How to job search more effectively and get a job?

Hi. I was diagnosed with autism as a teenager in 2020. I’m now an adult and have been trying to find work for two years. With A LOT of accommodations I managed to get a STEM degree but haven’t been able to find any work and even get rejected from unpaid volunteering positions. I’ve never made it past the first stage before.

I’ve been through multiple work coaches at universal credit both regular and disability. When I signed on the first thing they did was refer me to a work capability assessment and I got LCW. I speak to them on the phone for a few minutes once a month. Every disability coach I’ve had has ghosted me after 1 session and I’ve given up with that team. The job centre told me they couldn’t help me and referred me to one local charity which is the only charity in the area that helps autistic people find work.

My year with the charity is over and I’ve still not found work. I can refer myself again and I will but I want to be more successful this time.

For reference I am living in London, 24F, cannot drive and can’t really travel independently (though I can learn a basic journey with lots of practise), very frequently lose the ability to speak and sometimes even write so I often use communication cards and small gestures, have very low processing speed and working memory, live at home, have a care act and social worker and attend part time a day service for disabled adults. I don’t receive any supports other than my day service. I have enhanced daily living and standard mobility for PIP due to my symptoms.

What job fields or types should I focus on applying for? How do I make myself more employable? I don’t want to keep being discarded by the job market so I need to be more efficient.

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u/Dry-Dragonfruit5216 — 12 days ago

Help with identifying these?

Hi, I bought some palm pals several years ago but they’ve pretty much just been in storage so I’m thinking of selling this. I was wondering if anyone knows the names of these and what a fair price to sell would be? They are all BNWT or BNWOT. There are duplicates (3x one monster, 2x one monster, 2x ladybird)

u/Dry-Dragonfruit5216 — 18 days ago

M&S quality changing?

I love shopping at M&S and have been purchasing from them weekly for almost two years. The quality of their products was top notch for so long, but recently I’ve been having quality issues and was wondering if this is bad luck or them lowering their quality.

The issue seems to be around their snack items. So the sweet & salty popcorn I’ve had a couple of bags with almost no flavour, salt and vinegar crisps have had far less flavour for months now and I’ve fully stopped buying these, salted pita chips had some bags that were quite bland and sometimes very pale on the cook, peanut butter cups the batch that expire in May 27 have the middle mostly chocolate with a ring of pb around the edge rather than being fully stuffed (the March 27 batch are fine), the Halloween peanut butter skulls have the same issue as the cups. I also saw a post from someone on another sub who bought the mini Colin’s after they were out of stock for several weeks and said they’re both smaller and also a worse flavour and texture.

I am happy to pay more for the M&S quality but I’m worried that this is a sign of them cutting quality on their products permanently. If they are starting the ‘skimpflation’ process then I will stop shopping with them and go back to not buying many snack items, as before I started shopping at M&S I never bought any of this stuff. Last year I already stopped using the in store bakery because the muffins I like went from being great to always stale. At first I tried to excuse this stuff as a bad batch but after multiple bland bags of popcorn and pita chips, and seeing that the Halloween peanut butter skulls have the same ruined ratio of chocolate to peanut butter that the cups have I’m now not so sure it’s just a bad batch.

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u/Dry-Dragonfruit5216 — 18 days ago

“They’re just like your best friends”

What is it with Hollister and the smooth seamless top obsession? It’s like all they release currently is tops in this material. I was waiting for more regular T-shirt and baby tee restocks or new designs (everything cute was fully sold out for ages) and they released new designs only in this material. Everyone was asking for more stuff like last Autumn, nope have the same tops we released in Summer but with sleeves.

u/Dry-Dragonfruit5216 — 1 month ago

Thinking of selling but not sure how

Hi. I’ve never sold a pair of shoes before but I don’t wear these so I was thinking of selling them. I was wondering what is the best place to list them and what a fair asking price would be? There are a few marks on the outside but the inside and soles are in excellent condition. They’re quite old but I only wore them a few times and then stored them in a box. I’m in the UK. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thank you.

u/Dry-Dragonfruit5216 — 1 month ago

Help finding Chewigem products?

Hi! I use a lot of chewlry because I have strong oral fixation. My favourite brand is Chewigem but I think they might have gone out of business because it’s really hard to find stock of most things anymore.

I was wondering if anyone has any Chewigem products they’d be interested in selling or knows where I can buy preferably: button pendant, heart pendant, raindrop pendant, Bermuda bracelet. I’d be interested in other stock too especially pendants and bracelets.

Thank you!

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u/Dry-Dragonfruit5216 — 1 month ago

They restocked the green!

They finally restocked the XXS! Idk why it says 0 it’s been saying that for like a week now but it’s the XXS in a few colours restocked.

u/Dry-Dragonfruit5216 — 2 months ago

How tf is this the same size?!

I got the green cable knit jumper in XS when it came out (sized up from my usual size) and really like it so I got a spare. When I put it on it swallowed me and has weird kinks in the hips that the other one doesn’t have.

Laying them over each other and measuring them is shocking. How are these the same size? I’ve washed my original one once on a cool wash so I also lay another of the same jumper and size but brand new over the top to show the one wash isn’t the issue. It’s not even possible to do an exchange because it’s sold out on the UK site 99% of the time.

On a lesser note I also got two of the same lace layering camis in the same size and they’re the exact same fit until the bottom where one is 3 cm wider and again has weird hip lumps. This product is also almost always sold out so I can’t exchange.

I also used my 15% off code on the green jumper so that’s my discount code wasted too. Is there anything I can do about this? I’m so disappointed with my jumper and had been looking forward to it arriving.

u/Dry-Dragonfruit5216 — 2 months ago

Unable to redirect parcel - how to proceed?

I have a few parcels for delivery tomorrow but no one is home tomorrow. I normally redirect parcels to my local collection point when no one is home however today I am unable to do this. I keep getting this error message. I was wondering how to proceed with redirection. Is this likely a tech problem that Royal Mail will fix today, or should I call? Thank you!

u/Dry-Dragonfruit5216 — 3 months ago

Which size to keep?

Hi, I’m wondering which size of these hoodies fits me best. The first two pictures for each colour is XS and the second two pictures are XXS.

u/Dry-Dragonfruit5216 — 3 months ago

Multibuy offer?

Does anyone know how often Hollister does discounts on multibuy for all items, or all items in general? I have a few things I want to buy (popular camis so they’ll probably sell out soon) but sometimes they do these offers, however I’m not sure how often they are. I’m in the UK. Thanks!

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u/Dry-Dragonfruit5216 — 3 months ago

Parcel shop damaged shipping label

Hi. I had an evri print in store label that was struggling to scan (it was flat but the scanner was struggling with the barcode on the box because the label is so seethrough it was scanning the box through the label).

The man in the shop decided to peel the label off and restick it and he ripped the label. The barcode at the bottom is undamaged so it does now scan the barcode but it says ‘(tracking number) has already been scanned into the shop’. I am unable to print another label too. Vinted and evri do not say that my parcel has been dropped off and I do not have a confirmation email.

I don’t know what to do. Do I have to cancel this transaction now and get negative feedback?

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u/Dry-Dragonfruit5216 — 3 months ago

Big haul with birthday voucher

I was waiting for the hooded Henley jumpers to come out in the UK to use my 20% off birthday voucher on them and the seamless T-shirts. Normally I wear an XXS but I sized up on these items because they’re slim fit and I don’t like the skin tight feel, except for the green hooded Henley because it was sold out in XS and I ordered the last XXS. I’m not sure if I’ll keep everything but their restocks are so infrequent I decided to get all of the colours that I like and see how they look irl.

u/Dry-Dragonfruit5216 — 3 months ago

Size help for merch T-shirts?

Hi, I really want to buy an IndyCar T-Shirt as an international fan based in the UK and got some money for my birthday to buy something. There isn’t really anything over here other than Pato merch on the McLaren store so I was looking at official IndyCar merch and paying international shipping.

The range of driver merch for anyone who isn’t an adult man is very disappointing. Most of the drivers don’t have anything in the women or kids sections. I really wanted something for Lundgaard or Armstrong because I’ve supported them since their F3 days.

Also I can’t find a sizing chart on the website to figure out what size I am for T-shirts. There is no reference in the sizing options, just XS, S, M, L, XL, 2XL. There is a sizing chart for the few driver jerseys they have but they look a lot bigger and none of those interest me, plus that is “chest”. I assume that is lying flat measurement so half bust.

All of the women sizes are too big so I think I’ll have to buy a kids T-shirt but based on the kids jersey size chart they may also be too big. Is there any way to know the measurements for the T-shirts not the jerseys so I can pick a size? For reference my bust is 70cm which is 27.6 inches and a “chest” half measurement is 13.8 inches, and my waist is 55cm which is 21.6 inches. I normally wear a UK women size 2-4 or kids 9/10/11 years.

Also what is the quality and texture of the Firehawk plushie? He’s really cute and I’m thinking of getting him.

I’ve attached pictures of the things I’m looking at. Thank you!

u/Dry-Dragonfruit5216 — 3 months ago