Would it be too soon to invite him to a cookout with me?

I (38F) had a first date last night with a 36M. We had a great time and hit it off. I do anticipate we will see each other again and he has been consistently communicating today. One of my good friends is having a very small get together tomorrow for the 4th. She told me to invite him but would that be weird? Too soon? I swore off dating for awhile and really just wanna play my cards right here.

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u/DimensionNo1577 — 3 days ago

Can anyone chime in on the policy of bringing a child?

My gym often has parents with children. I thought they had to be 13 and up but I’ve seen a few who look younger. My daughter is 10 but is big for her age and looks closer to 12-13 so maybe these kids are old enough to be here.

Just curious what the actual policy is? I’d love to bring her for even 30 minutes (she’s always asking to go) with my full supervision but I don’t think she’s old enough per the policy…

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u/DimensionNo1577 — 1 month ago

46 days

Just wanted to say that I am now on day 46 of Pristiq and I am feeling so much better. The first 4 weeks were rough and I was so tired. I do have ADHD and take 20 mg IR of Adderall so my only complaint is I definitely have increased heart rate and sometimes my right hand tremors. Has anyone experienced that?

I am having anxiety still so my doctor may add another medication but we are going to reevaluate in a few weeks.

For anyone that just started, definitely stick it out!

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u/DimensionNo1577 — 2 months ago

I am on 50 mg. I don’t feel any different than when I started. I also take 20 mg Adderall IR for ADHD which I also don’t think works but that’s neither here nor there.

I certainly suffer from depression and anxiety. This weekend I’ve basically spent the entire time in bed. I forced myself to get out of bed last night and go to the gym because that makes me feel better. I slept like shit and was up on and off all morning from 2am - 7am. Instead of waking up, I went back to bed until 11am.

I just don’t feel any better. Brain fog is terrible. Maybe I’m just doomed but I was really hoping this would be the medication for me.

When does it get better?

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u/DimensionNo1577 — 2 months ago