u/Destinyt10

Does anybody else miss the old OfferUp? Like I feel like it's fallen off so hard. Like literally last year I was doing so good with sales and making good money and getting tons of views and action on my listings. Now it's a ghost town this year. Views are extremely low and slow. I used to get 1000s of views on my listings, now the listings barely reach like 30 views. Like what happened? Did everybody abandon it or what? I feel like it went downhill when they stopped shipping too. What's y'all opinions? Also, anybody got any ideas on where else to sell locally? Besides FB Marketplace and Craigslist?

What are some good local selling apps to sell my items? I'm trying to make some money on the side but the apps I'm using have fallen off and sales are extremely slow. Besides, OfferUp and FB Marketplace, what are some other decent local selling apps? I don't wanna deal with anything that has shipping. Any suggestions?

I'm trying to resell clothes and other items I no longer need. OfferUp is no longer that great and extremely slow on sales. Just lost my FB Marketplace account. Any suggestions on where else I can sell my items? I've heard of Depop, Poshmark, Mercari, but any other suggestions? Maybe like local pick up apps so I don't have to worry about shipping?

So I met this guy about a month ago, we're in the talking stage. We haven't gone on an actual date yet but planned to. I like him a lot and he likes me but there's an obstacle. So recently he told me he's going off to the military in another state for 8 weeks in about a month or two. So I was like that's cool, and I asked if he was gonna end up coming back? Because I'm a little worried and never done long distance relationships before. He said he'll try to come back but he's not sure if he will because he's not sure where they'll send him after. So I decided to have a little discussion and express my feelings. I said I don't think I feel comfortable with moving things forward then and that we should both take time to think about this. Because why start a relationship with someone if they are planning to move away for a while but might not ever come back? I've never done long distance before but I don't think it'll suit me personally. Plus I definitely can't travel and stuff so that's a plus on why I'm skeptical. We wanna go on dates and stuff but I personally just don't see the point in starting that process if he's going away and might not ever come back? And my thing is, he's such a great guy, he's funny, sweet, patient, and just everything. He's a gem honestly, and it's been a longggggg time since I've actually liked and been into someone. My issue is not with him going to the military for 8 weeks, that's fine with me. The problem is wondering if he'll come back to me after. Because what if they decide to not have him come back? He told me he really likes me and wants me in his life. I'm just stressed out on what to do? I mean I told him if he does come back then yes we can continue but...idk, what should I do chat?