girls in the span of 2 days and i am afraid that it will make my ex never come back ,

cause she sent me an email 3 days ago telling that she see i am flirting again and i should stop my cynical suffering , she was mad at me cause i only answered a " thanks take care " to her long emotional closure message, but she is the one decided to break up

so is it a bad move to add several girls 5 days after a break up ?

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u/DepartmentSalt5401 — 12 days ago