26M | Europe - I miss having someone to talk to.. that’s it, that’s the post :c

I’ve learned how to keep myself busy. I fill my time, I stay productive, I show up where I need to.

But I think, deep down, everyone wants a place or a person that feels like home.

For me, I just want to feel at home with someone. I’ve been able to stand on my own for a long time, but it gets lonely and tiring to always be alone…

Figured I’d post here instead.

I’m someone who tends to care deeply, show up fully, and notice the little things. I appreciate meaningful interactions and people who value sincerity and effort in how they connect with others.

I lean a bit old-school in general, loyalty, honesty, and small thoughtful gestures go a long way for me.

I enjoy conversations that go on longer than expected, the kind where you forget to check the time. I appreciate humor (especially the slightly weird kind), emotional awareness, and people who can be genuine without overthinking it.

I also believe in empathy and being there for people who matter, even if it’s just showing up to listen.

A bit about me:

Physically, I’m on the taller side (181cm or 5’11), slim build, dark straight hair, brown eyes, and usually have a short beard nothing rough. I’ve got a tanned, caramel-toned complexion.

Interests:

Music, books, philosophy, languages, writing, games, sports, art, and the occasional 2AM deep dive into random topics.

I also enjoy walks, good coffee, and shared laughter.

Cooking is something I enjoy too, especially when it’s for others. Though, like most people, I have my procrastination days.

I’m mostly here to connect with like-minded people who enjoy thoughtful conversations, mutual respect, and shared vulnerability..

If any of this resonates, feel free to say hi,just maybe bring a bit more than a one-word intro 🙂

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u/Doomer____ — 5 days ago

26 [M4F] (Italy/Europe) - A primary feature of quarks is that they’re always bound together, yet lately I feel like a lonely little neutrino in search of his better half

To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.

Soulmates are friends whose spirits travel together, hearts break and mend together, and souls rise together in love acceptance and harmony.

Lately, I’m going through an exam phase, and between studies and work, life has felt a little heavy on the heart.

So maybe this is me reaching out for a mutual safe corner, a place where two tired souls can rest, breathe, and slowly feel understood.

How has life been treating you lately?

In my free time I love reading poetry and literature. I am an avid book reader and also like a healthy dose of philosophy and psychology. My favorite author is Paulo Coelho and favorite read 'The Alchemist'.

Which is your favorite book and why? How did it change you?

How does your perfect date look like? Mine; I'd love to take you on a vintage picnic date. Just me and you on my blanket, listening to The Paper Kites, Sleeping at Last, Hozier. Some lights and food. We'd be laughing and feeling like teenagers again.

I'll take you to my favourite places too, so grab your backpack and meet me at the bus stop. We'll catch bus that goes to the swiss alps. We'll pick yellow wild flowers and berries. Sneak out from the hut at midnight with a few blankets to keep us cozy while we watch the starry sky, with nothing but fireflies and dandelions around us.

We would make wishes while blowing dandelions, and you would have no idea that my wish had already come true, thinking there's no other place I'd rather be in that moment. Where is your favourite place?

To summarise - I'm 26 years old straight male, 6ft tall (183cm), dark straight hair, brown eyes, and usually have a short beard nothing rough. I’ve got a tanned, caramel-toned complexion and sometimes I wear glasses thanks to all years of screen time.

I am an empathetic person and I can put myself in your shoes and understand your troubles and suffering and console you the best I can and I'm looking for someone who can reciprocate that as well.

I love memes and I would love to hear all your jokes. Once I get comfortable my personality shines more, I love puns, playful teasing, and cheesy lines that are so bad they somehow become good. I'm not as extroverted as I may seem, if I had to choose between a party and staying in my room doing my thing, I'd choose my room.

I enjoy video games and physical sports in my free time, I'm more of an outgoing introvert.

My taste in music is all over the place, it depends on what kind of mood I'm in but I like melancholic music and sometimes it spirals me into loop of sadness. But I also like pop, jazz, country and instrumental music.

So what I'm looking for?

  • Someone who wishes to nurture this into something more long-term.
  • Someone who's funny and we can share memes and laugh. Sarcasm, flirty chats and puns will be appreciated
  • Someone who would genuinely enjoy spending time with me, wants to know me deeply, and is open enough to let me know her too
  • Someone present, thoughtful, and emotionally available
  • You would like to meet up at some point in real life, and maybe we'll have that cozy first airport hug if you're far away
  • Someone I can send and from whom I can receive cute good morning / good night texts
  • Someone who would enjoy receiving details from my day /pics, videos, voices messages/ and would include me in his day by sending me selfies/pics/videos etc.
  • You would be interested in having at least one date night a week / watching a movie or playing games together on a video call
  • You'll believe in me, be there for me and fight to be with me

What I'm not looking for?

  • Someone putting minimal to no effort
  • Someone still not over their ex from 10 years ago / Emotionally unavailable
  • Someone with high number of partners or treats intimacy casually
  • Someone who would make me feel like I am always less important than everyone else

​If you're wondering what are some of my bad sides:

  • Books and theatre have set really high dating expectations for me?
  • I can eat sweet potato fries for the rest of my life, if you order french fries I'd probably eat yours, too
  • I'm a night owl if I can be and sometimes I am going to bed around 2am and waking up at noon.
  • I'm an emotional and very romantic person, if you're more on the cold side it won't work out

What am I offering?

  • To be your best friend. I'll always be there for you.
  • A lot of physical affection, I will love hugging you, playing with your hair while you lay on my chest
  • Compliments and care, you're probably hot af, and really gorgeous. I'll make sure you never forget it or doubt yourself but not just about how you look, but about who you are, how your mind works, how your laugh sounds, and the little things you do without realizing they are beautiful
  • Love you harder on the days you can't love yourself
  • I'll be there for you when it hasn't been your day, your week, your month, or even your year. Clap,clap,clap.
  • I'll read you asmr bed time stories
  • I can cook delicious food for you.
  • I'll be honest and always do my best to work things out, I'm pretty straight forward and you won't need to read my mind
  • I'll believe in you
  • I'll never give up on you

I know this is a long shot, finding my person on Reddit. But so was the possibility of the universe existing, and yet here we are.

You're probably far away, but that's okay. In quantum physics, once two particles experience a shared state, they are no longer separate entities but exist as one.

So let's build each other up, be the best version of ourselves, let go of the past and live in the present, let's travel and be happy.

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u/Doomer____ — 6 days ago

26/M (Europe) - I miss having someone who feels like home, any night-owls?

I never really know how to write these without overthinking them.

Part of me wants to keep it light, part of me wants to be honest, so I’ll try to land somewhere in the middle.

I miss having a person.

Someone you naturally want to tell things to. Random thoughts, little updates, a song you found, something weird that happened during the day.

Someone you can be quiet with, silly with, honest with, and still feel safe.

I’m okay on my own. I’ve been okay on my own for a long time. I have hobbies, routines, things I care about, and I try to keep myself busy and productive.

But sometimes it gets tiring not having someone to come back to at the end of the day and the night is all quiet.

Made me wanna reach out tonight, maybe we cross paths tonight and life takes a happy turn from now on.

I’m someone who tends to care deeply, show up fully, and notice the little things. I appreciate meaningful interactions and people who value sincerity and effort in how they connect with others.

I lean a little old-school when it comes to connection. Honesty, effort, thoughtful gestures, and actually showing up go a long way for me

I enjoy conversations that go on longer than expected, the kind where you forget to check the time. I appreciate humor (especially the slightly weird kind), emotional awareness, and people who can be genuine without overthinking it.

I also believe in empathy and being there for people who matter, even if it’s just showing up to listen.

A bit about me:

Physically, I’m on the taller side 181cm (5’11), slim build, dark straight hair, brown eyes, and usually have a short beard nothing rough. I’ve got a tanned, caramel-toned complexion and sometimes I wear glasses thanks to all years of screen time.

Interests:

Music, books, philosophy, languages, writing, games, sports, art, and the occasional 2AM deep dive into random topics.

I also enjoy walks, good coffee, and shared laughter.

Cooking is something I enjoy too, especially when it’s for others. Though, like most people, I have my procrastination days.

I’m mostly here to connect with like-minded people, someone who can hold a conversation, has a kind heart, and maybe also misses having their 'person' a little bit.

If any of this resonates, feel free to say hi,just maybe bring a bit more than a one-word intro 🙂 Bonus points: If you like the idea of late-night voice calls and just coexisting with one another.

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u/Doomer____ — 7 days ago

26M Europe - loneliness will be the death of me

I’ve tried to make peace with being alone.

I keep myself busy. I study, I work on myself, I fill the day with things that are supposed to matter. Music, games, books, random thoughts, small routines, anything to keep the silence from feeling too loud.

And most days, I manage.

But then night comes around, everything slows down, and it hits me again.

Loneliness will be the death of me.

It wears me down quietly. Having no one to come back to. No one to send the stupid little thoughts to. No one waiting to hear how your day went. No one whose name makes your phone feel different when it lights up.

I’m more of an indoors person. I like music, games, writing, books, movies, random deep talks, and those dumb conversations that somehow turn into serious ones at 2AM. I’m not really into partying or pretending to be more exciting than I am.

I can be quiet at first, but I care a lot once I feel comfortable. I like consistency, effort, honesty, and people who actually mean what they say. I don’t need constant attention, but I do want something that feels mutual.

I’m 26, male, and based in Europe. I’d prefer someone in a similar timezone, ideally around 19~29.

Tell me what loneliness has been feeling like for you lately.

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u/Doomer____ — 8 days ago
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26[M4F] Italy/Europe - I miss having someone who feels like home, someone who can be my wife one day

I never really know how to write these without overthinking them.

Part of me wants to keep it light, part of me wants to be honest, so I’ll try to land somewhere in the middle.

I miss having a person.

Someone you naturally want to tell things to. Random thoughts, little updates, a song you found, something weird that happened during the day.

Someone you can be quiet with, silly with, honest with, and still feel safe.

I’m okay on my own. I’ve been okay on my own for a long time. I have hobbies, routines, things I care about, and I try to keep myself busy and productive.

But sometimes it gets tiring not having someone to come back to at the end of the day and the night is all quiet.

Made me wanna reach out tonight, maybe we cross paths tonight and life takes a happy turn from now on.

I’m someone who tends to care deeply, show up fully, and notice the little things. I appreciate meaningful interactions and people who value sincerity and effort in how they connect with others.

I lean a little old-school when it comes to connection. Honesty, effort, thoughtful gestures, and actually showing up go a long way for me

I enjoy conversations that go on longer than expected, the kind where you forget to check the time. I appreciate humor (especially the slightly weird kind), emotional awareness, and people who can be genuine without overthinking it.

I also believe in empathy and being there for people who matter, even if it’s just showing up to listen.

A bit about me:

Physically, I’m on the taller side 181cm (5’11), slim build, dark straight hair, brown eyes, and usually have a short beard nothing rough. I’ve got a tanned, caramel-toned complexion and sometimes I wear glasses thanks to all years of screen time.

Interests:

Music, books, philosophy, languages, writing, games, sports, art, and the occasional 2AM deep dive into random topics.

I also enjoy walks, good coffee, and shared laughter.

Cooking is something I enjoy too, especially when it’s for others. Though, like most people, I have my procrastination days.

I like things that feel personal. A shared playlist. A voice note. A late-night call. Sitting in silence together while doing our own things.

I don’t expect you to have life figured out. I don’t either. I’d rather meet someone kind, emotionally present, and sincere. Someone who also misses having their 'person' a little bit.

If any of this resonates, feel free to say hi,just maybe bring a bit more than a one-word intro 🙂

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u/Doomer____ — 8 days ago
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26 [M4F] Italy/Europe — Tired of low-effort dating? I’m looking for something real

I feel like dating has become a little too casual, too passive, and sometimes too cold.

A lot of people say they want romance, effort, consistency, and emotional safety, but somehow the bare minimum gets treated like a luxury.

So I’ll be honest about the kind of man I am.

Maybe you’re tired.

Tired of men who make you feel like wanting effort is being needy.
Tired of being told that romance is unrealistic.
Tired of waiting for someone to plan a date, remember the little things, check in properly, communicate clearly, or make you feel chosen without having to beg for it.

Maybe you’ve started lowering your expectations just to avoid being disappointed.

Don’t.

You were never asking for too much.
You were asking to be cared for.
To be considered.
To be wanted out loud.
To be loved in a way that doesn’t make you question your worth every night.

I don’t believe in that cold, lazy kind of dating where people act detached and call it maturity. I don’t believe love should feel like a negotiation where everyone is calculating how little they can give while still keeping you around.

I believe in effort.

I’m a romantic person, maybe even old-school in some ways. I don’t believe love should feel like a competition over who cares less. I don’t want a connection where everything is calculated, cold, or 50/50 in spirit.

I believe in taking care of my woman romantically, emotionally, physically, and in all the quiet little ways that actually build intimacy.

Not because she is helpless.
Not because she owes me anything.
But because when I love someone, I want her life to feel softer because I’m in it.

I want to be your person.

The one you send random thoughts to.
The one who hears about your day, your worries, your little wins, your bad moods, your dreams, and the parts of you that don’t always feel easy to love.

And I’ll love those parts too.


A bit about me

Physically, I’m on the taller side at 181cm / 5’11, with a slim build, dark straight hair, brown eyes, and usually a short beard, nothing rough.

I have a tanned, caramel-toned complexion, and sometimes I wear glasses thanks to all the years of screen time.


Interests

  • Music, books, philosophy, languages, writing, games, sports, art, and the occasional 2AM deep dive into random topics.

  • I also enjoy walks, good coffee, and shared laughter.

  • Cooking is something I enjoy too, especially when it’s for others. Though, like most people, I have my procrastination days.


I know Reddit is probably an unlikely place to find something real, but unlikely things happen all the time.

If any of this speaks to you, feel free to say hi. Just maybe bring a bit more than a one-word intro 🙂

Bonus points if you like the idea of late-night voice calls, sharing little pieces of your day, and just quietly coexisting with one another.

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u/Doomer____ — 9 days ago

26[M4F] Italy/Europe - I miss having someone who feels like home

I never really know how to write these without overthinking them.

Part of me wants to keep it light, part of me wants to be honest, so I’ll try to land somewhere in the middle.

I miss having a person.

Someone you naturally want to tell things to. Random thoughts, little updates, a song you found, something weird that happened during the day.

Someone you can be quiet with, silly with, honest with, and still feel safe.

I’m okay on my own. I’ve been okay on my own for a long time. I have hobbies, routines, things I care about, and I try to keep myself busy and productive.

But sometimes it gets tiring not having someone to come back to at the end of the day and the night is all quiet.

Made me wanna reach out tonight, maybe we cross paths tonight and life takes a happy turn from now on.

I’m someone who tends to care deeply, show up fully, and notice the little things. I appreciate meaningful interactions and people who value sincerity and effort in how they connect with others.

I lean a little old-school when it comes to connection. Honesty, effort, thoughtful gestures, and actually showing up go a long way for me

I enjoy conversations that go on longer than expected, the kind where you forget to check the time. I appreciate humor (especially the slightly weird kind), emotional awareness, and people who can be genuine without overthinking it.

I also believe in empathy and being there for people who matter, even if it’s just showing up to listen.

A bit about me:

Physically, I’m on the taller side 181cm (5’11), slim build, dark straight hair, brown eyes, and usually have a short beard nothing rough. I’ve got a tanned, caramel-toned complexion and sometimes I wear glasses thanks to all years of screen time.

Interests:

Music, books, philosophy, languages, writing, games, sports, art, and the occasional 2AM deep dive into random topics.

I also enjoy walks, good coffee, and shared laughter.

Cooking is something I enjoy too, especially when it’s for others. Though, like most people, I have my procrastination days.

I’m mostly here to connect with like-minded people, someone who can hold a conversation, has a kind heart, and maybe also misses having their 'person' a little bit.

If any of this resonates, feel free to say hi,just maybe bring a bit more than a one-word intro 🙂 Bonus points: If you like the idea of late-night voice calls and just coexisting with one another.

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u/Doomer____ — 10 days ago
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26 [M4F] (Italy/Europe) - A primary feature of quarks is that they’re always bound together, yet lately I feel like a lonely little neutrino in search of his better half

To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.

Soulmates are friends whose spirits travel together, hearts break and mend together, and souls rise together in love acceptance and harmony.

I am studying to be an engineer as applying the knowledge of physics into real world has been a big inspiration for me to take the major. I was torn for a while between pure physics and engineering and in the end, I chose engineering.

How about you? In what ways do you express what your inside universe is like?

I love reading poetry and literature whenever I have spare time. I am an avid book reader and also like a healthy dose of philosophy and psychology. My favorite author is Paulo Coelho and favorite read 'The Alchemist'. Which is your favorite book and why? How did it change you?

How does your perfect date look like? Mine - I'd love to take you on a vintage picnic date. Just me and you on my blanket, listening to The Paper Kites, Sleeping at Last, Hozier. Some lights and food. We'd be laughing and feeling like teenagers again.

I'll take you to my favourite places too, so grab your backpack and meet me at the bus stop. We'll catch bus that goes to the swiss alps. We'll pick yellow wild flowers and berries. Sneak out from the hut at midnight with a few blankets to keep us cozy while we watch the starry sky, with nothing but fireflies and dandelions around us.

We would make wishes while blowing dandelions, and you would have no idea that my wish had already come true, thinking there's no other place I'd rather be in that moment. Where is your favourite place?

To summarise - I'm 26 years old straight male, 6ft tall (183cm). We can exchange photos if you send one, I promise I will send you one back

I am an empathetic person and I can put myself in your shoes and understand your troubles and suffering and console you the best I can and I'm looking for someone who can reciprocate that as well.

I love memes and I would love to hear all your jokes. Once I get comfortable my personality shines more, I love puns, playful teasing, and cheesy lines that are so bad they somehow become good. I'm not as extroverted as I may seem, if I had to choose between a party and staying in my room doing my thing, I'd choose my room.

I enjoy video games and physical sports in my free time, I'm more of an outgoing introvert.

My taste in music is all over the place, it depends on what kind of mood I'm in but I like melancholic music and sometimes it spirals me into loop of sadness. But I also like pop, jazz, country and instrumental music.

So what I'm looking for?

  • You believe in dating to marry
  • Someone who's funny, and we can share memes and laugh. Sarcasm, flirty chats, and puns will be appreciated
  • Someone who would genuinely enjoy spending time with me, wants to know me deeply, and is open enough to let me know her too
  • Someone present, thoughtful, and emotionally available
  • You would like to meet up at some point in real life, and maybe we'll have that cozy first airport hug if you're far away
  • Someone I can send cute good morning / good night texts to, and receive them from
  • Someone who would enjoy receiving details from my day — pics, videos, voice messages — and would include me in her day by sending selfies, pics, videos, etc.
  • You would be interested in having at least one date night a week — watching a movie or playing games together on a video call
  • You'll believe in me, be there for me, and fight to be with me

What I'm not looking for?

  • Someone putting minimal to no effort
  • Someone still not over their ex from 10 years ago / emotionally unavailable
  • Someone with a high number of partners, or someone who treats intimacy casually
  • Someone who would make me feel like I am always less important than everyone else

If you're wondering what some of my bad sides are:

  • Books and theatre have set really high dating expectations for me
  • I can eat sweet potato fries for the rest of my life. If you order french fries, I'd probably eat yours too
  • I'm a night owl if I can be, and sometimes I go to bed around 2 a.m. and wake up at noon
  • I'm an emotional and very romantic person. If you're more on the cold side, it won't work out

What am I offering?

  • To be your best friend. I'll always be there for you
  • A lot of physical affection. I will love hugging you and playing with your hair while you lay on my chest
  • Compliments and care. You're probably hot af and really gorgeous. I'll make sure you never forget it or doubt yourself — not just about how you look, but about who you are, how your mind works, how your laugh sounds, and the little things you do without realizing they are beautiful
  • I'll love you harder on the days you can't love yourself
  • I'll be there for you when it hasn't been your day, your week, your month, or even your year. Clap, clap, clap.
  • I'll read you ASMR bedtime stories
  • I can cook delicious food for you
  • I'll be honest and always do my best to work things out. I'm pretty straightforward, and you won't need to read my mind
  • I'll believe in you
  • I'll never give up on you

I know this is a long shot, finding my person on Reddit. But so was the possibility of the universe existing, and yet here we are.

You're probably far away, but that's okay. In quantum physics, once two particles experience a shared state, they are no longer separate entities but exist as one.

So let's build each other up, be the best versions of ourselves, let go of the past and live in the present, travel, and be happy.

reddit.com
u/Doomer____ — 13 days ago
▲ 3 r/r4r

26 [M4F] (Italy/Europe) - In pursuit of mosticonicuser, in search of my better half

To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.

Soulmates are friends whose spirits travel together, hearts break and mend together, and souls rise together in love acceptance and harmony.

I am studying to be an engineer as applying the knowledge of physics into real world has been a big inspiration for me to take the major. I was torn for a while between pure physics and engineering and in the end, I chose engineering.

How about you? In what ways do you express what your inside universe is like?

I love reading poetry and literature whenever I have spare time. I am an avid book reader and also like a healthy dose of philosophy and psychology. My favorite author is Paulo Coelho and favorite read 'The Alchemist'. Which is your favorite book and why? How did it change you?

How does your perfect date look like? Mine - I'd love to take you on a vintage picnic date. Just me and you on my blanket, listening to The Paper Kites, Sleeping at Last, Hozier. Some lights and food. We'd be laughing and feeling like teenagers again.

I'll take you to my favourite places too, so grab your backpack and meet me at the bus stop. We'll catch bus that goes to the swiss alps. We'll pick yellow wild flowers and berries. Sneak out from the hut at midnight with a few blankets to keep us cozy while we watch the starry sky, with nothing but fireflies and dandelions around us.

We would make wishes while blowing dandelions, and you would have no idea that my wish had already come true, thinking there's no other place I'd rather be in that moment. Where is your favourite place?

To summarise -  I'm 26 years old straight male, 6ft tall (183cm). We can exchange photos if you send one, I promise I will send you one back

I am an empathetic person and I can put myself in your shoes and understand your troubles and suffering and console you the best I can and I'm looking for someone who can reciprocate that as well.

I love memes and I would love to hear all your jokes. Once I get comfortable my personality shines more, I love puns, playful teasing, and cheesy lines that are so bad they somehow become good. I'm not as extroverted as I may seem, if I had to choose between a party and staying in my room doing my thing, I'd choose my room.

I enjoy video games and physical sports in my free time, I'm more of an outgoing introvert.

My taste in music is all over the place, it depends on what kind of mood I'm in but I like melancholic music and sometimes it spirals me into loop of sadness. But I also like pop, jazz, country and instrumental music.

So what I'm looking for?

  • You believe in date to marry

  • Someone who's funny and we can share memes and laugh. Sarcasm, flirty chats and puns will be appreciated

  • Someone who would genuinely enjoy spending time with me, wants to know me deeply, and is open enough to let me know her too

  • Someone present, thoughtful, and emotionally available

  • You would like to meet up at some point in real life, and maybe we'll have that cozy first airport hug if you're far away

  • Someone I can send and from whom I can receive cute good morning / good night texts

  • Someone who would enjoy receiving details from my day /pics, videos, voices messages/ and would include me in his day by sending me selfies/pics/videos etc.

  • You would be interested in having at least one date night a week / watching a movie or playing games together on a video call

  • You'll believe in me, be there for me and fight to be with me

What I'm not looking for?

  • Someone putting minimal to no effort

  • Someone still not over their ex from 10 years ago / Emotionally unavailable

  • Someone with high number of partners or treats intimacy casually

  • Someone who would make me feel like I am always less important than everyone else ​ If you're wondering what are some of my bad sides:

  • Books and theatre have set really high dating expectations for me?

  • I can eat sweet potato fries for the rest of my life, if you order french fries I'd probably eat yours, too

  • I'm a night owl if I can be and sometimes I am going to bed around 2am and waking up at noon.

  • I'm an emotional and very romantic person, if you're more on the cold side it won't work out

What am I offering?

  • To be your best friend. I'll always be there for you.

  • A lot of physical affection, I will love hugging you, playing with your hair while you lay on my chest

  • Compliments and care, you're probably hot af, and really gorgeous. I'll make sure you never forget it or doubt yourself but not just about how you look, but about who you are, how your mind works, how your laugh sounds, and the little things you do without realizing they are beautiful

  • Love you harder on the days you can't love yourself

  • I'll be there for you when it hasn't been your day, your week, your month, or even your year. Clap,clap,clap.

  • I'll read you asmr bed time stories

  • I can cook delicious food for you.

  • I'll be honest and always do my best to work things out, I'm pretty straight forward and you won't need to read my mind

  • I'll believe in you

  • I'll never give up on you

I know this is a long shot, finding my person on Reddit. But so was the possibility of the universe existing, and yet here we are.

You're probably far away, but that's okay. In quantum physics, once two particles experience a shared state, they are no longer separate entities but exist as one.

So let's build each other up, be the best version of ourselves, let go of the past and live in the present, let's travel and be happy.

reddit.com
u/Doomer____ — 16 days ago

26 [M4F] (Italy/Europe) - A primary feature of quarks is that they’re always bound together, yet lately I feel like a lonely little neutrino in search of his better half

To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.

Soulmates are friends whose spirits travel together, hearts break and mend together, and souls rise together in love acceptance and harmony.

I am studying to be an engineer as applying the knowledge of physics into real world has been a big inspiration for me to take the major. I was torn for a while between pure physics and engineering and in the end, I chose engineering.

How about you? In what ways do you express what your inside universe is like?

I love reading poetry and literature whenever I have spare time. I am an avid book reader and also like a healthy dose of philosophy and psychology. My favorite author is Paulo Coelho and favorite read 'The Alchemist'. Which is your favourite book and why? How did it change you?

How does your perfect date look like? Mine - I'd love to take you on a vintage picnic date. Just me and you on my blanket, listening to The Paper Kites, Sleeping at Last, Hozier. Some lights and food. We'd be laughing and feeling like teenagers again.

I'll take you to my favourite places too, so grab your backpack and meet me at the bus stop. We'll catch bus that goes to the swiss alps. We'll pick yellow wild flowers and berries. Sneak out from the hut at midnight with a few blankets to keep us cozy while we watch the starry sky, with nothing but fireflies and dandelions around us.

We would make wishes while blowing dandelions, and you would have no idea that my wish had already come true, thinking there's no other place I'd rather be in that moment. Where is your favourite place?

To summarise -  I'm 26 years old straight male, 6ft tall (183cm). We can exchange photos if you send one, I promise I will send you one back

I am an empathetic person and I can put myself in your shoes and understand your troubles and suffering and console you the best I can and I'm looking for someone who can reciprocate that as well.

I love memes and I'd love to hear all your jokes. I love puns and cheesy pick up/flirty lines. I'm not as extroverted as I may seem, if I had to choose between a party and staying in my room doing my thing, I'd choose my room.

I enjoy video games and physical sports in my free time, I'm more of an outgoing introvert.

My taste in music is all over the place, it depends on what kind of mood I'm in but I like melancholic music and sometimes it spirals me into loop of sadness. But I also like pop, jazz, country and instrumental music.

So what I'm looking for?

  • Someone who's funny and we can share memes and laugh. Sarcasm, flirty chats and puns will be appreciated

  • Someone who would genuinely enjoy spending time with me. Would be interested in getting to know me and be open so I can get to know you too

  • Be present, initiative and thoughtful

  • You would like to meet up at some point in real life, and we'll have that cozy first airport hug

  • Someone I can send and from whom I can receive cute good morning / good night texts

  • Someone who would enjoy receiving details from my day /pics, videos, voices messages/ and would include me in his day by sending me selfies/pics/videos etc.

  • You would be interested in having at least one date night a week / watching a movie or playing games together on a video call

  • You'll believe in me, be there for me and fight to be with me

What I'm not looking for?

  • Someone putting minimal to no effort

  • Someone who'd ditch me and cancel our date to play League of Legends all day

  • Someone still not over their ex from 10 years ago / Emotionally unavailable

  • Someone with high number of partners or treats intimacy casually

  • Liars and cheaters

  • Someone who would see me as less than their friends ​

If you're wondering what are some of my bad sides:

  • Books and theatre have set really high dating expectations for me?

  • I can eat sweet potato fries for the rest of my life, if you order french fries I'd probably eat yours, too

  • I'm a night owl if I can be and sometimes I am going to bed around 2am and waking up at noon.

  • I'm an emotional and very romantic person, if you're more on the cold side it won't work out

What am I offering?

  • To be your best friend. I'll always be there for you.

  • A lot of physical affection, I will love hugging you, kising you, playing with your hair while you lay on my chest

  • Compliments. You're probably hot af, and really gorgeous. I'll make sure you never forget it or doubt yourself

  • Love you harder on the days you can't love yourself

  • I'll be there for you when it hasn't been your day, your week, your month, or even your year. Clap,clap,clap.

  • I'll read you asmr bed time stories

  • I can cook delicious food for you.

  • I'll be honest and always do my best to work things out, I'm pretty straight forward and you won't need to read my mind

  • I'll believe in you

  • I'll never give up on you

I know this is a long shot, finding my person on Reddit. But so was the possibility of the universe existing, and yet here we are.

You're probably far away, but that's okay. In quantum physics, once two particles experience a shared state, they are no longer separate entities but exist as one.

So let's build each other up, be the best version of ourselves, let go of the past and live in the present, let's travel and be happy.

reddit.com
u/Doomer____ — 17 days ago
▲ 1 r/r4r

26 [M4F] (Italy/Europe) - A primary feature of quarks is that they’re always bound together, yet lately I feel like a lonely little neutrino in search of his better half

To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.

Soulmates are friends whose spirits travel together, hearts break and mend together, and souls rise together in love acceptance and harmony.

I am studying to be an engineer as applying the knowledge of physics into real world has been a big inspiration for me to take the major. I was torn for a while between pure physics and engineering and in the end, I chose engineering.

How about you? In what ways do you express what your inside universe is like?

I love reading poetry and literature whenever I have spare time. I am an avid book reader and also like a healthy dose of philosophy and psychology. My favorite author is Paulo Coelho and favorite read 'The Alchemist'. Which is your favorite book and why? How did it change you?

How does your perfect date look like? Mine - I'd love to take you on a vintage picnic date. Just me and you on my blanket, listening to The Paper Kites, Sleeping at Last, Hozier. Some lights and food. We'd be laughing and feeling like teenagers again.

I'll take you to my favourite places too, so grab your backpack and meet me at the bus stop. We'll catch bus that goes to the swiss alps. We'll pick yellow wild flowers and berries. Sneak out from the hut at midnight with a few blankets to keep us cozy while we watch the starry sky, with nothing but fireflies and dandelions around us.

We would make wishes while blowing dandelions, and you would have no idea that my wish had already come true, thinking there's no other place I'd rather be in that moment. Where is your favourite place?

To summarise -  I'm 26 years old straight male, 6ft tall (183cm). We can exchange photos if you send one, I promise I will send you one back

I am an empathetic person and I can put myself in your shoes and understand your troubles and suffering and console you the best I can and I'm looking for someone who can reciprocate that as well.

I love memes and I would love to hear all your jokes. Once I get comfortable my personality shines more, I love puns, playful teasing, and cheesy lines that are so bad they somehow become good. I'm not as extroverted as I may seem, if I had to choose between a party and staying in my room doing my thing, I'd choose my room.

I enjoy video games and physical sports in my free time, I'm more of an outgoing introvert.

My taste in music is all over the place, it depends on what kind of mood I'm in but I like melancholic music and sometimes it spirals me into loop of sadness. But I also like pop, jazz, country and instrumental music.

So what I'm looking for?

  • You believe in date to marry

  • Someone who's funny and we can share memes and laugh. Sarcasm, flirty chats and puns will be appreciated

  • Someone who would genuinely enjoy spending time with me, wants to know me deeply, and is open enough to let me know her too

  • Someone present, thoughtful, and emotionally available

  • You would like to meet up at some point in real life, and maybe we'll have that cozy first airport hug if you're far away

  • Someone I can send and from whom I can receive cute good morning / good night texts

  • Someone who would enjoy receiving details from my day /pics, videos, voices messages/ and would include me in his day by sending me selfies/pics/videos etc.

  • You would be interested in having at least one date night a week / watching a movie or playing games together on a video call

  • You'll believe in me, be there for me and fight to be with me

What I'm not looking for?

  • Someone putting minimal to no effort

  • Someone still not over their ex from 10 years ago / Emotionally unavailable

  • Someone with high number of partners or treats intimacy casually

  • Someone who would make me feel like I am always less important than everyone else ​ If you're wondering what are some of my bad sides:

  • Books and theatre have set really high dating expectations for me?

  • I can eat sweet potato fries for the rest of my life, if you order french fries I'd probably eat yours, too

  • I'm a night owl if I can be and sometimes I am going to bed around 2am and waking up at noon.

  • I'm an emotional and very romantic person, if you're more on the cold side it won't work out

What am I offering?

  • To be your best friend. I'll always be there for you.

  • A lot of physical affection, I will love hugging you, playing with your hair while you lay on my chest

  • Compliments and care, you're probably hot af, and really gorgeous. I'll make sure you never forget it or doubt yourself but not just about how you look, but about who you are, how your mind works, how your laugh sounds, and the little things you do without realizing they are beautiful

  • Love you harder on the days you can't love yourself

  • I'll be there for you when it hasn't been your day, your week, your month, or even your year. Clap,clap,clap.

  • I'll read you asmr bed time stories

  • I can cook delicious food for you.

  • I'll be honest and always do my best to work things out, I'm pretty straight forward and you won't need to read my mind

  • I'll believe in you

  • I'll never give up on you

I know this is a long shot, finding my person on Reddit. But so was the possibility of the universe existing, and yet here we are.

You're probably far away, but that's okay. In quantum physics, once two particles experience a shared state, they are no longer separate entities but exist as one.

So let's build each other up, be the best version of ourselves, let go of the past and live in the present, let's travel and be happy.

reddit.com
u/Doomer____ — 17 days ago
▲ 1 r/r4r

26 [M4F] (Italy/Europe) - looking for my soulmate, or at least someone who gets me ♡

To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.

Soulmates are friends whose spirits travel together, hearts break and mend together, and souls rise together in love acceptance and harmony.

I am studying to be an engineer as applying the knowledge of physics into real world has been a big inspiration for me to take the major. I was torn for a while between pure physics and engineering and in the end, I chose engineering.

How about you? In what ways do you express what your inside universe is like?

I love reading poetry and literature whenever I have spare time. I am an avid book reader and also like a healthy dose of philosophy and psychology. My favorite author is Paulo Coelho and favorite read 'The Alchemist'. Which is your favorite book and why? How did it change you?

How does your perfect date look like? Mine - I'd love to take you on a vintage picnic date. Just me and you on my blanket, listening to The Paper Kites, Sleeping at Last, Hozier. Some lights and food. We'd be laughing and feeling like teenagers again.

I'll take you to my favourite places too, so grab your backpack and meet me at the bus stop. We'll catch bus that goes to the swiss alps. We'll pick yellow wild flowers and berries. Sneak out from the hut at midnight with a few blankets to keep us cozy while we watch the starry sky, with nothing but fireflies and dandelions around us.

We would make wishes while blowing dandelions, and you would have no idea that my wish had already come true, thinking there's no other place I'd rather be in that moment. Where is your favourite place?

To summarise -  I'm 26 years old straight male, 6ft tall (183cm). We can exchange photos if you send one, I promise I will send you one back

I am an empathetic person and I can put myself in your shoes and understand your troubles and suffering and console you the best I can and I'm looking for someone who can reciprocate that as well.

I love memes and I would love to hear all your jokes. Once I get comfortable my personality shines more, I love puns, playful teasing, and cheesy lines that are so bad they somehow become good. I'm not as extroverted as I may seem, if I had to choose between a party and staying in my room doing my thing, I'd choose my room.

I enjoy video games and physical sports in my free time, I'm more of an outgoing introvert.

My taste in music is all over the place, it depends on what kind of mood I'm in but I like melancholic music and sometimes it spirals me into loop of sadness. But I also like pop, jazz, country and instrumental music.

So what I'm looking for?

  • Someone who's funny and we can share memes and laugh. Sarcasm, flirty chats and puns will be appreciated

  • Someone who would genuinely enjoy spending time with me, wants to know me deeply, and is open enough to let me know her too

  • Someone present, thoughtful, and emotionally available

  • You would like to meet up at some point in real life, and maybe we'll have that cozy first airport hug if you're far away

  • Someone I can send and from whom I can receive cute good morning / good night texts

  • Someone who would enjoy receiving details from my day /pics, videos, voices messages/ and would include me in his day by sending me selfies/pics/videos etc.

  • You would be interested in having at least one date night a week / watching a movie or playing games together on a video call

  • You'll believe in me, be there for me and fight to be with me

What I'm not looking for?

  • Someone putting minimal to no effort

  • Someone still not over their ex from 10 years ago / Emotionally unavailable

  • Someone with high number of partners or treats intimacy casually

  • Someone who would make me feel like I am always less important than everyone else ​ If you're wondering what are some of my bad sides:

  • Books and theatre have set really high dating expectations for me?

  • I can eat sweet potato fries for the rest of my life, if you order french fries I'd probably eat yours, too

  • I'm a night owl if I can be and sometimes I am going to bed around 2am and waking up at noon.

  • I'm an emotional and very romantic person, if you're more on the cold side it won't work out

What am I offering?

  • To be your best friend. I'll always be there for you.

  • A lot of physical affection, I will love hugging you, playing with your hair while you lay on my chest

  • Compliments and care, you're probably hot af, and really gorgeous. I'll make sure you never forget it or doubt yourself but not just about how you look, but about who you are, how your mind works, how your laugh sounds, and the little things you do without realizing they are beautiful

  • Love you harder on the days you can't love yourself

  • I'll be there for you when it hasn't been your day, your week, your month, or even your year. Clap,clap,clap.

  • I'll read you asmr bed time stories

  • I can cook delicious food for you.

  • I'll be honest and always do my best to work things out, I'm pretty straight forward and you won't need to read my mind

  • I'll believe in you

  • I'll never give up on you

I know this is a long shot, finding my person on Reddit. But so was the possibility of the universe existing, and yet here we are.

You're probably far away, but that's okay. In quantum physics, once two particles experience a shared state, they are no longer separate entities but exist as one.

So let's build each other up, be the best version of ourselves, let go of the past and live in the present, let's travel and be happy.

reddit.com
u/Doomer____ — 19 days ago

26 [M4F] #Italy - A Quest for Soulmate 💫

To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.

Soulmates are friends whose spirits travel together, hearts break and mend together, and souls rise together in love acceptance and harmony.

I am studying to be an engineer as applying the knowledge of physics into real world has been a big inspiration for me to take the major. I was torn for a while between pure physics and engineering and in the end, I chose engineering.

How about you? In what ways do you express what your inside universe is like?

I love reading poetry and literature whenever I have spare time. I am an avid book reader and also like a healthy dose of philosophy and psychology. My favorite author is Paulo Coelho and favorite read 'The Alchemist'. Which is your favourite book and why? How did it change you?

How does your perfect date look like? Mine - I'd love to take you on a vintage picnic date. Just me and you on my blanket, listening to The Paper Kites, Sleeping at Last, Hozier. Some lights and food. We'd be laughing and feeling like teenagers again.

I'll take you to my favourite places too, so grab your backpack and meet me at the bus stop. We'll catch bus that goes to the swiss alps. We'll pick yellow wild flowers and berries. Sneak out from the hut at midnight with a few blankets to keep us cozy while we watch the starry sky, with nothing but fireflies and dandelions around us.

We would make wishes while blowing dandelions, and you would have no idea that my wish had already come true, thinking there's no other place I'd rather be in that moment. Where is your favourite place?

To summarise -  I'm 26 years old straight male, 6ft tall (183cm). We can exchange photos if you send one, I promise I will send you one back

I am an empathetic person and I can put myself in your shoes and understand your troubles and suffering and console you the best I can and I'm looking for someone who can reciprocate that as well.

I love memes and I'd love to hear all your jokes. I love puns and cheesy pick up/flirty lines. I'm not as extroverted as I may seem, if I had to choose between a party and staying in my room doing my thing, I'd choose my room.

I enjoy video games and physical sports in my free time, I'm more of an outgoing introvert.

My taste in music is all over the place, it depends on what kind of mood I'm in but I like melancholic music and sometimes it spirals me into loop of sadness. But I also like pop, jazz, country and instrumental music.

So what I'm looking for?

  • Someone who's funny and we can share memes and laugh. Sarcasm, flirty chats and puns will be appreciated

  • Someone who would genuinely enjoy spending time with me. Would be interested in getting to know me and be open so I can get to know you too

  • Be present, initiative and thoughtful

  • You would like to meet up at some point in real life, and we'll have that cozy first airport hug

  • Someone I can send and from whom I can receive cute good morning / good night texts

  • Someone who would enjoy receiving details from my day /pics, videos, voices messages/ and would include me in his day by sending me selfies/pics/videos etc.

  • You would be interested in having at least one date night a week / watching a movie or playing games together on a video call

  • You'll believe in me, be there for me and fight to be with me

What I'm not looking for?

  • Someone putting minimal to no effort

  • Someone who'd ditch me and cancel our date to play League of Legends all day

  • Someone still not over their ex from 10 years ago / Emotionally unavailable

  • Someone with high number of partners or treats intimacy casually

  • Liars and cheaters

  • Someone who would see me as less than their friends ​

If you're wondering what are some of my bad sides:

  • Books and theatre have set really high dating expectations for me?

  • I can eat sweet potato fries for the rest of my life, if you order french fries I'd probably eat yours, too

  • I'm a night owl if I can be and sometimes I am going to bed around 2am and waking up at noon.

  • I'm an emotional and very romantic person, if you're more on the cold side it won't work out

What am I offering?

  • To be your best friend. I'll always be there for you.

  • A lot of physical affection, I will love hugging you, kissing you, playing with your hair while you lay on my chest

  • Compliments. You're probably hot af, and really gorgeous. I'll make sure you never forget it or doubt yourself

  • Love you harder on the days you can't love yourself

  • I'll be there for you when it hasn't been your day, your week, your month, or even your year. Clap,clap,clap.

  • I'll read you asmr bed time stories

  • I can cook delicious food for you.

  • I'll be honest and always do my best to work things out, I'm pretty straight forward and you won't need to read my mind

  • I'll believe in you

  • I'll never give up on you

I know this is a long shot, finding my person on Reddit. But so was the possibility of the universe existing, and yet here we are.

You're probably far away, but that's okay. In quantum physics, once two particles experience a shared state, they are no longer separate entities but exist as one.

So let's build each other up, be the best version of ourselves, let go of the past and live in the present, let's travel and be happy.

reddit.com
u/Doomer____ — 21 days ago

26 [M4F] #Italy - A primary feature of quarks is that they're always bounded together yet lately I feel like a neutrino, destined to be forever alone

To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.

Soulmates are friends whose spirits travel together, hearts break and mend together, and souls rise together in love acceptance and harmony.

I am studying to be an engineer as applying the knowledge of physics into real world has been a big inspiration for me to take the major. I was torn for a while between pure physics and engineering and in the end, I chose engineering.

How about you? In what ways do you express what your inside universe is like?

I love reading poetry and literature whenever I have spare time. I am an avid book reader and also like a healthy dose of philosophy and psychology. My favorite author is Paulo Coelho and favorite read 'The Alchemist'. Which is your favourite book and why? How did it change you?

How does your perfect date look like? Mine - I'd love to take you on a vintage picnic date. Just me and you on my blanket, listening to The Paper Kites, Sleeping at Last, Hozier. Some lights and food. We'd be laughing and feeling like teenagers again.

I'll take you to my favourite places too, so grab your backpack and meet me at the bus stop. We'll catch bus that goes to the swiss alps. We'll pick yellow wild flowers and berries. Sneak out from the hut at midnight with a few blankets to keep us cozy while we watch the starry sky, with nothing but fireflies and dandelions around us.

We would make wishes while blowing dandelions, and you would have no idea that my wish had already come true, thinking there's no other place I'd rather be in that moment. Where is your favourite place?

To summarise -  I'm 26 years old straight male, 6ft tall (183cm). We can exchange photos if you send one, I promise I will send you one back

I am an empathetic person and I can put myself in your shoes and understand your troubles and suffering and console you the best I can and I'm looking for someone who can reciprocate that as well.

I love memes and I'd love to hear all your jokes. I love puns and cheesy pick up/flirty lines. I'm not as extroverted as I may seem, if I had to choose between a party and staying in my room doing my thing, I'd choose my room.

I enjoy video games and physical sports in my free time, I'm more of an outgoing introvert.

My taste in music is all over the place, it depends on what kind of mood I'm in but I like melancholic music and sometimes it spirals me into loop of sadness. But I also like pop, jazz, country and instrumental music.

So what I'm looking for?

  • Someone who's funny and we can share memes and laugh. Sarcasm, flirty chats and puns will be appreciated

  • Someone who would genuinely enjoy spending time with me. Would be interested in getting to know me and be open so I can get to know you too

  • Be present, initiative and thoughtful

  • You would like to meet up at some point in real life, and we'll have that cozy first airport hug

  • Someone I can send and from whom I can receive cute good morning / good night texts

  • Someone who would enjoy receiving details from my day /pics, videos, voices messages/ and would include me in his day by sending me selfies/pics/videos etc.

  • You would be interested in having at least one date night a week / watching a movie or playing games together on a video call

  • You'll believe in me, be there for me and fight to be with me

What I'm not looking for?

  • Someone putting minimal to no effort

  • Someone who'd ditch me and cancel our date to play League of Legends all day

  • Someone still not over their ex from 10 years ago / Emotionally unavailable

  • Someone with high number of partners or treats intimacy casually

  • Liars and cheaters

  • Someone who would see me as less than their friends ​

If you're wondering what are some of my bad sides:

  • Books and theatre have set really high dating expectations for me?

  • I can eat sweet potato fries for the rest of my life, if you order french fries I'd probably eat yours, too

  • I'm a night owl if I can be and sometimes I am going to bed around 2am and waking up at noon.

  • I'm an emotional and very romantic person, if you're more on the cold side it won't work out

What am I offering?

  • To be your best friend. I'll always be there for you.

  • A lot of physical affection, I will love hugging you, kissing you, playing with your hair while you lay on my chest

  • Compliments. You're probably hot af, and really gorgeous. I'll make sure you never forget it or doubt yourself

  • Love you harder on the days you can't love yourself

  • I'll be there for you when it hasn't been your day, your week, your month, or even your year. Clap,clap,clap.

  • I'll read you asmr bed time stories

  • I can cook delicious food for you.

  • I'll be honest and always do my best to work things out, I'm pretty straight forward and you won't need to read my mind

  • I'll believe in you

  • I'll never give up on you

I know this is a long shot, finding my person on Reddit. But so was the possibility of the universe existing, and yet here we are.

You're probably far away, but that's okay. In quantum physics, once two particles experience a shared state, they are no longer separate entities but exist as one.

So let's build each other up, be the best version of ourselves, let go of the past and live in the present, let's travel and be happy.

reddit.com
u/Doomer____ — 22 days ago

26 [M4F] (Italy/Europe) A primary feature of quarks is that they're always bounded together yet lately I feel like a neutrino, destined to be forever alone

To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.

Soulmates are friends whose spirits travel together, hearts break and mend together, and souls rise together in love acceptance and harmony.

I am studying to be an engineer as applying the knowledge of physics into real world has been a big inspiration for me to take the major. I was torn for a while between pure physics and engineering and in the end, I chose engineering.

How about you? In what ways do you express what your inside universe is like?

I love reading poetry and literature whenever I have spare time. I am an avid book reader and also like a healthy dose of philosophy and psychology. My favorite author is Paulo Coelho and favorite read 'The Alchemist'. Which is your favourite book and why? How did it change you?

How does your perfect date look like? Mine - I'd love to take you on a vintage picnic date. Just me and you on my blanket, listening to The Paper Kites, Sleeping at Last, Hozier. Some lights and food. We'd be laughing and feeling like teenagers again.

I'll take you to my favourite places too, so grab your backpack and meet me at the bus stop. We'll catch bus that goes to the swiss alps. We'll pick yellow wild flowers and berries. Sneak out from the hut at midnight with a few blankets to keep us cozy while we watch the starry sky, with nothing but fireflies and dandelions around us.

We would make wishes while blowing dandelions, and you would have no idea that my wish had already come true, thinking there's no other place I'd rather be in that moment. Where is your favourite place?

To summarise -  I'm 26 years old straight male, 6ft tall (183cm). We can exchange photos if you send one, I promise I will send you one back

I am an empathetic person and I can put myself in your shoes and understand your troubles and suffering and console you the best I can and I'm looking for someone who can reciprocate that as well.

I love memes and I'd love to hear all your jokes. I love puns and cheesy pick up/flirty lines. I'm not as extroverted as I may seem, if I had to choose between a party and staying in my room doing my thing, I'd choose my room.

I enjoy video games and physical sports in my free time, I'm more of an outgoing introvert.

My taste in music is all over the place, it depends on what kind of mood I'm in but I like melancholic music and sometimes it spirals me into loop of sadness. But I also like pop, jazz, country and instrumental music.

So what I'm looking for?

  • Someone who's funny and we can share memes and laugh. Sarcasm, flirty chats and puns will be appreciated

  • Someone who would genuinely enjoy spending time with me. Would be interested in getting to know me and be open so I can get to know you too

  • Be present, initiative and thoughtful

  • You would like to meet up at some point in real life, and we'll have that cozy first airport hug

  • Someone I can send and from whom I can receive cute good morning / good night texts

  • Someone who would enjoy receiving details from my day /pics, videos, voices messages/ and would include me in his day by sending me selfies/pics/videos etc.

  • You would be interested in having at least one date night a week / watching a movie or playing games together on a video call

  • You'll believe in me, be there for me and fight to be with me

What I'm not looking for?

  • Someone putting minimal to no effort

  • Someone who'd ditch me and cancel our date to play League of Legends all day

  • Someone still not over their ex from 10 years ago / Emotionally unavailable

  • Someone with high number of partners or treats intimacy casually

  • Liars and cheaters

  • Someone who would see me as less than their friends ​

If you're wondering what are some of my bad sides:

  • Books and theatre have set really high dating expectations for me?

  • I can eat sweet potato fries for the rest of my life, if you order french fries I'd probably eat yours, too

  • I'm a night owl if I can be and sometimes I am going to bed around 2am and waking up at noon.

  • I'm an emotional and very romantic person, if you're more on the cold side it won't work out

What am I offering?

  • To be your best friend. I'll always be there for you.

  • A lot of physical affection, I will love hugging you, kising you, playing with your hair while you lay on my chest

  • Compliments. You're probably hot af, and really gorgeous. I'll make sure you never forget it or doubt yourself

  • Love you harder on the days you can't love yourself

  • I'll be there for you when it hasn't been your day, your week, your month, or even your year. Clap,clap,clap.

  • I'll read you asmr bed time stories

  • I can cook delicious food for you.

  • I'll be honest and always do my best to work things out, I'm pretty straight forward and you won't need to read my mind

  • I'll believe in you

  • I'll never give up on you

I know this is a long shot, finding my person on Reddit. But so was the possibility of the universe existing, and yet here we are.

You're probably far away, but that's okay. In quantum physics, once two particles experience a shared state, they are no longer separate entities but exist as one.

So let's build each other up, be the best version of ourselves, let go of the past and live in the present, let's travel and be happy.

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u/Doomer____ — 23 days ago
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26[M4F] #Italy | Europe – I miss having someone to talk to.. that’s it, that’s the post :c

I’ve learned how to keep myself busy. I fill my time, I stay productive, I show up where I need to.

But I think, deep down, everyone wants a place or a person that feels like home.

For me, I just want to feel at home with someone. I’ve been able to stand on my own for a long time, but it gets lonely and tiring to always be alone…

Figured I’d post here instead.

I’m someone who tends to care deeply, show up fully, and notice the little things. I appreciate meaningful interactions and people who value sincerity and effort in how they connect with others.

I lean a bit old-school in general, loyalty, honesty, and small thoughtful gestures go a long way for me.

I enjoy conversations that go on longer than expected, the kind where you forget to check the time. I appreciate humor (especially the slightly weird kind), emotional awareness, and people who can be genuine without overthinking it.

I also believe in empathy and being there for people who matter, even if it’s just showing up to listen.

A bit about me:

Physically, I’m on the taller side (5’11), slim build, dark straight hair, brown eyes, and usually have a short beard nothing rough. I’ve got a tanned, caramel-toned complexion and sometimes I wear glasses thanks to all years of screen time.

Interests:

Music, books, philosophy, languages, writing, games, sports, art, and the occasional 2AM deep dive into random topics.

I also enjoy walks, good coffee, and shared laughter.

Cooking is something I enjoy too, especially when it’s for others. Though, like most people, I have my procrastination days.

I’m mostly here to connect with like-minded people who enjoy thoughtful conversations, mutual respect, and just… being real.

A connection that feels safe, but still exciting, where vulnerability isn’t awkward, but comes naturally with time. We grow individually, but also together.

If any of this resonates, feel free to say hi,just maybe bring a bit more than a one-word intro 🙂

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u/Doomer____ — 26 days ago

26[M4F] #Italy | Europe – I miss having someone to talk to.. that’s it, that’s the post :c

I’ve learned how to keep myself busy. I fill my time, I stay productive, I show up where I need to.

But I think, deep down, everyone wants a place or a person that feels like home.

For me, I just want to feel at home with someone. I’ve been able to stand on my own for a long time, but it gets lonely and tiring to always be alone…

Figured I’d post here instead.

I’m someone who tends to care deeply, show up fully, and notice the little things. I appreciate meaningful interactions and people who value sincerity and effort in how they connect with others.

I lean a bit old-school in general, loyalty, honesty, and small thoughtful gestures go a long way for me.

I enjoy conversations that go on longer than expected, the kind where you forget to check the time. I appreciate humor (especially the slightly weird kind), emotional awareness, and people who can be genuine without overthinking it.

I also believe in empathy and being there for people who matter, even if it’s just showing up to listen.

A bit about me:

Physically, I’m on the taller side (5’11), slim build, dark straight hair, brown eyes, and usually have a short beard nothing rough. I’ve got a tanned, caramel-toned complexion and sometimes I wear glasses thanks to all years of screen time.

Interests:

Music, books, philosophy, languages, writing, games, sports, art, and the occasional 2AM deep dive into random topics.

I also enjoy walks, good coffee, and shared laughter.

Cooking is something I enjoy too, especially when it’s for others. Though, like most people, I have my procrastination days.

I’m mostly here to connect with like-minded people who enjoy thoughtful conversations, mutual respect, and just… being real.

A connection that feels safe, but still exciting, where vulnerability isn’t awkward, but comes naturally with time. We grow individually, but also together.

If any of this resonates, feel free to say hi,just maybe bring a bit more than a one-word intro 🙂

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u/Doomer____ — 27 days ago

I’ve learned how to keep myself busy. I fill my time, I stay productive, I show up where I need to.

But I think, deep down, everyone wants a place or a person that feels like home.

For me, I just want to feel at home with someone. I’ve been able to stand on my own for a long time, but it gets lonely and tiring to always be alone…

Figured I’d post here instead.

I’m someone who tends to care deeply, show up fully, and notice the little things. I appreciate meaningful interactions and people who value sincerity and effort in how they connect with others.

I lean a bit old-school in general, loyalty, honesty, and small thoughtful gestures go a long way for me.

I enjoy conversations that go on longer than expected, the kind where you forget to check the time. I appreciate humor (especially the slightly weird kind), emotional awareness, and people who can be genuine without overthinking it.

I also believe in empathy and being there for people who matter, even if it’s just showing up to listen.

A bit about me:

Physically, I’m on the taller side (5’11), slim build, dark straight hair, brown eyes, and usually have a short beard nothing rough. I’ve got a tanned, caramel-toned complexion and sometimes I wear glasses thanks to all years of screen time.

Interests:

Music, books, philosophy, languages, writing, games, sports, art, and the occasional 2AM deep dive into random topics.

I also enjoy walks, good coffee, and shared laughter.

Cooking is something I enjoy too, especially when it’s for others. Though, like most people, I have my procrastination days.

I’m mostly here to connect with like-minded people who enjoy thoughtful conversations, mutual respect, and just… being real.

If any of this resonates, feel free to say hi,just maybe bring a bit more than a one-word intro 🙂

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u/Doomer____ — 1 month ago