u/Devinduzart

You know what I hate the most? I mean, like, *this* is my #1 pet peeve above anything else. Being *PATRONIZED*! 💔 Like they would say something in a way where it either sounds condescending or when it seems like they’re trying to help, but the way they say it really makes me wanna swing on them. Say for example,

“Hey, I know you’re said about so-so’s death, but whining and sulking about it isn’t gonna change anything.”

To that, I’mma retort and say “—Fuck you.” Like I legit H A T E this saying.

I know you’re *trying* to help and I know what you’re saying is true, but you can’t just expect them to hop back up just because you said that it’s not gonna help you. You’re hurting. You should be *allowed* to feel some type of way and I genuinely hate when someone says shit like that. I know it’s not gonna help me, but you expect me to get over it under your jurisdiction? Literally *fuck* you and the tall horse you ride on and let me grief until I get at least a TINY bit of energy to stand up on MY terms.

So many people would tell you it’s easier to face your problems. Don’t get me wrong, oftentimes that’s true and you need to ‘talk it out’.

But don’t make it seem like *running away* is always be a bad thing, you know? Sometimes it gets to a point where whatever you’re going through is just too much. You don’t wanna just stay there and ‘work it out’ like it’ll magically fix everything, you wanna get out of the fire while it’s burning. You wanna hop off the boat and just *leave*, not looking back, ever, just move on no matter how much it hurts to do so.

Let’s say hypothetically you’re in a complicated relationship, right? You love them, and they love you too, but the situation they’re in—You love them, but the baggage that they have, you just don’t wanna deal with it. You were patient with them. EXTREMELY patient for any average joe to where it’s starting to irritate you. So, then you think to yourself: Why don’t I just leave, you know? It’d be easier that way, right? Just cut ties and start fresh somewhere else. Sure, it’ll hurt because you love them and you wanna keep pushing, but is it worth constantly trying to adjust your own expense? Having to walk on eggshells or be left in the dark like a mad man? Not trying to work it out, no talking it out like it’s the solution to everything, just drop the baggage and quit while you’re ahead. It *is* easier to run away…right?