What should I do
For context, the guy is actually my friend, which makes this a lot harder. I’ve always told him straight up that he needs to pick one or the other you can’t have a girlfriend and act single at the same time. He never listened. I thought he did as it always looked like he chose the girl, but I never realised what happened in the back ground.
In first year, I didn’t think much of it because he said they were on a break or “on and off,” so I gave him the benefit of the doubt.
In second year, I started to feel like it wasn’t right and wanted to tell her. I found her socials, but literally the next day I was blocked. I later found out he tells her to block certain people, which explains that.
Now in third year, I’ve found out a lot more about what he’s been doing, and honestly it’s pretty disgusting. I felt like she deserved to know, so I made a fake account to message her (since my main was blocked). I tried to explain things without naming other people involved, just to respect their privacy.
But the guy saw the message and told her it was all lies, and she blocked that account too.
So at this point I feel like I’ve tried, but nothing came of it. Is there anything else I can realistically do here, or do I just leave it alone now?
TLDR: My friend has been cheating on his girlfriend all through uni. I’ve told him to choose between acting single or being in a relationship, but he never listened. I tried to tell her — got blocked on my main, then used a fake account, but he convinced her it was all lies and she blocked that too. I feel like I’ve done what I can… is there anything else I should do or just leave it?