u/DisciplinePlastic505

For Context this is an amazing and smart women with very big ambitions but she’s always had a problem with getting overwhelmed, we started talking at the beginning of senior year and she’s always known her goals were the airforce and college, also she’s not from the us and her parents are insanely strict on her. We’ve had an amazing relationship and she’s impressed me with her ability to be respectful but realistic, she’s so mature but knows she has so much to work on. One thing in our relationship is I’ve spent alot of money on her , shopping,food,expensive gifts,etc and this has never been a problem because it makes her very happy and she knew that’s why I did it, but recently with school ending, she’s very very stressed because she’s been making little to no progress on her goals , and the one big problem in our relationship was outside peoples opinions, we didn’t value them but there was a lot, my freinds and family always said she was using me, her friends and family, her aunt even one of her teachers, and it’s gotten all to her head, we had a serious discussion and she still does like me a lot but decently less then she used to, she tells me she’s tired of this idea of her using me and she wants us to spending money on her, she doesn’t want the relationship to end and nothing else change, but what really scares me is she told me that one more thing, one more person or argument towards her(not from me but about us) will completely turn her off of me and she will stop talking to me , she also mentioned how she doesn’t feel like I’m doing too much for her but she feels I’m moving too fast, and I’m okay with that if it’s how she feels but I don’t feel like I am, we’ve talking not dating for 7 months and the most we’ve done is deep hugs or base level talk of our feelings, because a lot of those things we both knew and showed in actions not words, this all started when I tried to give her a promise ring. There’s definitely more to it but this about the general

I’ve been talking to this women for about 7 months , nd recently some things have gone wrong, we are not not done but there’s a decent chance that we will be. And I’m very very sad over her. But what I’m really concerned with is the fact that. One thing I’m so sad about is her body, she was built like a model and I’m afraid I’ll never get anywhere closer to that again, I know it’s wrong but Its so on my mind. I don’t know how to fix this or if I even should, is this terrible? This is not anything she knows about nor never will.

I’ve been talking to this women for about 7 months , I’m 18 years old and recently some things have gone wrong, we are not not done but there’s a decent chance that we will be. And I’m very very sad over her. But what I’m really concerned with is the fact that. One thing I’m so sad about is her body, she was built like a model and I’m afraid I’ll never get anywhere closer to that again, I know it’s wrong but Its so on my mind.