What should I do

For context, the guy is actually my friend, which makes this a lot harder. I’ve always told him straight up that he needs to pick one or the other you can’t have a girlfriend and act single at the same time. He never listened. I thought he did as it always looked like he chose the girl, but I never realised what happened in the back ground.
In first year, I didn’t think much of it because he said they were on a break or “on and off,” so I gave him the benefit of the doubt.
In second year, I started to feel like it wasn’t right and wanted to tell her. I found her socials, but literally the next day I was blocked. I later found out he tells her to block certain people, which explains that.
Now in third year, I’ve found out a lot more about what he’s been doing, and honestly it’s pretty disgusting. I felt like she deserved to know, so I made a fake account to message her (since my main was blocked). I tried to explain things without naming other people involved, just to respect their privacy.
But the guy saw the message and told her it was all lies, and she blocked that account too.
So at this point I feel like I’ve tried, but nothing came of it. Is there anything else I can realistically do here, or do I just leave it alone now?
TLDR: My friend has been cheating on his girlfriend all through uni. I’ve told him to choose between acting single or being in a relationship, but he never listened. I tried to tell her — got blocked on my main, then used a fake account, but he convinced her it was all lies and she blocked that too. I feel like I’ve done what I can… is there anything else I should do or just leave it?

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u/DetectiveVivid2340 — 17 hours ago

I [21 M] keep overpromising in my relationship and now my girlfriend [21 F] doesn’t trust me. How do I fix this?

I \[21 M\] have been with my girlfriend \[21 F\] since 21 March, and this is my first relationship, so I honestly don’t always know what the expectations are supposed to be. I’ve made a lot of mistakes by overpromising and underdelivering, and now she says she doesn’t really trust what I say anymore.
We’ve only been on about 3/4 proper dates since we matched, and I know that’s part of the issue. At uni, though, we used to hang out pretty much every day. I’d cook dinner, we’d watch a movie or a series, and spend a lot of time together. Because of that, I kind of assumed that quality time together counted for something, but she clearly feels differently and wanted more intentional dates.

She’s now saying she’s not going to believe anything I say and that I shouldn’t call or FaceTime her until we actually meet up and go on proper dates.

I know I’ve messed up by making promises I couldn’t keep, and I understand why she feels the way she does. I’m trying to figure out how to fix this properly instead of just saying sorry again.
What should I do to rebuild trust?
What’s a realistic frequency for dates when money is tight and work hours are awkward?
Since this is my first relationship, how do I figure out what’s normal vs what I just assumed?

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u/DetectiveVivid2340 — 21 hours ago

I [21 M] keep overpromising in my relationship and now my girlfriend [21 F] doesn’t trust me. How do I fix this?

I \[21 M\] have been with my girlfriend \[21 F\] since 21 March, and this is my first relationship, so I honestly don’t always know what the expectations are supposed to be. I’ve made a lot of mistakes by overpromising and underdelivering, and now she says she doesn’t really trust what I say anymore.
We’ve only been on about 3/4 proper dates since we matched, and I know that’s part of the issue. At uni, though, we used to hang out pretty much every day. I’d cook dinner, we’d watch a movie or a series, and spend a lot of time together. Because of that, I kind of assumed that quality time together counted for something, but she clearly feels differently and wanted more intentional dates.

She’s now saying she’s not going to believe anything I say and that I shouldn’t call or FaceTime her until we actually meet up and go on proper dates.

I know I’ve messed up by making promises I couldn’t keep, and I understand why she feels the way she does. I’m trying to figure out how to fix this properly instead of just saying sorry again.
What should I do to rebuild trust?
What’s a realistic frequency for dates when money is tight and work hours are awkward?
Since this is my first relationship, how do I figure out what’s normal vs what I just assumed?

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u/DetectiveVivid2340 — 21 hours ago

Any remote grad jobs??

Hey everyone,
I’m looking to secure a fully remote or highly flexible entry-level role to build up some professional experience. Ideally, I’m looking for positions that don’t require years of prior experience, such as junior data analytics, operations, entry-level compliance, customer success, or business development/SDR roles.
Whenever I filter by "Remote" on generic job boards like Indeed or LinkedIn, I just get flooded with commission-only sales pitches or shady-looking data entry schemes that look a bit like scams.
Does anyone know of any specific, trusted websites or job boards that specialize in legitimate remote entry-level work or grad-friendly remote positions?

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u/DetectiveVivid2340 — 5 days ago

What should I do

I’ve just finished my third year of uni, but unfortunately, I have some resits to complete this August. I’m feeling a bit stuck on what my next steps should be regarding employment.

I know most traditional corporate graduate schemes have strict start dates in September and conditional offers that require a confirmed degree classification (2:1 or 2:2) before you can step through the door. Because my resit results won't be officially confirmed by the exam board until September/October, I’m worried I technically won't count as a "graduate" in time for those timelines

I really want to start building up tangible work experience as soon as possible and don't want to waste time. My questions are:

  1. Should I still bother applying for immediate graduate schemes? Has anyone ever successfully negotiated a delayed start date or a probationary period with a graduate employer while waiting for August resit marks? Or do they usually just rescind the offer? 
  2. Should I widen my scope to Level 6/7 Apprenticeships, internships, or entry-level roles? I'm heavily considering these paths instead just to get my foot in the door, but I’m not sure how strict they are about having a finalized degree certificate right away. 
  3. How should I present my current situation on my CV? Do I state that my degree is "pending resit results," or just put "Expected Graduation: 2026" and address it if they ask?

 

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u/DetectiveVivid2340 — 5 days ago