Advice needed: Served with a Temporary Protection Order / Safety Order hearing (First time in court & very nervous)
Hi everyone,
I was recently served with an ex-parte Protection Order and a summons for a full Safety Order hearing at the District Court, coming up next week. The applicant is a family member. I strongly dispute the claims made, but to avoid giving TMI, I am mostly just looking for some general advice and to hear about other people's experiences with this process.
I have never been to court before in my life, and I am incredibly nervous about how the whole day works and what to expect.
My plan right now is to call for free legal aid today to try and get a solicitor, and I will absolutely be showing up to the court date. But I am really anxious about the "what ifs" regarding attendance.
My main questions are:
1. What happens if I (the respondent) don't turn up to the hearing?
2. What happens if she (the applicant) doesn't turn up?
3. If I do turn up, and she doesn't, will the protection order automatically be struck out and the safety order application cancelled?
Any general advice for a first-timer, or insights on how the District Court handles these attendance situations, would be massively appreciated. Thanks!
Ps my mother went and made false statements and the police came to my house monday morning and served the papers they said i dont have to go to the court date but my mother is an alcoholic and a narcissist and i know if she gets the safety order she will use it to manipulate me and have me arrested for claims she is in fear etc. so genuinely looking for any advice possible or anybody else experience in similar situations..
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Hoping i can get free legal aid i really dont want to have to go to this court but otherwise it will be much more dangerous for me like i said she can have me arrested on a whim. For more context i havent even spoken to her in weeks and have just been relaxing watching the world cup in my room mostly. In her statement pretty much everything she said is false