As civilians, are we not regarded as patriots as per mainstream narrative?
Sort of a rant and vant.
So whenever we look at our Social Media feeds or even media, a narrative is forced that we you don't belong to the army, don't have ambitions to join the army or associated to it then you are not patriotic enough. A bloody civilian can't be a patriot.(a narrative that fulfillment of our national and social duties is bare minimum and whatever they do is a favor upon us).
Now before army supporters bash me, I myself belong to army family, I wasn't born normal and have stayed in CMH myself as my father was a flight caset then but left air force in few months as he received a decent offer from gulf, an uncle of mine is a shaheed during the Swat operations. And have closely analyzed things. The difference has always been that I was raised abroad and always question things and that's the same for my younger brother who rejected his selection in medical corps just because he does not like blind order following.
So yes there was a minor phase in my teenage years when we shifted to Pakistan. But as I started hearing inside incidents in army, be it any division, I lost my interest. And those from army families very well know that army ain't pure. There's bad everywhere.
But as I am now 20+ years old now, graduated, a decent job in AI domain, paying my taxes, being part of blood drives abd donation drives both as a donor and volunteer, volunteering in activities for betterment of low level government schools in twin cities, having hope in heart that I will reach certain heights where I start giving back to my country InshaAllah. Like always want Pakistan to prosper from Gilgit to Gwadar. Pushing myself to feel positive about this country despite everything wrong going on in this country, although I do feel pressurized about survival in this inflation (haven't taken a penny from parents in these last two years) but still I feel like Allah has blessed me a lot as compared to larger public of Pakistan. And when people do let me know about their worries how this inflation and stuff is hitting them or how this society is treating them. Even then I remain positive about Pakistan's future despite knowing how badly our government and military establishment is handling things.
Then my batch mates who also belong to army families and have been in this system from the very beginning or have joined the army recently (and yes they are sons of army officers) make us civilian batch mates that how high and mighty are they, without them Pakistan is nothing and all that self-centric mentality. And yes that is absolutely common in majority cases in armed forces. And then the media does it's stuff as well, if you see any patriotic reel and it's only and only associated with army.
And all this makes me think that do civilian efforts for this country do not matter at all? Was my father's decision to leave Air Force and go to Gulf a bad decision? Was it a wrong decision when my family had given me a chance to join Army Engineering Corps and I rejected it as I didn't find it a good idea.
I feel like if a civilian pays all his taxes, does philanthropy, is loyal to the nation and doing great stuff even then he would have a higher chance of getting labelled as a traitor instead of being hailed as a patriot just because the military almighties don't align with him or steals their spotlight, they will make the very public whom that civilian is good to go against him. And they have done this throughout history and to their own army officers as well who stood against their might.