u/Disastrous_Reward_23

Hi, F22 from London.

I recently feel like I’m more attracted to women. This isn’t something I’ve considered before, or I’ve been in denial about but I think I need to try to see how I feel. I definitely think I feel more heteroromantic but I can’t deny there is an attraction there.

I have always been more drawn to lesbian porn out of all categories (I want to stop watching porn completely) and recently I’ve been thinking that I really want to try experimenting with a girl. I don’t want o use a dating app as I don’t want people who know me finding out that I want to experiment sexually, until I know what my sexuality is.

How do I find women IRL that want to experiment while staying respectful, and not using dating apps?

I bought a 2011 DSG Auto VW Polo today - everything is fine and the speedometer dial is in mph but the speedometer on the display is in km/h.

I’ve read the manual and for the life of me I cannot figure out how to change this.

Any advice?

So I 22F have this friend 23M who I’m not very close with but I want to manifest him in a romantic capacity. I see him once every couple of months in a group setting, and we do not have any communication on social media or anything.

PLEASE READ THIS WHOLE THING BEFORE JUDGING ME. So he has a girlfriend of 8 years. I was until recently in a relationship of 4 years. The last two times I’ve seen him he has expressed dissatisfaction in his relationship; he was asking me if when I hang out with my boyfriend I feel as if I’d rather be with my friends, and last time I saw him he told me he has doubts about his relationship but he feels pressured by his family to propose. He also told me that sometimes he wishes that she would cheat on him so that he’d have a ‘real’ reason to leave.

Whenever we have these conversations I redirect. I don’t know the context of their relationship and I don’t think that I would be a girls girl if I encouraged another girls boyfriend to leave her when I have no understanding of their dynamic. I always tell him that he needs to speak with her directly, and that if he wants advice he needs to talk to his boys not me. In the context of their relationship I’m just ‘some girl’ and I feel like she would not like him unloading his doubts about the relationship to ‘some girl’.

I really want to get to know this friend in a romantic capacity in a way that doesn’t hurt his currently girlfriend using LOA. I think that she deserves someone who is sure about her and I feel bad that he is in this situation where he feels uncertain.

I would like to clarify that I have no contact with him other than when we see each other with our friend group every couple of months, and I would never approach him unless he was single. I do not want to do anything to sabotage their relationship in the 3D but they both seem unhappy.

I know that this sounds really selfish and bad, but I just can’t help that I feel so strongly towards him. How can I use LOA to manifest him, while also manifesting that his currently girlfriend find someone who is sure about her?