u/Disastrous-Soft5597

It’s my second day of floor training and I don’t really want to get into why (personal stuff happened halfway through my shift that I couldn’t handle because I didn’t want to be on my phone, but I was aware of it the whole time) but I was really unfocused and missed a lot of important stuff + made some really dumb mistakes on my charts. It was all stuff that yesterday I wouldn’t have let happen. But I had a different trainer today than I did yesterday, and she was much less casual and much more hard on my mistakes. She asked me just now at the end of my shift if I even want this job.

I absolutely do. I’ve wanted to work in medicine since I was in elementary school. Today was just not a great day for me and it was her first impression of me, so she thought I wasn’t motivated enough or good enough to do this job. I had a great time yesterday and was looking forward to doing more today, but it ended up not being a great experience I guess. The only reason I’m making this post is to let someone know who understands. I can tell my friends about it all day, but they’ve never done this work before. My next day of floor training isn’t until next week so hopefully I can get it together before then, and hopefully I won’t have the same trainer again.

(PS: I don’t think it’s bad to have high expectations as a trainer, but she read me wrong and that’s what’s upsetting to me about this. I don’t take failure well in general, and it’s worse when someone who knows what they’re doing in my field considers me not good for this job.)

The situation is essentially this: I have autism, and though I haven’t been diagnosed with ARFID, I am 99% sure I have it which is why I’m coming here. If what I’m describing doesn’t sound like ARFID, feel free to correct me. I just need advice because I’m in extreme pain right now.

I can pretty much never feel hunger cues until I’m extremely nauseous and starving, and that’s exactly what’s happening right now, except this is the worst it’s ever been. I woke up at 5 AM to the worst pain in my stomach, both nausea and extreme hunger pain, and after an hour and a half of working to fix it, I only barely got the nausea fixed. I needed sleep, so I went back to bed since I finally could despite the hunger, and now I’m awake and dealing with that. I’m sipping chicken soup since it’s the only thing I think I can eat right now, but I’m writhing in pain as I type because I’ve never had it this bad. How do I fix this?

So I’m a UO student who lives on campus and recently had to get a car for moneymaking reasons. I need overnight parking but I can’t buy a permit anywhere right now because my car isn’t registered yet (I literally just got it today actually) and idk what to do. I’ve been off campus for like three and a half hours trying to figure out anywhere I might be able to park overnight without a permit and I’m unsure about all my options. I’m okay with paying some money for overnight parking, so that isn’t an issue. I just don’t know what I can do here.

Edit: It’s okay! I asked around and found someone willing to let me park the car outside of his house so the problem is solved. Thank you for all the suggestions though, I’ll keep them in mind in case this situation changes.