u/Downtown-Quarter-202

Some facts:
- I have met her in person for 3 days and she felt real and genuine. We videocall everyday and they are usually long videocalls at night and during the day with her while she is in her home, outside or at the company-provided apartment. She has never reject a videocall yet.
- She definitely works in the lobby of a hotel, as a shareholder in the fruit store that frequently supplies fruits to the hotel and other hotels.
- She owns an apartment about 8km from the hotel.
- We are definitely deeply in love.
- Definitely not a love scam.

Some possible red flags:
- She earns 20,000 RMB a month after 4 years of experience (apparently that high as she claims her boss lets her handle all the negotiations and liaising works with other stakeholders.)
- She sometimes stay the night in the company provided (3-4room) apartment. She claims she is the only one that stays in the apartment and uses it as a lodging since it is nearer to the hotel.
- Her job hours is not fixed(sometimes arriving to work late or leaving early), she claims her work is very relaxed.

Am I thinking too much that the boss may be letting her stay in the apartment and visiting her, hence the high pay?

Should I hire a private investigator since I would like our relationship to develop in the direction of marriage.

Some facts:
- I have met her in person for 3 days and she felt real and genuine. We videocall everyday and they are usually long videocalls at night and during the day with her while she is in her home, outside or at the company-provided apartment. She has never reject a videocall yet.
- She definitely works in the lobby of a hotel, as a shareholder in the fruit store that frequently supplies fruits to the hotel and other hotels.
- She owns an apartment about 8km from the hotel.
- We are definitely deeply in love.
- Definitely not a love scam.

Some possible red flags:
- She earns 20,000 RMB a month after 4 years of experience (apparently that high as she claims her boss lets her handle all the negotiations and liaising works with other stakeholders.)
- She sometimes stay the night in the company provided (3-4room) apartment. She claims she is the only one that stays in the apartment and uses it as a lodging since it is nearer to the hotel.
- Her job hours is not fixed(sometimes arriving to work late or leaving early), she claims her work is very relaxed.

Am I thinking too much that the boss may be letting her stay in the apartment and visiting her, hence the high pay?

Should I hire a private investigator since I would like our relationship to develop in the direction of marriage.

Some facts:
- I have met her in person for 3 days and she felt real and genuine. We videocall everyday and they are usually long videocalls at night and during the day with her while she is in her home, outside or at the company-provided apartment. She has never reject a videocall yet.
- She definitely works in the lobby of a hotel, as a shareholder in the fruit store that frequently supplies fruits to the hotel and other hotels.
- She owns an apartment about 8km from the hotel.
- We are definitely deeply in love.
- Definitely not a love scam.

Some possible red flags:
- She earns 20,000 RMB a month after 4 years of experience (apparently that high as she claims her boss lets her handle all the negotiations and liaising works with other stakeholders.)
- She sometimes stay the night in the company provided (3-4room) apartment. She claims she is the only one that stays in the apartment and uses it as a lodging since it is nearer to the hotel.
- Her job hours is not fixed(sometimes arriving to work late or leaving early), she claims her work is very relaxed.

Am I thinking too much that the boss may be letting her stay in the apartment and visiting her, hence the high pay?

Should I hire a private investigator since I would like our relationship to develop in the direction of marriage.

Hi friends. I am looking to teach my chinese girlfriend English online. Have already found an online platform where we can both write, voice chat and upload PDF, documents.

She can't read at all. Able to pronounce some basic words correctly.

Where can I obtain free materials (PDF,word doc) for teaching her phonetics, reading, comprehension, writing