u/Dry_Appearance2210

Hello 👋

I’m looking for a relationship that would lead in to marriage. Would prefer if you are a malayali catholic.
I’m a jovial happy person with extremely good humour sense. I’m family oriented and not that materialistic. I believe that travelling and being kind is one of the world’s riches.
I work in marketing and i have strong interest in literature and movies. Would prefer people who read a lot(not a necessity) but also can yap about politics and current affairs. I’m an ambivert with my own time with work and me time and otherwise I’m always with friends and family. I have a pretty chill family and are very pleasant and jovial. I’m a malayali so i would prefer someone who is malayali because I feel like humour sense work better in Malayalam.
I’m looking for a sorted person, preferably nerdy, someone who is healthy and has clear goals about life very mature and very secure and who can take initiatives and should be an emotionally available person. I’m a foodie too and i cook very well. I’m an independent person who does everything on my own. I’m told I’m pretty. 5’4 in height. I’m not overly religious but would prefer a malayali catholic and I work a lot to uplift other people and I will make my partner’s life the best and i would want someone who can raise me up and not dim my shine ✨

P.S - Hoping you have a good mom who would be a great mil to me 🤩

Hello 👋

I’m looking for a relationship that would lead in to marriage. Would prefer if you are a malayali catholic.
I’m a jovial happy person with extremely good humour sense. I’m family oriented and not that materialistic. I believe that travelling and being kind is one of the world’s riches.
I work in marketing and i have strong interest in literature and movies. Would prefer people who read a lot(not a necessity) but also can yap about politics and current affairs. I’m an ambivert with my own time with work and me time and otherwise I’m always with friends and family. I have a pretty chill family and are very pleasant and jovial. I’m a malayali so i would prefer someone who is malayali because I feel like humour sense work better in Malayalam.
I’m looking for a sorted person, preferably nerdy, someone who is healthy and has clear goals about life very mature and very secure and who can take initiatives and should be an emotionally available person. I’m a foodie too and i cook very well. I’m an independent person who does everything on my own. I’m told I’m pretty. 5’4 in height. I’m not overly religious but would prefer a malayali catholic and I work a lot to uplift other people and I will make my partner’s life the best and i would want someone who can raise me up and not dim my shine ✨

P.S - Hoping you have a good mom who would be a great mil to me 🤩

Heyy this is going to be a long rant. I’m in my thirties and went through a painful divorce. He love bombed me so bad and I gave my soul and life to that relationship only for him to turn in to narcissist. I had no money with me and lost all my identity and i was shrinking so much just to keep the marriage. Then he started getting abusive and started bringing women into our apartment that’s when i filed for a divorce. He then said he would file a mutual settlement divorce only if i give him half my assets or he would abscond out of country if i file a criminal case, i had no choice and gave in and got separated legally. I was so torn and devastated and my mental health went way down. It took me three years to rebuild myself. A friend was seeing all my progress and he offered a comforting shoulder after two years to realise that he is just another predator masquerading as a naive guy. He had two gfs at the same time and i was his hidden gf. It devastated me so bad i find it difficult to interact with men anymore. I really want to get in to a stable healthy relationship but i don’t know where to look. I’m so scared of even having a crush on someone. I’m not in any dating apps because of all the horror stories surrounding them. I can’t do any casual relationship and apparently I don’t know where are the girls people looking for genuine relationships. I get really sad when i go for weddings everyone out there is having their partner and kids and I feel like that dream is ripped off from me. I’m super family oriented but the people i dated and married were not. So what should i do ? And i don’t know how to date as a 30+ woman in kochi? I’m conventionally pretty and people say I’m pretty all the time but I feel like they don’t want to get to know me as a person or my intellect or my soul. That was a long rant. Whew 😰