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How do you approach a random girl on Instagram without sounding weird or like every other guy in her DMs?

Like I found this girl attractive, she has a public account, posts reels/stories/content etc. We don’t know each other irl.

I know a simple hi probably gets ignored because she likely gets a lot of those already. So what actually works as a first move without trying too hard or sounding desperate?

Do story replies work better? Funny messages? Just reacting naturally to content?

Girls and guys both what kind of first DM feels normal vs instantly annoying?

How do you approach a random girl on Instagram without sounding weird or like every other guy in her DMs?

Like I found this girl attractive, she has a public account, posts reels/stories/content etc. We don’t know each other irl.

I know a simple hi probably gets ignored because she likely gets a lot of those already. So what actually works as a first move without trying too hard or sounding desperate?

Do story replies work better? Funny messages? Just reacting naturally to content?

Girls and guys both what kind of first DM feels normal vs instantly annoying?

Confused between OnePlus 13R vs S24 FE vs S24 (Snapdragon) for content creation (₹35–40k)

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Hey guys, I’m really confused and need some honest suggestions.

I’m planning to buy a phone mainly for content creation (Instagram reels + maybe YouTube in future), so my main priorities are:

Camera (especially video)

Stable performance for long recording

Good software (no lag / smooth editing experience)

My budget is around ₹35–40k max.

Right now I’m confused between:

OnePlus 13R 5G

Samsung Galaxy S24 FE 5G

Samsung Galaxy S24 5G (Snapdragon variant if available in sale)

I know iPhone 13 is also an option, but I don’t really want to go that route because I’ll have to compromise on things like battery, storage, and overall flexibility.

From what I’ve seen:

OnePlus seems better for performance + battery

Samsung seems better for camera + software consistency

But I’m not sure which one is actually better for real content creation use (not just specs).

Also, if anyone is using these phones:

How is video quality (especially stabilization)?

Heating issues during long recording?

Which one feels more reliable long term?

Would really appreciate real user advice 🙏