u/DisabledShark

so, i have my hyperhidrosis in my pits and underboobs. does anyone have any deodorant recommendations? i feel like i just get swampy, and i need to know what would be the best deodorant for the stink + to minimize sweating.

so, i’m lucky enough to have my hyperhidrosis in my pits and underboobs. does anyone have any deodorant recommendations? i feel like i just get swampy.

Hi,
I’m disabled and can’t work a stand-up job, and can barely work an in-person office job. Any ideas for remote jobs I can look for?

i just love her so much. she’s my sweetie baby daughter. i just love to look at her and i can’t wait to see her grow. she’s so little now but as she gets bigger i can’t wait to watch her personality evolve. she’s always out on display, and right now she gets a little scared when i approach the tank, but i know she’ll get less scared as time goes on. i love her so much. she’s the prettiest spider in the whole wide world. i tell all my friends and coworkers about her. i talk to my partners about her nonstop. i feel like i might be going a little crazy—having her has pushed me fully into the deep end of a spider special interest. i’m obsessed with her. i love my baby so much.

so, i’ve been with my partners Bert and Jerry for nearly a year. the problem is that they have 9 months longer together—almost a year compared to the three of us. this sometimes leaves me feeling like a side piece, like they have something that i don’t have with the two of them. we’ve talked about it a few times, but i can’t seem to shake it. does anyone else have this experience? how did you process it and work through it?

edit: it’s nothing that either of them do!! Bert and Jerry both assure me all the time how much they care about me, and whenever i ask about these feelings I have they assure me that they don’t see it or feel the same way. this is purely a personal feeling borne of chronic anxiety.

juvenile brachypelma albiceps owner here (Mexican golden red rump). sex unknown, assuming female out of wishful thinking.

i’m going to have to handle her soon to get her out of her enclosure so i can add more substrate—i didn’t add enough when i got her and she’s not burrowing. however, i am anxious. what are the odds she’ll bite me? shes pretty skittish but not very defensive by any means. she runs away from a brush but doesn’t flick hairs at it very often. im just anxious about it, and i keep procrastinating because i am anxious about it.

how likely is it she’ll bite me? can i prevent bites at all?