u/Descraggler

Subtask Fields

New to Click Up & LMDM. Every source, including click up help & their AI says you can have custom fields on a subtask but have them not show on the parent task. For example, checkboxes that are vital to a subtask, but make no sense as a field on a parent task. Even following click up's very basic directions does not get these fields to show on the subtasks. ​what gives? Is my whole Click Up experience going to be like this??

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u/Descraggler — 8 days ago
▲ 2 r/MCAS

Flooring Advice for an MCAS newb?

Hello! I'm brand new to MCAS diagnosis (still in progress, but pretty sure), and calamity has struck twice: flood in one room, dog destroyed carpet in another. Yesterday, we laid out three boxes of Luxury Vinyl Plank just to see which one looked best in the room. I thought nothing of it, but today I woke up in a ton of pain, thinking I was sick, later busted out with an ocular migraine (rare). I am hoarse, my chest feels tight, and I'm nasal, full of phlegm, and my throat is irritated. I would think I'm sick, but I'm mostly homebound and haven't been exposed to anything. It gets worse in the house and better when I go outside. It finally dawned on me that my whole house smells like these planks, and they are off gassing. After some Googling, ​​I see that this can last weeks or months and make sensitive people really sick.

We need to replace about 865 square feet in the living, kitchen & master bedroom ASAP, and we are on a tight budget. I am now scared that we're going to put something down that sets me way back, and the respiratory symptoms are alarming. Can anyone offer advice here? Are there affordable floors that won't chemically kill me?

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u/Descraggler — 1 month ago
▲ 1 r/AlAnon

I'm new, and my Q is my spouse. He has struggled with massive depression for years, and some years ago started drinking in secret. He was also using weed constantly and any other drug he could find, while on antidepressants. The combo was good cover--everyone was worried about stuff like Lewy Body dementia, so he was able to hide it for years. He eventuality went to rehab and has been allegedly clean for four years. The past year or so, he has slowly started slipping back into user behaviors, though i can find no signs of alcohol. I recognize the MO because I lived it before. He never did stop the weed, but cut back to just bedtime. This week he seemed so 100% like his drinking self that I shook down every nook and cranny, and I found tons of hidden high-potency weed, like 87% THC. I've been watching the stash since, and he takes both a vape pen and hitter box to work each day, takes the vape pen each time he leaves the house. As far as I can tell, he goes through about 1/3 of a cart a day, plus smokes actual weed. To make things worse, his budget doesn't cover this, and I suspect he may be getting them from his old dealer, which puts my whole family in danger, in addition to the fact that we set a strong boundary he readily agreed to that all contact had to stop.

I know a lot of people don't take weed seriously, but I have seen some shit go down when people with mental illness or addiction get hooked on this high-potency shit. His behavior screams active addiction to me, and his sneaking and lying and apparently needing it all day in inappropriate situations is the hallmark of addiction. I am worried about that at face value, but that he'll also slip back to drinking from here. The fact that it has brought out his active-use behaviors is terrifying, and his mental health has been an absolute mess for months.

I am reeling and unsure what to do. I obviously have to confront him and be ready to set boundaries, but no one lies and manipulates like someone in addictive addiction, and I don't expect it to go well. He has a psychiatrist and a therapist, and he has set me up to talk to them when I have concerns about his mental health, so I feel like I should alert them to this situation. His addiction almost killed him last time and traumatized a lot of people. I expect he will be in full denial.

Does anyone have any advice or wise words here? I am so gobsmacked at being in this place again, I can't think straight. What boundaries do I set to protect my kids and me? What is the best way to approach him, especially considering I can't necessarily know if he's high? It's hard not to feel like my family's well-being rides on how I handle this, and I can't even think straight.

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u/Descraggler — 2 months ago